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have bigger boobs can cause back pain. having a bigger penis means you need bigger pants and i bet society has not create huge pants if a penis can grow ten feet long in length and width.
So a really huge penis is not the best thing to have. I just proved you wrong. one point for me. lol :)
Yes, it's acceptable if that is what a person wants to do. I wouldn't want them for myself. If I want a lift, I'll tape them up. Cheaper & alot less pain.
I will most certainly say yes due the fact that I'm going to get them. We are so lucky to be able to change something, like this, that we don't really like about ourselves. I love myself the way I am, before anyone goes there, but why not make myself a little better?
Why not just work out instead of taking the easy option? (Easy option being better breasts but not necessarily bigger)Besides, the money could be put to much better use; go save some lives instead of getting better breasts. Furthermore, be happy with the way God made you instead of always wanting to look better.
What do you mean work out? Working out does NOT increase breast size or lift them. And I don't think an expensive surgery is exactly the east option. It's not just about wanting to look better, it's about feeling better too.
Working out does actually lift breasts, but does not make them bigger. Working out actually does a whole lot more to breasts than you'd think, it makes them tighter and firmer which men absolutely love! ;)
Why do this when first of all, it won't be your natural self so even if they look good, the appreciation you get for them will be for breasts that don't belong to you. Secondly, you could work out which will firm, tighten and lift your breasts so you will have natural appealing-to-the-eye breasts that men will appreciate very much and thirdly, the money you pay for the breasts could have been put to much better use such as saving a life or even perhaps more than one life?
If I earn the money, I'll use it how I want to. I don't want to hear about spending it better when the government wastes so much, especially if I'm doing it to make myself happy. Besides, I won't have to pay for it all. Because my job it'll be covered. I'll be greatly appreciated for getting them I think.
You can take credit in your natural breasts if you work them out and make them look nice; that will do wonders for your job and besides, men are always fascinated by natural beautiful breasts that are taken care of as opposed to fake un-moving balloons.
I do, and that only gets me so far. And what do you think breast implants are? Go look them up. Seriously, because you seem to think they'll end up like Barbie boobs or something.
What, breast implants? Its a prosthesis implanted behind the female's breast and it makes her breast look bigger and changes the overall sized shape of her breast. Trust me, I know what breast implants are.
Ok, I really don't see what you're saying lol. Do you mean like I don't know what they look like then? Explain because I just explained what I thought they were and obviously I know what they are lol which would kind of suggest I know what they look like...
I guess I mean how they act or feel. Though I'm not surprised you don't know... lol . I have to go in a few minutes, so I'll be back later to continue if you want.
Breasts can act? Well they won't after you've had implants - they just sit there rock hard staring folk in the face lol. I have seen girls with implants, a girl who used to work with me had them and I just don't like them at all. When she wore her bikini it just looked so fake and hard lol. I have never touched an implanted breast but I'm sure it wouldn't really do much for me even if I was male lol. I can imagine if I was male I'd want something real, something natural that was worked out and firm. Hmm, I have never thought about this before lmao.
I'm not entirely sure but they just stuck out too much and didn't move - ever. Our job requires us to run a lot and when she ran they didn't move but they totally weighed her down - it was funny.
So, your boss (the barman) will pay for your breasts to be done? I have never heard of such a thing out here. Ever. Sure the government wastes money, but that is no excuse for you to go get your breasts done instead of saving a life or two.
No, the insurance will. It's work related. It's the same in the porn business, you can get them covered in that two. I still have a right to make myself happy regardless.
Yes, I have heard of it being done in the porn business but never in the business you are in. You do have a right to make yourself happy, and how you make yourself happy is obviously very different to how I make myself happy. When I was 16 I was anorexic (it sucked) but the way I escaped the mess was to work out and make myself feel good before beginning the day. I began to look less like a scare-crow but also looked really fit and healthy which made such a difference to my life-style. If I'd gotten fake breasts and laser surgery done on my body, I would have felt like a cheater, like I'd cheated life and gotten to be someone beautiful without working at it. Do you see where I am coming from? Work at your breasts and you will feel so much better and the appreciation that you get will be earned and will feel so much more special.
I told you, I do work out already. It still won't make them any bigger like I want.
And working out is usually prohibited by doctors in cases of anorexia until they gain a bunch of weight. It's not good if you're still at a low weight because you'll over work your body.
