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Easy... Doesn't make sense
Debate Score:8
Arguments:18
Total Votes:8
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How can someone HATE kids?

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Doesn't make sense

Side Score: 4
1 point

It depends on the person, really. Being around young kids for a really long time can really take a toll on you. To be fair, I probably would not enjoy bring with myself as a young kid either.

Side: Easy...
lupusFati(790) Clarified
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Yeah, I forgot to mention that point. I really cannot deal with children for too long as it just drains me... but then, interaction with adults drains me, albeit slower. It's how I'm hardwired.

Side: Easy...
GuitarGuy(6096) Clarified
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I understand getting annoyed when you're around kids for a while. You're at completely different levels of intelligence, but don't you get the same feeling anytime you are with a person who you are significantly smarter than? Hating someone and being annoyed by them are two different things.

Side: Easy...
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While I would actually say I dislike children, instead of hate, some people just are not able to deal with them. I have a hard time myself dealing with my younger sister. She tends to annoy the crap out of me, but she's also a clear mirror that I'm not yet ready to be a father.

Also, while the Sims 3 is hardly real life, they DO have the trait 'Dislikes Children' for a reason.

Side: Easy...
GuitarGuy(6096) Clarified
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I know it is a real trait, but I don't understand it. Saying you don't like to be around children makes sense, but why dislike children as a whole? They aren't all bad.

Side: Easy...
lupusFati(790) Clarified
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I've seen stranger things. Like, I personally don't understand the foot fetish. But it's a real thing. In a less 'sexual' topic, there are people who 'hate' meat of any kind, but that doesn't mean meat is a bad thing.

These are just the quirks and personalities of individuals. Just because you don't understand it doesn't make it any less valid... of course, what they do as a result of 'disliking children' does matter.

Side: Easy...
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It depends on the person, for example, someone may think of them as stupid and lazy, while others don't.

Side: Easy...
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Very easily they are loud and annoying. I have no patience for kids and I know that since I've had two younger siblings and they've put me off completely.

Side: Easy...
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Some people say they never had kids because they don't like them, but that doesn't make sense to me. How do you hate kids when you were once a kid yourself? Don't get me wrong, there are some serious brats out there, but they can't help that they're kids. It's an essential part of life.

Side: Doesn't make sense
lupusFati(790) Clarified
1 point

Because you are no longer a child and therefore have the qualification of deciding whether you do or do not like children. Perhaps, looking back on your own childhood, you realize what a brat (or lack thereof) you were as a child.

Maturity and hindsight tend to do these things.

Side: Easy...

They say they hate kids, but they don't hate kids. They just can't stand them.

It's just like saying you love cake. You don't love cake, you like cake.

Side: Doesn't make sense
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I don't know... have you ever seen the show Taboo on National Geographic? There's a woman who is literally in love with the Berlin Wall. I wouldn't be suprised if someone felt that way about cake.

Side: Doesn't make sense
lupusFati(790) Clarified
1 point

The cake is a lie .

Side: Easy...
shoutoutloud(4303) Clarified
1 point

Clearly those people are mentally and socially fucked up .

Side: Easy...

Its pretty easy to hate a kid. I'm saying I don't hate kids, I like them. But say you were babysitting one of your friend's kid, and they kept begging you for something and you said no and they kept going, 'please, please, please, please' on and on and on until you gave it to them. But you would have to be a total selfish brat to hate them afterward. I guess I'm both sides. If i had to choose one it would be doesn't make sense.

Side: Doesn't make sense
GuitarGuy(6096) Clarified
1 point

I'm not talking about hating one kid; I mean kids as a whole.

Side: Easy...