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Let me be honest! Yes, I hate washing dishes...because it takes my time and I can do interesting affairs instead of it, even useful for me. Particularly, I noticed that I became to hate washing it recently...my lessons are over my head and this big heap annoyed me. I had to do it in order to not to hear how my mother scolds me. However, I found out that doing dishes has good effects on human organism. Let me introduce them.
Firstly, washing dishes can help to get rid of problems, which you had during hard working day. Professor James John from Harvard Medical School stated: "Water takes stress away". I guess, all of you listen to seashells near seaside. Have you ever noticed it really gives pleasure and you start to dream. It is a murmur of the sea. Therefore, running water under the faucet takes away your troubles and worries, by concentrating on your spiritual condition and thoughts. Also even surrounding things are nothing for you and you do not notice how fast washed your dishes. If look at doing dishes from different angles, it is not hating thing.
Secondly, my piece of advice - try to wash dishes with music. It really helps. Concentrate more on your music or lyrics, just sing or even dance. It is funny. Anyway, it is a good exercise to stretch all body. You want to dance, but you are afraid of that your friends react negatively, even start to laugh at you. It is not problem. Dance where ever you want. At first, start from dancing in front of sink. Just try to find positive sides of doing wishes. I heard that some people even talk to themselves in front of dishes. It sounds crazy, but it is real. Experts recommended to express your negative in a right way and doing wishes even can be one of them, and in near future will be approved.
Finally, all young people get used to complain that they hate that or that. In general, we must stop it. It is simple act to wash dishes. Our mothers did it from their childhood and did enough, and now it our time to continue and help them. We hear that they lived in difficult time and never moaned. We stopped to think how important these words, because we did not face with their problems - when water was a deficit, when food was a deficit, when dishes never washed spotlessly. Shame on us. We need to thank that we have things from what we can drink and eat, that we have enough water even to wash dishes, sink-where to put them. Now is time to get experience to do things double fast in order to be in time in future. Take into consideration, if we spend double less time to ordinary household chores, we have a lot of time for our free time.
To conclude, I wanted you to pay attention to positive sides of everything, which you face with in everyday life. Do not panic, do not hate, because life is so short to hate something or someone. Enjoy every moment. Relax! Take it easy!
I support you in listening to loud music in a bad mood. It really rises a mood and gives a pleasure to relax and forget about outer life. As for me, I prefer Hip-Hop music and it sounds too much loud when I am tired and want to be awaken or my problems are higher and even keep me in stress. In addition, I love a loud music, when I am really inspired by favorite one. I want to listen to it again and again, just like getting it on replay. Also I noticed that fact after pressing a button to play it again, I every time make a volume higher for 1 step.
However, let me tell you about disadvantages of it. I guess, even you know how it damages our hearing. According to the Statistical Department in Medicine Universities across America in 2011, in near 40 years of life people become deaf, especially those people, who work in noisy places and often use telephones. Hearing quickly goes down and cost of rehabilitation is expensive. Now, scientists are developing a new concept how to preserve people from a noise. I wanted to pay your attention to how it is easy to lose your hearing and difficult to revive through tears and pain. Take into consideration 2 ways of solving a problem: to turn music sound down or to stop using headphones. It is not easy, but so you can save you health. Your life in your hands.
I take the view that women should not pay high prices for their beauty! Beauty must be natural.
Being a girl, I think beauty is an inborn and alive quality of women essence. Appearance starts from spiritual beauty, which cannot be bought or made. It appears from the birth. I can declare all women are beautiful. Do not take beauty as appearance. Let's look at this word from different angles. I would like to concentrate on appearance based on spirit, which must be natural. Let me give you 2 arguments, which are mainly about women should spend their money to health, than to look and plastic beauty lives only several years.
Firstly, what is important beauty or health? Most of women choose the first. Years behind and they understand that health is essential, but time is up. Women wear high-heeled shoes in order to be pretty. Yes, it is. But what about plastic surgery. Is it also make you prosperous and beautiful? I think, definitely no. Unfortunately, women forgot their priorities and are addicted to fashion, try to look worthy, just follow modern tendency. You are not only a woman, but also you are a mother. It is needing to think about future. Probably, it would be better to save money for your children, to their education. It is even more useful, than wasting it for operations. As for girls, what for to spend money in so young years? They are wasting money for cosmetics, making up them a lot and their look is disgusting. Being a girl, I hear every girl complains of her weight. Do not eat so much, spend money for gym, spend money for your health. The only thing is to try. Result will be obvious. The best way to spend money is a way to health, the most productive and right.
The second my point is acquired beauty will not live for a long time. After operation, woman should consult her doctor every month. It also takes more money, than it only seems. Every consultation costs 50$. How much operation costs? Very scary question. Every doctor must warn before operation, that it can have unpredictable situations, even silicone can be allergic to body. It can cause other different problems. There is well-known information, that all people become old and plastic surgery will show its consequences. Skin becomes to hang, silicone starts to blow inside. Could you imagine a picture? It is too awful. Tendons are slipped and body becomes thin. It shows that money, which was directed to beauty, actually directed to problems. I am sure, every women does not end her life being emaciated.
