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I think it depends on what the person's parents say follow that rule for guidance. if you are and orphan then follow the rules of your government or orphanage.
I love it when you use the "I know ya are but what am I?" argument that we all learn at around 5 years old... it makes me smile from ear to ear. Thank you buddy!
I didn't call you a virgin, I just said you wish I'd fuck you and are so angry that I am not into you that you instead insult my sexual prowess in order to justify me not lusting you.
A man who has many casual sexual partners is called a douche bag and STD carrier, who fears commitment and is the living definition of infidelity. Basically a recipe for disaster.
This is not due to religion; religion supports monogamy for both genders.
This is actually due to a very basic concept; who bears the baby.
Women play the game to get the best QUALITY mate and keep that mate for themselves and their offspring to protect them and nurture them (as well as her). Men play the game to get the most QUANTITY of partners in order to be safer when and if any offspring happen to be miscarriages or deformed, infertile or whatever. Their aim is to spread their seed far and wide and then take care of any kids who happen to be healthy and sane enough further down the line.
Actually it is a lot less sinister than you think...
The names were made firstly to discourage women from ending up without any man at all to protect her or raise her young as well as preventing her form making many female enemas by her activities and ending up truly left for dead by the 'tribe' (or whatever equivalent there was). On the flip side, the term 'player' was invented much later on when rape became a no-go so brute strength was no longer the deciding factor and instead wealth and charm became opposing skill sets in the 'game' that one could play with (in reality some people are both rich and charming but they tend to not bother to 'play' with sex and instead play with business partners, backstabbing and all).
Well, as charming as these stories of yours are, I would never in my wildest nightmares go to my mother for sex advice, and although she will be welcome to ask for my input any time, I'm not stupidly naive, so I won't expect her to do so. I can only raise her well to make good choices, but in the end its always one's own.
I will raise my kids properly. They will discuss all with me, even the filthy stuff. I will approve of their spouses and friends and if they try to hang out with a rough crowd against my wishes I will send them off to some really harsh boarding school until they beg me to come back , if i can afford it that is. I won't have kids until I can afford that.
You're a 20 year old virgin giving advice on raising children to a 20 year old girl who actually had sex and had a baby... this shit is priceless! Hahahahaha! Please, please, go on
I plan on fucking your wife, having you and her raise her and my biological kid as your own that gets abused by your sick ass and then to be its foster parent.
Living in a controlling and harsh environment actually makes children more subservient and on average less successful than children who lived in a warm and permissive household.
I don't think it's one specific day when you suddenly magically turn old enough to have sex. It varies, some mature faster than others and I think it's just something you have to decide yourself.. it's not like anyone can do anything to stop you anyway.
Yeah, right. Like, I hear in those liberal countries like yours and Sweden and Norway and Iceland and France that a girl who still has her cherry at age 15 is often teased by her peers for being an old maid.
From an online article, with a personal testimony from a Danish teen.........
The recent New York Times article “Sex in a Teenager’s Room?” has generated a lot of conversation, including interesting articles in Slate and the Huffington Post. But for me, the most spirited debate has been taking place in private Facebook groups consisting of Danish women living in America. I’m not Danish, but I had the good fortune to come of age sexually while living in Denmark as a teenager. I wish everyone could be so lucky.
Back in the 1970s, long before it was popular to take a “gap year” between high school and college, I did so by embarking on a high school exchange student experience after I graduated, at the age of 17. The American Field Service program randomly sent me to Denmark.
In Denmark, it is common for teenage couples to spend the night together in each other’s homes. (As in the Netherlands, as detailed in a book by Amy Schalet, “Not Under My Roof: Parents, Teens and the Culture of Sex”). This was certainly not how I’d grown up. Though my parents were self-styled liberals, I lost my virginity in a typically American way: in the back seat of my high school crush’s car, parked in the high school parking lot during a school dance. I remember asking my parents, when I was about 10, where babies came from, and my parents fumbled through a faux-jokey response.
