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Yes, it is. no, it isn't.
Debate Score:9
Arguments:9
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Does age matter in relationship?

many of us have different view on this questions. Nowadays we can see many couples with big disparity in years. What do you thing about it?

Yes, it is.

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no, it isn't.

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It seems to me that age is matter in relationship. If you will have a partner who is 35, you are 20 it will difficult to have a relationship. Because you have different lives you are young you want to go to the club or cinema with friends, want him to do romantic acts. However he is 35 he is tired from clubs. He want to have family, children.

Side: Yes, it is.
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I believe it is. For me is matter if age between me and my partner is large. I don't have the husband or boyfriend age about 30, because I am only 20. And after 20 year, I will watch to old man. And our children will at age when they should be educated and marry, my husband perhaps cannot provide them and satisfy their expectations . That is why I want to get married to my coeval.

Side: Yes, it is.
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Statistics on modern relationships have shown that the majority of people partner with someone who is within three to five years of their own age. But as our society has become more accepting, we have begun to see ever-increasing age gaps in relationships. It's not uncommon now to see partners with an age difference of ten to fifteen years or even more. And I take under consideration that there can arise some problems in coulpels with wide age gaps.One of the most immediate issues for partners with large age differences is that they are at different points in their lives in regards to their careers, family, travel and general experience. If the older partner has experienced many major milestones already, they may not be interested in doing it all over again.

Side: Yes, it is.

falling in love is something beautiful .when ever you find love and you are happy enjoy it.but there is a reality that has to come into play and that is an older man or woman obviously has more life experience and has seen and done more.here is whats going to happen,one will be forever trying to catch up and the other trying to keep up. at 45 a mature man or woman has different interest than 25 year old,that just a fact, most 25 year old are still trying to figure out what direction they really want to go in their life,whereas a 45 year old most of the time has figured it out,there will no doubt be contentions that will lead to the end of that relationship. that does NT mean that the love wasn't there but ..too many differences start to pile up... age does matter''

Side: Yes, it is.

Just ask a pedophile if age matters. ;)

Side: Yes, it is.

Maturity is a serious factor in relationships, and I would like to point out that it is not nessacarily determind by age. For example, a fifty-year-old and a twenty-year-old could be in a relationship and at the same maturity level. If you're in a relationship with a guy or girl that takes advantage of you or abuses you, it makes no difference what you're situation is, they'll do that no matter what, and that's not a good person to be in a relationship with anyway. Anyone can have emotional baggage, it's not just older people. A younger person can be at a higher emotional level than the older person, and have more emotional baggage. That "dominant partner" struggle is present in any relationship-whether the partner is smarter, more mature, or older, there's one in every relationship. They just have to overcome it. Relationships with age gaps are very common these days. The way you were raised just determines if you accept it or not. Love is the only factor that should really matter in relationships.

So, in conclusion, age does not matter in relationships. The only determining factor is love and happiness. And for us to say it is wrong for a 45-year-old to be married to a 23-year-old is wrong. It is not our place for us to judge them just as it is not our place to judge two married people that are different races.

Side: no, it isn't.
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I dont think its a big deal, the important thing is that both people are happy

Side: no, it isn't.

No it does not. There are couples who are far in age that are much happier than close aged ones. The reason is that though it may seem taboo to ordinary people, they themselves feel a connection and thus transpose that blindness in society into a challenge that they can last. Thus forming a harmonious couple. So it does not matter.

Side: no, it isn't.
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I think it is no matter which age you are, if you fall in love.If a person really falls in love he doesn't look at the apperarance,color reputation and so on.Because love is blind.The same is with age.No matter which age is your lover , if you understand each other good, respect each other this are the main things in relationship.

Side: no, it isn't.