Well, being anorexic I didn't pay a jot of attention to what the doc told me and I was so down on myself I realized I just had to do something so I could live so I worked out. Sure it over worked me and I was always tired but the working out gradually allowed me to eat more and thus I became well again. That makes it sound simple but it really, really wasn't.
Perhaps try a different work out? Do you have a local gym?
Billie, I promise, working out is not the answer to my tit problems. lol I'm dead set on getting the implants, there is nothing you can say that'll change that.
God, not anytime soon. I do have other things I need the money for right now, like school. I'm think after graduation, like a graduation gift for myself (college graduation, if that wasn't clear)
They're too small, not like tiny but I want them bigger. They're small C's
Ahh right yeah, so its going to be like a treat to yourself?
I'm a C! Are you calling C small? Seriously, C is perfect and you really should just stay right there. A guy I used to know said that my breasts (which are C's so basically all C breasts) are handfuls - not too small, not too big. I totally recommend you keep your C's.
And they're SMALL c's. lol I've had a lot of compliments on them, in and outside of work, but I personally want them a little bigger. Like large c's or small d's. My boyfriend has big hands I guess. lol
LOL ok. So, they don't fill his hands then? Simple, get a new boyfriend lmao. OR, tell him to get surgery on his hands. Jokes. I would hate to be a D to be honest, it would just be an irritation when I'm running lol.
DD?! Wow, thats big. They're fake, yeah? I just really believe we shouldn't change our bodies in such a way. God gave us individual features - our eyes, fingerprints, hands, breasts - we all have something that no one else has. I wouldn't want implants but if I had saggy breasts or something was really up with them I'd just spend my life in the gym and working out wherever I am. But I eat really carefully and work out a lot so I really don't see myself having saggy breasts for a reeaallyy long time.
My range is between B and C. D's are quite large. Having said that, if you want them, get them. But keep in mind that they will have to come out after 10 years (mandatory). You'll need to either go back to C's or have a new pair put in. I have one at work from a woman who had to take hers out after 10 years. I wish I had gotten the other one as well. Oh well, I guess I'll have to settle for what I got ;)
I have noticed that men pretty much like everything. Otherwise, there wouldn't be porn sites featuring full figured women.
Also, after doing extensive research (which made me extend a bit) I have discovered that women just accent what qualities they already posses. For example, long legs, eyes, butt, hips, breasts, waist, etc. I have found that usually women with no hips (or boyish hips) have really nice bubble butts and women with hips do not.
I heard that a man was almost killed once because his wife wanted big breasts and he suggested that she rub a piece of toilet paper between her breasts for years. When she asked why that should work, he said, "After all these years, it worked on your butt!" ;)
Well...., I did a little more research on this fascinating topic and I found out that there's new technology that allows women to bypass the small D, the double D and go straight for the 3-D.
It's by this company that specializes on virtual reality and you don't have to worry about how they'll hold up because you can always find someone to hold them up for you.
You also do not need those special 3-D glasses. They're great! ;)
I think God should put someone in hell (if implied by relgious people) if you are changing your body. There are things that we change like fatal deformities of a child.
But if you really think about it. A child who is born with a deformity, why is that looked bad upon. It just means that the child is different. Like the two children that head their heads stuck together. They are not unhealthy, they just have their heads together.
AND IF IT WASN'T STUPID SOCIETY FAULT TO GO AND LABEL PEOPLE we will now see everything as a beautiful thing and not ugly.
It is society's fault to go and say "this person is not right." Why CAN a child grow up and have a cleft lip or no arms at all. Why is it wrong for a child to have six arms. it is beautiful. We think it is wrong because society calls it wrong and we are all robots to society.
Now if it was a health issue, then yes change your body. If it not a health issue, i do see it wrong in God sense and religion sense.
I think God is benevolent. So benevolent and wise to understand that we change our looks to bring confidence. And i don't God has a reason against that because understand the corruption of society: Advertisments for bigger penis. I see that a lot on televison. I never thought before i should have a big penis, but NOW I do. and it does not make sense to have a big penis. Now these commercials are bringing people down if they have small penises.
Society sucks. I wish i can die and go to heaven where i know it doesn't suck.
Of course, breast implants are acceptable. It is free will and choice. Many woman believe that breast implants may help improve esteem or even financially.