He is saying as common in Denmark for teenagers to have sex at each other's houses as it is for USAian teenagers to have sex in the back seat of a car. I think you misunderstood him.
In any case, you are a little foolish to disagree with a native Dane over what happens in Denmark when your only source of reference is a guy that spent 1 year in Denmark as a minor in the 1970s.
Well I live and grew up here, in Copenhagen even. I have plenty of friends who waited quite a while, and even some at my age who have yet to give the ''v-card''
As far as I'm concerned they have never experienced mockery or bashing for that, plus teenage-pregnancy is record low here, which contradicts your so called substantiated fact.
My point was that Denmark isn't the only country keen on birth control. All european countries have a large use of contraception, not all of them have as low a rate of teenage pregnancy as Denmark, which doesn't explain SS' theory that we bash teenagers who aren't sexually active.
Actually they all do have low teenage pregnancy rates in the west of Europe.
The reason that UK's is higher than the other EU-West nations is that UK has a much less enthusiastic culture than most EU-west nations regarding sex education and the 'hush hush' attitude parents take backfires in the long run especially in rough neighbourhoods where their 14 yer old daughter are out loving every squirt until oopsy a baby's on the way at 16.
Danes have a record for most content populace, not for lowest birth rates.
Obviously since the country is so small it probably is second place to luxembourg at raw teenage birth rate counts but relative to its population size, teenage pregnancy in Denmark is not really lower than Sweden or Germany. If it is, it is barely so.
If my ego was "bruised" I don't see how this would make it feel better? Now you're just saying random shit because you don't know what else to say. LOL
Why don't you just go ahead and delete this argument... come on, just do it. ;)
It makes you feel better because in your subconscious mind you have drawn a link between insulting me and complimenting yourself relative to me.
In actuality you have not bettered yourself at all, especially not relative to others but in that small moment where you call me vb4l it gives you a glimmer of hope that you will somehow feel sexually powerful and superior to me and others, then it loses its magic so you need to re-insult to feel good again,
And you're not? I'm only a dick to a few people, very few... you are a dick to everyone, you've hacked the site multiple times (as recently as yesterday), you've been banned multiple times, and you've point farmed multiple times. Deal with it.
This is a bold statement coming from someone who likely lives in the teen pregnancy capital of the world. I don't think they air shows like "16 and pregnant" in Sweden.
Although it is a person's choice, it should provably wait until 25. This is because a person's brain, specifically their prefrontal cortex, or decision making control center, usually continues to develop until then. Then they would be able to consider all the options and choose if they really want to do something or not.
According to Eccentric, only UK is a reasonable country. The entire Europe is a filthy oligarchy the libtards and mainstream media repwhoreters dare to say matters.
As for USA: WOOOOOOOOOOOOO the rebels defeated the staus wuo OMG we are annihilating the PC bitches WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO...
Oh wait, he's in the majority now, doesn't that make his cuck boys the mainsteam? xD
The mother in me says NEVER!!!....or at least not until you find the right partner to have children. The realist in me says....."........" sorry the mother in me is still screaming.
Really though, I would prefer my child to wait until they are at least an adult. I know that's not realistic but the consequences are SO large. When you have a child your life isn't your own anymore and you have to be ready for it. I want my children to talk to me and I won't judge them if a mistake happens, we'll get through it...ok, I may judge them a little, but we will get through it as a family. I think the main thing is teaching my daughter that she has to be sure about the partner. And teaching my son the same.
It varies with the maturity of each individual. I would say the minimum is puberty (no one who hasn't even hit puberty yet should be losing their virginity), the norm is junior/senior years of high school, the universal legal threshold in the US would be 18 (some places are earlier, but if you want defendable in any state it would be 18), and the wisest scenario is you lose it after you can legitimately support yourself and others financially, but let's face it very few people really wait that long.
