"So instead of simply going about the "you are wrong, i am right" path, how about you respond to my argument with specific counterpoints."
You are hurting you own side through your inability to respond to reasonable objections to your statements.
Typical fanatic.
You are right, you have the right to believe whatever you want to God. But that is limited to your personal beliefs. You can not redefine a religious term such as Christian to suit your own beliefs.
No matter who wrote the new testament, it is what led to the creation of Christianity, so to say you support the idea of the Christian God, without giving recognition to the basis for Christianity itself is incredibly naive.
P.S. Just because you ban people doesn't make them any less right, or you any less wrong.
True, a fetutus life-ness might be considered not trully alive, but an interesting thing about defining something as alive is that they must go though the basic life processes, including reproduction. Since abortion is interfering with the natural act of reproduction, abortion is going against part of what makes us alive.