"•One man and the virgins he decides to keep as spoils of war" How do we know this man chose women virgins as spoils of war?? Unless, we are saying men can't be virgins? Care to explain??

Some women like men some women like women.. Some men like women some men like men. I have no idea why this is such a difficult concept to grasp, how does it hurt anybody if someone decides to love whoever they love? It hurts nobody if a women decides she wants to marry another women, it is not killing anybody if a man decides to marry a man. Now get over yourselves and mind your own business, as long as nobody is trying to like force you into same sex marriage you're fine. You'll live, thank you and have a nice day.