However, there are consequences, either one or both could burst. Also, if there are too large, there are cases of back pain.
People get breast implants for a number of reasons, one of which concerns self-esteem. If someone has low self-esteem and getting implants makes them feel better about themselves, I see no problem with it.
No, I think I would look rather silly with them. lol Seriously, if it helps someone's self image, then it's their right. But there always seems to be problems that arise from them from time to time. Personally, I like the natural look...doesn't matter what size they are.
No, completely not. If I was to get breast implants it'd be like saying God could have made me better so I'm going to get a man to make me look better. Its so back to front and unnatural. You look the way you do so be happy with it, accept yourself for who you are. Changing the way you look can't possibly make you feel good when you know it isn't actually you but rather its the result of surgery. You are unique in that there is no one else that has your breasts, your nose, your eyes, your fingerprint. Don't change it, its you.
No, completely not. If I was to get breast implants it'd be like saying God could have made me better
The same could be said of those born with severe debilitating physical disfigurements. This is more of an argument against God than it is an argument against bodily alteration.
Although I think people should be happy with what they have within a reasonable limit, if someone wants to mutilate their body to conform to some societal standard of beauty, as long as they are not hurting anyone else in the process I'm not going to stop them.
Apparently God was quite the jackass because he gave us an appendix, wisdom teeth, and allows millions of children to be born with fatal disabilities. And I wear glasses don't I, that means I am changing the body and the terrible vision God gave me. Also a lot of people are circumcised, mostly religious people, so why is that okay? (I for one think its a terrible idea to chop off part of your dick, just sayin)' It's her body, who gives a shit what she wants to do with it, I for one support her in her choice if she wants to.
You have a tattoo, any piercings? Are those not body modifications? Aren't those ways that change your natural body from the way God originally created?
I have a belly button pierce which creates a tiny hole in my body and does not in any way give me a look such as fake breasts. I have a tiny tattoo behind my left ear which is barely noticeable and also is not any where near the same as having fake breasts. Drawing on the body or piercing it with a needle is no where near the same as having breasts blown up into balloons to get attention.
But that's not my point. My point is you've altered your body from God's image. It's no different than breast implants. And I'm not doing it to get attention, I get enough, I'm doing it because I, ME personally, would like bigger breasts. And if they're done right, they won't even look fake.
It is very different from breast implants; breast implants alter the shape of the body, from the original way He created it whereas drawing on a small part of it or piercing it is merely like putting on mascara or eyeliner. I know you say you wish for bigger breasts, but the appreciation you will get for those breasts will be for breasts that are not your own, how will that make you feel good? Surely it will be a constant reminder that you only look good because you had surgery. They may not look fake if done right but they will be fake nonetheless and this surely is enough to make you feel fake yourself?
No, makeup comes off. A tattoo won't. Makeup makes me feel fake, which is why I don't wear it. It's like a mask. New breasts will make me feel new, and they're permanent, it will be like growing up only someone else is doing it instead of just my body.
Tattoos can come off, laser. Furthermore, I have also never heard of a stripper not wearing make up lol. New breasts would make me feel lazy, cheap and whore-ish. Its a mistake, seriously, you'll regret it.
I doubt I'll regret and. And that's a waste of money to get a tattoo done then removed if anything. But breast implants can also be removed later I suppose. I do have to wear a little concealer for work... I hate it though.
I knew you wear make up lol, I'm such a psychic ;) Jokes. Well, I will never remove this tattoo as it represents much of my life, however, I was merely pointing out that they can be removed as you seemed to believe they couldn't.
I knew they could, but it usually stills shows a little even after the surgery. But I've seen some cheap jobs too. lol And I didn't say you would, I'm just saying people get them and then get rid of them.
God got nothing to do with it , how can he when hes completely made up. Anyway if you really want the implants get them, but ask yourself why you want them, what led you to decide that you wanted to alter you body in this way.
If you read the whole think you'd see that I don't really think God made me. And I want to changes my body because I don't like my tits. Read the whole thing, this has already been discussed.
"And I want to changes my body because I don't like my tits"
Well other people clearly do if you've made it professionally as a stripper. As i said you should get them if you really want, i just doubt YOU really want them, you're only trying to live up some societal standard of what real beauty is, in my opinon society has gotten it very wrong (just my opinon). When you alter your body in a way such as this you're essentially giving in, you're are saying you want to look like what other peopel want you to look like.
