Have you ever had a one night stand?
Me and Hitler had a debate the other day, can't remember exactly what made us fight about this particular subject, but Hitler seems to think one night stands are extremely rare and as if I remember correctly he thinks anyone, or at least any girl, who has a one night stand has daddy issues.
I come from a country where every single one of my friends has had a drunken night that ended up in a one night stand, and some have even had a sober one too.
I know that my country is .. I don't know what to call it, but .. not as old-fashioned if you will, when it comes to sex. Most people have multiple partners in their lifetime, I doubt many people are virgins before they marry, and most people lose their virginity before 16.
Even though I know that my courtny is a bit extreme, I refuse to believe that one night stands are rare in America.
So everyone who is willing to share whether he or she has had a one night stand, a fuck buddy or something in that .. category, please pick a side, so we will end the fight between me and Hitler.
I have never had a ONS
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I have had a one night stand
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I have never had a one night stand, but I am also asexual. Regarding cultural differences, the United States has a strong pretense about being non-promiscuous but really is not that prudish (the nation ranked 6 out of 48 nations for promiscuity; source). Worth noting, the same source cited above indicates that one night stands may be connected to liberality, social attitudes, and fertility (...rather than to some assumed "daddy issues"). Side: I have never had a ONS
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Never have and never plan on doing so. I might do it for fun one day as I still have most of my life ahead of me and am not that bad looking but, in all honesty, it's far more fun to have a fulfilling relationship as opposed to a fuck-and-leave culture of whores and jackasses. I'm more conservative that I care to admit. Side: I have never had a ONS
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I've had three one night stands that I recall, all alcohol influenced. Two of them I ended up dating after re-meeting a few weeks or months later, one I never saw again. On a couple of other occasions, I've woken up after blacking out in compromising positions that strongly suggested I had a one night stand with an unknown partner who vacated before I awoke. I can't claim those because I cant really confirm anything happened. It was obvious that I had action of some sort when I went to use the restroom, but it's possible that some or all of them were just nearly-blacked-out wanks. I also did the f-buddy thing for a while, but it was also an ex-girlfriend. I'm not sure if that counts as an f-buddy exactly. Side: I have had a one night stand
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I believe I'm slated to go to hell. I am now trying desperately to find a way into heaven. If anyone out there dies before me, please put in a good word me. Tell God how I never disputed anyone and didn't call them names and always ended my comments with smileys. However, if heaven is loaded with liberals, don't bother ;) Side: I have never had a ONS
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