In conclusion, do not waste you money, which are earned with efforts, to foolish actions and useless activities. Take care of yourself and be satisfy with yourself...because YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL, AND DO NOT MATTER WHAT THEY SAY!
Hello, Chuck Hades!
This is a good point that none is perfect. You raised up very interesting issue, but I goes against. Let me explain why do I think so?
First of all, leader is a person, who is in front or goes first. This person is not afraid of anything. He is ready to take responsibility for everybody, sacrificing himself. There is one point - we are directors, but only one can be a leader. I can prove it. So, I would like to show you 8 differences between ordinary director and one leader.
1) Director manages, but leader introduces into novelties.
2) Director supports, but leader develops.
3) Director focuses on working system, leader focuses on people.
4) Director relies on control, leader inspires.
5) Ordinary director is short-sighted, leader is forward-looking.
6) The main questions for directors are "How?" and "When?", the beneficial questions for leaders are "What?" and "Why?".
7) Director takes place in status quo. However, leader confuses in status quo.
8) Finally, director takes steps correctly. On the contrary, Leader takes right steps!
To sum up, leader is always in front of the whole community. He thinks deeply and critically analyzes. Therefore, success always supports leader and goes with him besides. In terms of philosophy, all people are leaders. It was said in order to never give up. In reality, the situation is another. You will never get success, if you never try. Leader gets success, because he makes the whole process is productive. That is why, simple director does everything well, but he only gains experience. Leader gets success by creating something new for improvement in the same time.
I would like to appeal to team leader. It is very interesting topic, which I have ever had to join it.
First of all, let me explain what is eavesdropping?
Eavesdropping is interception, listening to the passive interception of data sent over the wire, such as unprotected content transactions. There are passive interception (passive eavesdropping) - interception without affecting the exchange of messages, and active (active eavesdropping).
Eavesdropping is a way, which is combined by 2 synesthetic abilities: hearing and analyzing. Person's organism is organized in this way-we can hear, see, feel, touch, taste without any instructions. We control ourselves, but these synesthetic abilities cannot be controlled by us. They are as instincts. For example, when someone says: "Do not look at my skirt, it is dirty". We immediately look at it. It is like random action and brain does not say-do t. It is reflection or reaction. That is why when we hear someone' talks, our ears catch every sound, because we can hear everything. On the contrary, when you hear someone's talks, some people do it with special goals: it is interesting or important to know. As for interest, we want to hear that, which attracts us and interesting for us-everyday life situation, hobbies, studies and so on. Concerning essence, if scientists talk about new innovation, it is even good to overhear. Anyway, it also bases on interets, but to eavesdrop is useful. We get new information by hearing and watching, that is why it would be better to use these 2 types of abilities in study.
To sum up, passive eavesdropping means to leave conversation without any response. Active eavesdropping means to overhear with concentration. Eavesdropping is planned interception.
Thank you, akmus9293, as well for your supporting my argument!
You have very interesting way of thinking.
Let me disagree with you. Rich people are not always healthier. Bad diseases cover all people, and do not matter in what level of social group you are. As i wrote previously, Middle ages were full of plague. According to the history, poor people fast died without any cure. But, plague touched rich strata of society as well. The reason of their survival is money, I agree. On the contrary, wealthy people died owing to plague. Money could not help them to last out. Even there was not a happy life, because diseases spoiled it. Nobody can buy health. It is not sold. Man can buy some pills, but not health. It is uncountable thing, even abstract. Situation nowadays is the same. From my own experience, my uncle died from cancer. He was rather a rich man. He had medical checkup in Israel. As we know, it is too much expensive. He spent a lot of money for his health, but result was hurtful. He left his footprints on the sense of this time and it is due to his good personality, not because of his high salary and companies he had.
Also you mentioned about people, who are well-known for you. Could you give examples of them?
I would like to focus you on various conditions of lifetime. Did you know that there are people who had a big amount of money and never was famous? For example, Dennis Ritchie. Or there are people, who had not anything, even pennies in their pockets, and now they are famous as much as they dreamed about it. For instance, Steve Jobs. Both of them died in the same month and year. Steve Jobs became famous by his production. As for Dennis Ritchie, he had deep knowledge about computer softwares a lot, but only a small handful of programmers know that he created C and C ++ language. It is languages for softwares. Approximately 90 % of softwares were created in C or C++ languages. I guess, nobody knew before about Dennis, though he had enough money to show himself in this world. It is social factor. Therefore, money can rise you to fame or get you down and everything depends on you.
To sum up, money is bills. It can change some aspects in our lives, but it is not a core, which can help us to held it. That is why, never be hunter-gather in searching for money. You lose your personality, even humaneness.
I take the view that happy life is a life without worries.
How many people, so many minds. Some of them enjoy having a job and career. Others have children and it is enough for them. The rest consider money makes happy life and they find happiness in searching of money.
For me, a combination of 3 factors makes my life happy. Let me explain all these 3 types by turns.
Firstly, every man was born to be a good person, be taught, be a professional, be a parent, grandparent and leaves his footprints on the sense of time. Adulthood cannot happen without job. Each of us finds own interests. It is important not to be mistaken in choosing of job. Getting happiness depends on it as well. "Job is like celebration".
