Is joining an online dating site a sign of desperation?
What do you guys think? I'm not going to lie here, I've hit a dry spell since 6 months and I've got a decision to make about these "online dating sites". I have friends that tell me different things and basically they are broken down into these 2 arguments:
"It's perfectly normal. Some people just have busy lifestyles and don't have time to meet people all the time. At best, you could potentially meet someone special and really have something going on. At worse, you can find someone to hit it and quit it (LOL)."
"Dude, online dating sites are pathetic and they don't work. It's for guys that are losers that can't get any or are just socially awkward and desperate. It's also for women that are attention whores to only see how many hits they get but don't respond to messages and get off from rejecting guys. Don't waste your time and money."
What's your take?
No, it's as good as in person.
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Yes, it's pathetic. Loser.
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I wouldn't necessarily consider it pathetic. Some people are just more comfortable that way. The only thing I'd say, is that it can be dangerous because you can never be quite sure who you're actually talking to on the internet. Some people can be insecure and make up complete lies about themselves. Though, people you meet in person can do the same. That, and it can be costly depending on what website you go to. Side: No, it's as good as in person.
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I can't say for certain whether it is as good as in person or if it is a sign of desperation. I just think that it is a matter of personal preference, really. If a person is more insecure initially, it might be better to get to know more about a person through their online profile first. Then again, that's still my personal opinion. Side: No, it's as good as in person.
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