Ive been married for sixteen years with two kids, we now have almost nothing in common ( apart from ensuing my kids have a good life) . i have meet another woman who i a have fell for and we have everything in common ( and i think that's why i fell for her my wife and her are both hot), we both like Hard Techno Music, we both like Horror films, we both have some belief system and we both like each other. With my wife we are always fighting, we have an argument at-less cone a week, normally about how i am behaving, she thinks i should not act how i do. For example i don't take any shit from anyone, had some fuck wit move my shopping trolley out the way, and i just looked at this person , my wife did not like it and she walked out of the supermarket. This happens ALL THE TIME! i am sick and tied of the fighting and conflicting interest, I have changed so much for her and am not changing any more! I am always told what to do, what to get, how i should think etc etc. on and on and on and on!!! Normally i just hold back and go yup, no prob, well do, OK, yup. Its really making me unhappy , and now since i have meet XXX that i kissed once ( I know some of u may think i am a scumbag and sometimes i fell like that myself) But when she came over to my house for a meeting , we drink vodka, and listen to Mother F>>>>EN hard techno with my laser pulled out, and danced alone, I really felt so attractive to her, as i have never danced with my wife or anyone else like that! Before we did this i was sitting at the kitchen table with her, and we didn't talk anything retreated to business, she told me all details about her, so open ( just like me ) i also tell complete strangers stuff about me, ( my wife would say, don't do that ). XXX is also very hard , a hard woman, i also find that more attractive then my wife's soft touch. XXX also likes to drink and party, and she is exactly one month younger then me, we are both 37 ( my wife is 42) , both Dragons. I used to drink before i meet my wife but stopped it, things between us are so bad that i sleep in a different room, she moved two a different room when she caught me posting to a You Tube video porn star, like two years ago, we have sex now and again , but i am a dirty mo-fo i and must be missing something as i look at porn at-less once a week. I don't believe in two timing my wife and unfortunately or fortunately have broken this. i kissed XXX once and touched her body. I had not felt that good or that much in love ever, we have sent like a few thousands text messages to each other, and i have took two 1.30 half hour trips to see her, and talked to her all day long expressing how i feel, on the last trip or bought her a hand crafted Dragon ring, that she accepted, and now i have it planned that we are going to restaurant and then night cubing after in two weeks time, i have even told her i would marry her and leave my wife, when I think about her i feel very excited, when i think about my wife i think when is the next fight going to happen. I sought of love my wife but i hate all this crap that happens, my daughter even gets afraid of me as sometimes i will lose control in front of her verbally towards my wife. I must say but i do find XXX more attractive then my wife, i think its because i like the slutty look, XXX uses allot of makeup, XXX also has two kids 18 and 13. My wife and her are both Asian (My wife is from Taiwan ) and XXX is from Cambodia. The issue on leaving my wife is my kids, we do it for the kids! but its harming my daughter , seeing the fighting all the time. and true my wife has helped me allot education wise and i have a good job and my own company now. And I'm getting sick of it when she keeps telling me we should get a device and just be mates, i was thinking the next time she says it, i should say OK! and get together with XXX.

Meeting XXX has made my life very complex but now i know what I'm missing out on, someone with common interest, I have tried the other way for sixteen years and now i think its time to move on. I'm going to have to meet her a few times to be sure as friends and then will tell my wife, my wife has even said to me getting with me was a mistake, and she said why don't we have a second chance. Should i go for it, Maybe she is right?