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Debate Score:31
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 Dirty hands feet and appearance (4)
 
 bad teeth (3)
 
 Most things (1)

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Instant Turn Off - What's Yours?

We all have different and many things that turn us ON about people in general but how about when you're getting attracted to someone?  What are the things that are an instant turn-off for you guys and ladies?  Let your imagination run wild on this one and list as many things as you wish!

 

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IT'S AN OPINION, NOT LIFE OR DEATH!Sealed


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I have several I can throw onto the table beginning with;

1. Dirty hands and feet.

2. A person who has no grasp of the English language and I do not mean a foreigner!

3. An overall unkempt appearance and BAD teeth.

4. A person who talks a lot but has nothing to say!

5. One who is unaware of time and place when they dress.

6. A phony to the nth degree.

7. One who curses way too much.

8. An impolite or unmannerly person.

9. An arrogant or stupid person.

204 days ago | Tagged As: Dirty hands feet and appearance
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1) Corpulence

2) Authoritarianism

3) Affectation toward materialism

4) Lack of intellect

204 days ago
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bad teeth are my only instant turn off.

I find there's no other one thing that cannot be made up for with something else.

204 days ago | Tagged As: bad teeth
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Typical stuff, I suppose.

-Major on the teeth.

-The smell of smoke on someone from smoking, in other words, smokers in general.

-Someone who likes to drink alcohol more than, like, once a week, if ever.

-Rude behavior/downgrading another person.

-Callused feet (I mean, what the heck, how hard is it to wash your feet every night)?

-Selfishness.

-Disrespect.

-And pushiness, (as in not taking no for answer and accepting it as is).

204 days ago | Tagged As: bad teeth
- HGrey87(737) Supported
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Calluses on feet do not mean dirty feet. They are the natural product of skin that takes a lot of stress and friction, such as the fingertips of a guitarist or the palms of a workman. They occur regardless of how much someone bathes. If you obsessively remove calluses through exfoliating, you risk weakening the still-living skin and opening it up to damage.

204 days ago
- Nichole(670) Supported
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Well, perhaps it depends what you're wearing when working then? I understand constant wear of flip flops and sandals raise the likely hood of getting them, but most people work in socks and shoes... and I've never had calluses from such. I wear flip flops almost daily and when I shower, I wash my feet with a facecloth, like I do with the rest of my body and rarely get calluses. So.... I really do think they're more likely to result if someone just doesn't wash their feet every day. I dunno, it's still gross if they rub their foot against you and it's rough. Hands, I get it, but the feet, uh uh.

204 days ago | Tagged As: bad teeth
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when he talks about past sex life/experiences

maybe its just me but i dont want to know what dirty farm hooker he's been with or which carrot he used with which to plough her

or when his ex was pissing him off so he waited till she was asleep got her naked n shoved it completely dry up her ass

I DONT WANT TO KNOW!

it really turns me off

i like to live in blissful ignorance in this respect.

204 days ago | Tagged As: past sex life or experiences
- Kuklapolitan(4226) Supported
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Wow Chicken...those things would turn anyone off. That kind of stuff is horrible and why he shares that with you is anyone's guess! I suspect it's your husband and you must tell him, in no uncertain terms, that this way of speaking is totally unacceptable.

204 days ago | Tagged As: Dirty hands feet and appearance
- HGrey87(737) Supported
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Most sex therapists encourage intimate couples to disclose a bit of their histories. It's a learning experience that helps them understand and please each other better. However, they should use their intuition to avoid causing insecurity or disgust, and tailor their use of this to their partner.

Before I got a bit more experience and comfort with sex, I was often put off by this kind of thing. As I've gotten older and left behind teenage insecurity however, I've become far more accepting of disclosure.

204 days ago
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A turn off for me is a person who is full of themselves and lets everyone know that they think they are the best

Another is when a girl you ask out gets to personal during the first date, question wise.

204 days ago | Tagged As: personally
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Fat people. I know, what a horrible answer. Chances are if you live in America, you're fat. So you might take this personally. But it's a personal choice; I wouldn't have chosen it if I had a choice in the matter, considering I live in a very overweight city (San Antonio, TX).

204 days ago
- HGrey87(737) Supported
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This anonymous downvoting is really getting out of hand. There's no reason to do it to my personal opinion. But I hope you feel satisfied now, you fat loser fuck.

204 days ago
- Nichole(670) Supported
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Ya, I'm noticing all the random downvotings too and it's annoying. It's throwing off our efficiency ratio's for no good reason. And the worst part, it's probably a teenager doing it. Ugh.

204 days ago
- Kuklapolitan(4226) Supported
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Hubba Ding my pal, Hubba Ding! >>>>>>>>>>;>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

203 days ago
- Kuklapolitan(4226) Supported
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You have your vote back my friend! +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++

203 days ago
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Turn offs are as follows:

Bad Hygiene

Bad Breath

Chicks that Smoke cigarettes

Women that do not take care of their physical appearance...this does not include naturally large people...

Just to name a few.

204 days ago
- Kuklapolitan(4226) Supported
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Ouchy! My Being hates me because I smoke! Phooey ;>)

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203 days ago
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Bad Language (F word, etc)

Smoking

Trying to act dumb around guys

Liberal Politics -okay so if we don't agree on everything it's not a big deal, but if they are the opposite opinions to almost everything it will annoy me.

I am only human.

To be fare there should be a turn on debate.

204 days ago
- Kuklapolitan(4226) Supported
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True, True...you've got it! `````````````````````````````````````````

203 days ago
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A chastity belt. I mean, I see a chastity belt and I'm like, "Forget it. This is too much work." I guess I'm getting lazy in my old age. I don't want to work for it anymore. If you're going to give it to me, give it to me. Don't make me jump through hoops. My bones are brittle for crying out loud ;)

203 days ago
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Bad Hygiene

Low Vocabulary and redundant use of words

Bias

Lack of structure or ambition (in general)

Lack of understanding

Lack of awareness and concern (especially of other people)

Lack of common courtesy and respect

Lack of appreciation

Lack of intelligence

Lack of experience (in certain areas which usually means they are one of the above if not more)

Lack of confidence (in general), will power, and courage

Lack of excitement

Self-importance

Lack of straight, thought out, standards of morals and ethics.

Lack of spine (confidence/courage/morals)

LIARS

That's about it. If you dig deeper into each one of those you get more of what annoys me. Just so you know, even with all of that I have managed to find someone and she is gorgeous, which doesn't hurt. ;P

This isn't only for turn-offs though, I won't conceder you a true friend if you're most of the above. Confucius has said "Never contract friendship with a man that is not better than thyself". That's pretty much what I go by. So my last and most important one is obviously:

IF YOU'RE NOT A FRIEND

202 days ago | Tagged As: Most things
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a woman with a flat ass. I need a GHETTO booty!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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