Just say that you are stick on an island with two people. One is 'smoking hot' a you put it, and the other has an awesome personality. You start staring at this hot guy (with your mouth open, ofcourse) but eventually get bored because he doesnt seem that interesting. Then you turn around to the ugly ass awsome personality person and both of you start talking about interesting things. At the end of the day, who one? The awesome personality person kept you alive and free of boredom, didnt they? Personality rules!!!!!

Most people don't look like supermodels, whether they be guy or girl.

But when you're attracted to someone's personality a lot, they have the potential to become a supermodel in your mind, even if they're totally average or below average.

My wife isn't a supermodel... to everyone that isn't me, that is. I can hardly tell the difference, even if other men could.

Looks fade as people age. I could not STAND being in a LTR with an idiot without personality.

No matter how attractive a girl is she can become very ugly very quickly if she's boring and flat. People that don't have personalites don't seem to be "there" you feel alone even when you're with them. A pretty face is only good for showing off to other people, but for mental and spiritual stimulation and growth personality will always take it.

A relationship first starts with looks, but a relationship lasts with personality.

It depends entirely on the situation for me.

If I am looking for a fling, I'll pick the hot one. ESPECIALLY if they have a nice derrière and are energetic… who wants a dead fish in the sack?

If I am looking for a long term the person would have to be very interesting (also with a nice derrière, what can I say? I have an obsession... she can be a ‘butter face’ I don’t care, but she's gotta have a nice ass)

Spending four years with my ex-wife who was good looking and good in bed but not interesting and dumb as FUCK has shown me exactly what I need in a girl, and one thing is certain: personality is far more important in my opinion. In fact, I have come to discover that the more I like a person’s personality, the more their outward appearance doesn’t matter or the more physically attracted I am to them, et vice versa.

I tend to go for personality. It’s always wonderful when you can find someone who is good looking, but when it boils down to it, what is really going to matter is the personality of the person you’re with. No wonder that when somebody wants long-term relationships its not important for him how a person looks. Look only attracts people attention, but what really captures is personality.

well i think both! you can't just look at the personality of the person but he would be so damn ugly and you can't be attracted to someone for his looks but his personality is down the gutter! i think both are related! you can't take this and leave that they both are dispensable! 0.o

we live in a hard time. and people do not want to understand each others, they want to find an easy way.

this way is beauty

many of us think that life is a beauty

but life is a mind, it is honest, it is an inner beauty

please do not forget about it

I would absolutely see personality more important then looks. The reason is very simple that personality is inborn and invaluable. In fact, plastic surgery is very popular right now. If you don't satisfy your appearance, you could do an surgery for your ideal fact. On the other hand, we couldn't make up any personality because it is inborn. There is a say that "Having a good personality can lend you to be success."

Really... A person who looks just fabulous but gives no shit bout me? Is no one who would deserve me. I'd rather have a peaceful life with someone who may be just little darker or with blunt features and a little too what the World calls Ugly than to spend my life with asshole Bastard who has nothing more than himself to offer to me.

And I'd also like someone to like me not because he finds me hot, but because I can guarantee that he will like me even when my attractive traits wear off!

Beauty and the appearance of ever becoming uninteresting, but a bright personality will always nurture interest in person. person who is beautiful inside will never allow to be not beautiful on the outside

Eeryone can be physically attractive in their own way, so the sexuality problem is solved. There is only the matter of personality. Regardless of how physically beautiful a person is, if their personality is ugly, the bad vibes given off is enough to cancel out their good looks, even in the sack! And wouldn't a gentle caring guy be more pleasure inducing than a jerk-off?

Looks only get attention personality is what captures the heart...everyone should realize that it's not about how handsome/pretty you are It's all about who you are inside.I've never had handsome boyfriends I always choose the one who have a good heart ,kind and fun

True personality is very important in our daily life, almost every relation with the outside world is based on them. For example it helps you to get on with friends well.

This isn't really an argument, but can someone just give 3 MAJOR reasons why personality is better. I know it is and I can see a lot of arguments but I need 3 arguments.. thanks (:

I think that personality is the greatest thing in a person it makes him strong brave and loved by people for being him self, beauty is not everything, what if you found a beautiful person and soon you find out he's/she's a lair and she talk about you behinds your back, your personality is the real you NOT YOUR LOOK your personality reflects whats in your heart, beauty is not with big deal, maybe her face is fake ?? she had done surgeries or put tons of makeup to look pretty, the point is personality never change, since your face could be change,

if the personality is good, it usually affects the looks. ;)

A nice, lively personality can be just as attractive as good looks.