Blackpeoplemeet.com Racist?
After seeing a TV commercial on Blackpeoplemeet.com I couldn't help but to think what if it was Whitepeoplemeet.com, wouldn't the the black community throw a goddam fit having the NAACP and Al Sharpton all over the news trying to ban the site. my question if one can do it why can all and if you feel that sites like this are racist and okay for main stream TV?
Hell yeah it's racist
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No it's not racist
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So troo, but as Iamdavidh said, they would have nothing to complain about... They enjoy being separated... seems to me, or at least I feel this way, the thought is more so "I want to be equal, as we are the same but I'm different, in more unique ways"... Simply Put - in the future I will refer to myself as Italian-American. Side: Hell yeah it's racist
This is really where things get interesting. Of course it is racist, but what it really is showing is the manifestation of reverse discrimination! While I am not judging the historical suffering of people of color, I am asking the question "When do we stop paying for past transgressions?" Side: Hell yeah it's racist
What is this so called "reverse discrimination"? Discrimination is discrimination. You ask "When do we stop paying for past transgressions?". My question to you: "is the site is punishing you in any way?" As for being in the past, racism is still going strong today, both by black people and white people. Shops still have the right to refuse entry to black (or white) people and some still do. Bad business yes, but perfectly legal. I personally have no problem with the site. It is for black people who prefer other black people. Other sites give you a choice of what race you prefer. There are also sites for people who just want sex and yet others for gay people and lesbians. Racist, perhaps, but nothing to whip yourself into a frenzy about. Side: No it's not racist
Dear egga, My comments are not driven from the fact I think the site is racist, nor do I think it is really reverse discrimination, but it is a segregation that is occurring because of the past history of the US and slavery. If you go to England, there are many races coexisting without any real racism. Now, I am not saying they don't have their own issues (classes, religion, ect.) are all areas they have trouble with. The question is how do we get beyond it all? Side: Hell yeah it's racist
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it's prob. b/c there's less black people...but according to the US Census, by 2040 or around that time..whites will be the minority in this country. would it then be ok to make a whitepeoplemeet.com? it's also gonna be weird that a minority will be the most responsible race.. Side: Hell yeah it's racist
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This site discriminates due to race reasons. It's primary aim is based on the idea that races exists and the black people cannot use in a convenient way other existing services. Avoids the mix between the races, and finally assumes that the discrimination is natural hence assumes this service as natural. Side: Hell yeah it's racist
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I think the idea is there are less black people. It's like 17% of the population or something. In reality most dating sites are "whitepeoplemeet.com" they just don't have to call it that because there are more. Probably if one happens to want to meet a black person regular dating sites are too filled with non-black people to make searching efficient. It's not like their spewing "I hate whitey" on the site. Just sounds like one of thos right wing self-victimization things where they start crying how bad they have it. Kinda pathetic. Side: No it's not racist
Yeah, as I figured. From their site: Eligibility. You must be at least 18 years of age to access and use the Service. You must also be single or separated from your spouse to use the Service. Any use of the Service is void where prohibited. By accessing and using the Website, you represent and warrant that you have the right, authority and capacity to enter into this Agreement and to abide by all of the terms and conditions of this Agreement. If you become a Member, you represent and warrant that you have never been convicted of a felony and that you are not required to register as a sex offender with any government entity. Using the Service may be prohibited or restricted in certain countries. If you use the Service from outside of the United States, you are responsible for complying with the laws and regulations of the territory from which you access or use the Website or Service. It's marketed toward black people, again likely due to the difficulty of finding black singles, them being 17% of the population. I or any white person seems to be allowed to join however. Side: Hell yeah it's racist
That's all completely true. But equality is equality. Equality doesn't care about numbers.. Equality can sometimes seem brutal. If you think about it.. For example if I was the head of a company and I was going to hire 10 people and the 10 best most qualified people for the job were asian women then I would hire 10 asian women. Why shouldn't I? If I thought they were the most skilled and qualified? With total equality I wouldn't have anything to prove. I wouldn't be required to show diversity. It's not a pro asian women thing(or an anti everybody els thing), it's a pro skill and qualification thing. Let's look at a question asked by the debate creator: "wouldn't the the black community throw a goddam fit having the NAACP and Al Sharpton all over the news trying to ban the site." -That's a little extreme isn't it. But people on the other side would be angry there's no denying that. I don't know if they would say "you can't do that" (we're not necessarily talking about rights or laws) but they would be angry or annoyed at the very least. So with total equality is there any validity in their aggravation? This poses three interesting questions; Do we really want equality? Do we really have equality? And is the idea of total equality even realistic? 1. I do. But sad to say a lot of people black and white want the opposite. 2.&3;. Hard to say. We've come a long way but it's difficult to achieve because of human nature. Given that I think we're doing a decent job. But we don't have nor will we ever have pure total equality because of people getting fussy over pro white things and vice verse. (These are honest questions I actually had to think about) I do agree that for efficiency there would be need for a website like this. And I don't think the website is racist by the way. EDIT: Ok so I probably shouldn't have actually "disputed" your argument because I really didn't dispute anything you said. I kind of got on a tangent about equality. Heck this could have been it's own debate. (; Side: Hell yeah it's racist
Good points. I'm in agreement with most of it. The dating and job comparison though is not quite accurate. Dating you are judging your own attraction as much as what another offers, and this is normal. It should not necessarily be the case for a job. So if I am attracted to brunettes more than blonds and I own a company I would not be in the right to hire brunettes even if there are more qualified blonds based on my attraction. I would have that right in dating though. So wanting to date people of a particular skin color, or being more attracted to a particular shade of flesh is not necessarily racially motivated any more than liking green eyes better than blue would be, in and of itself. I mean, there could be negative biases associated with attraction on some level, but it is not necessarily the case, and it isn't really fair to assume the worst of another due to who they are physically attracted to. So the job and the dating comparisons are a little off I think. Otherwise I'm basically in agreement. Side: No it's not racist
I am in agreement with iamdavidh, this is not a "racist" site when you consider that the vast majority of other sites of the same kind are, without implying it, are more available to the majority of white users. The site has not discriminated by not allowing other races to join, but only to point out that this is a place for black singles to meet. There are many other sites for christians (christianmingle.com), jewish (jdate.com), even red heads (dateginger.com) to meet people with similar tastes, interests, or backgrounds. Side: No it's not racist
First off, justifying the site note being racist, as there are other sites are more available to white users.. those same sites are available to black users, not true with blackpeoplemeet.com... also christian, jewish - is a MIND set not a physical attribute, and dateginger.com ... uhh you can dye ur hair RED, ANYONE can be Christian, jewish or a redhead... -basically the difference is uhh genetics maybe? sorry, not following you... Side: Hell yeah it's racist
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