Lol, not true. I don't like them. Never have since I got them. Everyone likes them, I'm not trying to live up to anyone's standards, except my own clearly.
And while you're on the topic. We do EVERYTHING to live up to society's standards. You shower, don't you? That's expected from society, so you do it. You put clothes on, you work, and pretty much anything else you do. You do it because society expects it, wants it, or just because it's a standard.
"I'm not trying to live up to anyone's standards, except my own"
Fair enough, ill take you on your word, although i still think its lot to go through i.e. the money and operation just for some sort of self gratification.
"We do EVERYTHING to live up to society's standards."
This really isn't the same.
"You shower, don't you?"
I don't shower because society expects me to shower, i shower because i can, if i didn't id stink, and the liekly hood of me catching bacterial infections would increase. As a species we've evloved to the stage where cleanliness isnt just a luxury i.e. our immune systems cannot tolerate the kinds of conditions mankind could previously. Id clean myself with or without a shower, id do in the nearby river if i had to.
"You put clothes on"
Again this is just like the shower argument, i admit many do buy clothes in order to conform to societal standards and norms, i dont consider myself one of them. I have my own unique style of clothing. I haven't purchased clothes in a shop in years. Puttin clothes on has many benefits (i.e. less risk of infection from cooled etc. etc.), besides you have to put on clothes if you dont want to be arrested, i dont think the police will mind if you leaves your breasts the way they are.
"you work"
This is a very important one, in fact i could write reams and reams on this one but i wont. Ill just say this, i only work on what i would work on regardless of the requriement of a wage, this isnt always how i did it, it took 8 months working in big pharma corporation to realise it.
"You do it because society expects it"
I really don't most of the time, in fact i try hard not to.
If you tried hard too then you'd be a serious social outcast, and not just one of those "look at me I'm so different" types, not saying that you are. I'm just saying, you do things to seem civil in the eyes of family and peers.
You are partially correct, my family take me exactly as i am, my parents are exactly your typical either, and the conventions that dictate what civility is depend soley on the people, their class level and their customs.
I dont conform and im sure in the eyes of many of the people i probably do seem a little strange to say the least but i have opted for rugged individualism simply because i dont like what i have seen. I dont want to be part of the collective hive mind. Listen i dont want to sound arrogant or pretentious, i dont judge people (or i try hard not to), i dont think everyone should do what i do or anything like that. I'm just saying i dont like the idea of blending into the landscape of society, being a cog in much bigger machine. My wish is that everyone could express themselves as they truly are but i digress.
You sound both. lol :) But really, you do conform, whether you want to or not. everyone does. Can't be helped, and it's not a bad thing. It helps us evolve intellectually and further our society's advancement.
Im not disagreeing that i conform, i mean the onmly way not to conform at all would be to move somewhere to a desolate land (e.g. mongolia) and live in cave for the rest of your life.
What im saying is there are verying levels of conformity, in this society we are encouraged to conform becausewe live in a very insecure society that yearns for control, this is because control is an expression of the human ego. Not everyone can relinquish control is depends on the person, how myuch they want to, at least in my experience anyway.
"It helps us evolve intellectually and further our society's advancement"
Advancement in what sense though, how do you define advancement, is it from a purely technological standpoint or do you include morality and ethics or anything else.You've opened up a very large can of worms with thatr statement but ive already written too much.
Lol, I don't care much for worms. I mean all together. I don't think I conform very much in the way you're talking about. But it's all an opinion I suppose.
I agree with much of what you are saying but i have one crucial disagreement i.e. God didn't make anyone. Vaiations in the appearance of the popuilation are the result of natural selection, when you say God made them you imply that some deity (who by the way is fictitious) sculpted everyones features individually, this has no grounding in reality.
I'm not a woman but id like to throw my two cents in anyway, i dont beleive breasts should be altered unless theres something physically wrong with them. Men prefer natural breasts anyway so why change your appearance. Western perceptions of what is and isn't beautiful are the reason many strive to enhance their appearance when in reality there is no comparison to natural beauty. The glory is in all our differences, people are becoming like drones who have to match up with whatever western society tells them is beautiful.
Yes lets make everyone the same, that'll make for interesting experience on this planet, ehh?