Let me give you some examples of Narcissism & what insecurity does to people.
I looked up symptoms of Narcissism, and pasted a couple of the signs....
2)"I can’t be expected to apologize or to admit blame. I’m above others and above reproach. If you expect me to say how I’ve contributed to a problem, I’ll get mad at you."
3)"Unwillingness to take responsibility for mistakes may come from confusing the part with the whole. "If I've done one thing that's not right, then I must be all bad." That's all-or-nothing thinking."
4)"Whatever the source of the sensitivity to criticism and difficulty admitting mistakes, the upshot is a tendency to blame others when anything has gone wrong."
Ok, does any of that ring a bell on this debate site? How many times have I said that Non Christians are seldom willing to admit the immoral irresonsible choices people are making in today's culture. The word morality is a dirty word for them most times.
This article on Narcissism gives the answer why. Let me paste 3) here once more...
"Unwillingness to take responsibility for mistakes may come from confusing the part with the whole. "If I've done one thing that's not right, then I must be all bad." That's all-or-nothing thinking."
So you see, the reluctance to admit all the harms to our society from things such as promiscous sex, taking illegal drugs, abusing alcohol, abandonng your children, etc. etc. boils down to your insecurity of being blamed for something.... anything... because if you have done any of these things, you must be all bad.
Therefore you refuse to admit there is anything worng with this new no fault anything goes culture and the irresponsible choices people constantly make. In your mind, to admit it would be calling yourself bad, and you are too insecure to admit such a thing.
So how does this article say you will treat people who shine a light on any possible immorality or irresponsibility in today's culture? Let me paste it one more time..... 2) "If you expect me to say how I’ve contributed to a problem, I’ll get mad at you."
Gee I wonder why people get so mad at me when stating the simple truth to what is happening in our culture. I'm not even pointing a finger at you personally, Im speaking in a broad sense to this no faut culture, yet you always take it personally and deny deny deny.
Me thinks there is some Narcissism going on in this debate site, and in this culture :) BIG TIME!
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