Secondly, having children is a blessing. Not everyone has chance to have children. Why is it so? It is because of irresponsible young people's behavior. I guess, all of you have little brothers and sisters. Have you listened to their laughter? It is careless, so funny and the most pleasant sound. When you hear it, you start involuntarily to smile. Is not it happiness?
Thirdly, money is our impetus. It is really so, when you get money, you feel free yourself. You can breathe freely. If you have money, you can buy not happiness, but a small piece if it, because everything surrounding us makes a little bit happy. Money is just a paper, just a bill...It is important to remember!
In conclusion, a happy day can start from a good mood and tasty breakfast in the morning, excellent business meeting in the afternoon, coming home to close people and having fun in the evening. Probably, it sounds as usual, but if you try, you see that happiness comes over you the whole life by smiling.
Could you imagine you enter to class and robot stands in front of you? What is your reaction? Robots also have computer programming. It means it has not any feelings at all. Probably, it can be more strict than teachers.
However, computers should not replace teachers, because traditional learning is natural, teachers can help in gaining an experience and lack of communication badly influence students.
Firstly, any alternative or on-line education cannot teach students well. Each method of studying requires consolidation of knowledge. Computer can suggest any tests to drill all materials. It is theoretical method. Teachers can teach a rule of thumb. Practical knowledge covers many spheres and the best of them is communication.
Secondly, every students is tired of teachers' stories from their personal life. Several of them think about background of story. It is teacher's personal experience and does he or she waste his/her time because of children do not listen to them? No...They want us know about life, difficulties, hindrances and barriers. Take some electives from teachers, and you notice that it is not only lesson-it is a big chance to feel like adult during 1 hour.
Thirdly, we face with problem as withdrawn students. Computers only ruin people, locking them. Lack of communication occurs because of defect of face-to-face and alive association. Computers try to solve this problem by organizing Skype, Ovvo etc. programs, but it has technical problems with pictures and sound.
In conclusion, teachers are our best advisers, tutors and spiritual leaders. Computers are just devices and no more. Never change people to gadgets.
I support your point of view! Stereotype was not changed. Even if look through 18, 19 and 20 centuries, we can see that people were rich. Wealth depended on money at all. More money - more fame. What is a situation nowadays? The same. People try to earn more money to be a person, even if it sounds awfully. It is scary truth.
Money became as problems solvers. There are some examples: you are ill, pay more money, because you will have more pills for recovery. You need a job, pay money-you will have a job, even on the high level, though you graduated from university and not have enough experience. You want to eat, pay money for products. What else...Everything depends on money. Money surrounds us.
On the contrary, success starts from money, but development depends on person's skills, does not it? As an example- you paid money and what? As well you paid, as you can be dismissed from job, because you did not anything at all and you are unprofessional. You should know that money cannot solve all problems. It can only facilitate, but the working process do not face with money.
People get used to think that easy money comes easily. It is a mistake. Easy money comes easily and goes away the same. If you want to be convinced that it is...look at Beyonce Knowles. She is R'n'B singer. Have a look at her concerts. She works hard, making a lot of efforts by physical activity. She uses physical efforts. Others use mental efforts, for instance scientists. Cannot they get money by making new innovations and discovering new things? Art and science are important aspects in people's lives.
Money can help us to succeed, but it also can turn us into predators. We should control ourselves and an itch for making more money.
First of all, how many people, so many minds. In given situation debate creator told the truth regarding himself or herself, but he or she is not all people.
You are right, all of us need an impetus, but we cannot wait this stimulus from outside. Our lives in our hands. Human beings were created with a big power to work out and develop. Also, I agree that problems can ruin people's lives, but as everybody knows, people are highly-developed creatures. We are responsible for ourselves. We control ourselves, even in a daily manner: what to eat, what to drink, what to wear and so on. Cannot you control your problems? Exactly those fears, insecurities and vulnerabilities come over us and problem solver is Human. Yes, we derive strength from music, art, movies, theater, but take notice - everything were created by people. Even you can create something for yourself in order to push yourself to believe in everything is okay.
I totally disagree with you in the point of mental strength. It is an inborn quality. Let's take some examples. Who decide to give up smoking? This process takes place in our head. We can bring people to trust us by mental strength. It is obvious that some people can use their mentality in a right way, others just put aside and live with emotions and instincts. Leadership gives opportunities to personal development and also to gain experience. However, how this quality will develop depends on person. If he is weak and afraid of everything, leadership stays in immobile position. If person is active and try to overcome all fears, it works.
There was mentioned "nobody can come closely to perfection", yes it is true. But we can try to be perfectionist even if for once. Only to try to bring yourself to make things as leaders. Time management is in the first place. It is hard, but productive.
I can strongly declare that leadership cannot be acquainted to everyone, but everybody can feel a small piece of it. Each of us wakes up with feelings to change something in our lives, but most of us try to forget about it as much as it appears. It is easy giving up!
I strongly recommend to all of you-never give up, because what does not kill us makes us stronger!!!!! Only have a look at our presidents, prime-ministers and administrators...you can see they are fighters.
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