Men vs. Women
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This debate needs a bit of clarification because there are some obvious areas where men & women are not equal (i.e. reproductive capability, physical strength, etc), however, there are other areas that could spur a great debate. For instance, are men & women equal in these 4 areas? - Economic independence - Reconciliation of private and professional life - Equal representation in decision-making - Gender stereotypes 483 days ago | Tagged As: Please clarify debate
From my point of view nowadays if you are a straight, white, male, not a drugaddict or alcoholic, if you have a nice job and do not have aids - you are the most discriminated person ever. I mean come on there are organisations that fight for women's rights. For gay's rights. For black's rights. For everyone's rights except for normal guys) I think we should really start bothering about majority rights being discriminated. 478 days ago
"From my point of view nowadays if you are a straight, white, male, not a drug addict or alcoholic, if you have a nice job and do not have aids - you are the most discriminated person ever." Ahahahhahahha. I'm sorry, I just aahahahhahah. Alright I think I have a hold of it now, wait ahahahhahahhah. Okay, okay. That's better. Did you really just say that? I don't think you understand what discrimination is. "According to General Accountability Office (GAO) Report GAO-04-35, the weekly earnings of full-time working women were about three-fourths of men's during 2001. The report was prepared from a study of the earnings history of over 9,300 Americans for the last 18 years. Even accounting for factors such as occupation, industry, race, marital status and job tenure, reports the GAO, working women today earn an average of 80 cents for every dollar earned by their male counterparts. This pay gap has persisted for the past two decades, remaining relatively consistent from 1983-2000." Discrimination is being treated worse because of sex/race/sexual orientation/religion etc. You are just complaining because you don't have many organizations that fight for your rights because straight, white, males kind of already have their rights. These other organizations exist to help others combat the oppression that we as straight, white, males have been forcing upon everyone else. You have nothing to complain about. When we get pulled over by a police officer, we just worry about trying to get out of our ticket, not getting beaten. When we walk around at night, we don't have to be afraid of being raped. We don't have our right to marry the person we love being assaulted by religious fanatics. Statistically we are healthier, have more access to education, and come from high socioeconomic backgrounds. And you're complaining that other people have organized to try help disadvantaged peoples like themselves to have equal opportunities to live happy, productive lives? I have dealt with people like you before and in my experience, they were motivated by thinly veiled racism and sexism. 193 days ago | Tagged As: Not
It's true, and I'm in the same boat. And it's not right. But if it were needed desperately enough, there would be a group out there advocating just those rights. Despite some pretty silly affirmative action type dealings here and there, we've had it pretty good. Make sure everyone's equal by promoting the rights of EVERYBODY and yours won't disappear. You shouldn't have to apologize for things that your great grandfather was a part of, as you're not guilty of anything (as far as I'm aware). But anyone who's holding on to old dogma needs to be educated, so these groups are important. 372 days ago | Tagged As: Equal
The reason there is no straight white man's rights movement is because you already have all the rights. Is anyone denying you the right to marry who you want? Is anyone trying to remove your bodily autonomy? Was there ever a point in American history when you would have been a slave? Who are all the politicians, the business owners, the filmmakers and authors and artists, the richest people in the world? Straight, white men. I think there are some ridiculous expectations out there for men, including what it means to 'be a man'. But while life can be hard for everyone, including straight, white men, people realize you have it pretty much as good as it gets. Edit: I don't mean to minimize the hardships that any individual person faces, because I don't live your life and I don't know your particular circumstances. I just mean that white men have had most of the money, power, and influence for a very long time. 65 days ago | Tagged As: Not
To PassingBy, I see where you are coming from, in regards to the normal person being the most discriminated person ever. It does seem, to a degree, that normal is not normal anymore. My question to you is this.......what is normal? When you use what you wrote in your article, you are saying that being "a straight, white, male, not a drugaddict or alcoholic, if you have a nice job and do not have aids", you are normal. What if I am "a straight, [black], male, not a drugaddict or alcoholic, if [I] have a nice job and do not have aids"? Am I normal? I will assume that you are not being racist in your statement, although you may come across as such. I will make an attempt to define, from my point of view, what normal is. Normality is defined by each person (as an individual), their environment, and any other influence on their lives. This obviously means that each individuals' ideal of normality differs from one person to the next (with a sprinkle of similarity). Each persons' circumstances are different, as well as each persons' environment will be different at several levels. There are places in this world where women cannot even show their natural facial beauty because of culture and tradition. On the flip side, there are places in the world where women can breast feed their children in public. What is normal, no matter where you are, is that men and women have certain roles in their perspective societies. This does not make them any better or worse, it only makes them more important in the global scheme of things. "Normality is relative" [a quote by nerve_gs (not yet a member of this site, but a co-worker)]. Much respect! 472 days ago
With the latest social standing that we are I would like to believe that a man and woman is equal now in every single phase. Woman have fight for their equality right for the recent years and believe that they have already acquired it. They have proven themselves in every single way that they can also do the same things man could. Even surpassing some qualities at some point. Now I don't want to argue about if woman is more better than man. 239 days ago | Tagged As: Equal
So are you implying that women should become more agresive than men and some how force men into treating women the same? do you think that men will let women push them around? Your points are probable but it seems as if you are proposing violence, u will ruin the hard work already put in by women such as E. caddy stanton or susan B.anthony if not women in our society (US) are taking their rights for granted considering women in othre parts of the world 193 days ago | Tagged As: Equal
I think that Men and Women are basically equal. I do believe that women do earn less than men on average and that this is probably at least in part due to sexism. In this current age women are becoming just as educated as men. If they do not want to work for less under the club of men than they are just as smart and just as legally able to create their own businesses. It is unlikely that people will refuse to use a service or product provided by a female owned business, especially if the product or service is better. Woman have every legal right to take charge and dominate in business and careers. If anyone chooses to be an employee instead of an employer you have do deal with some jerk employer regardless of your gender, race or whatever else. Now the fact that more women aren't entrepreneurs and business owners is a personal choice and will probably change in the near future. Women have the same level of education as men now it is their job to learn how to use it to their advantage. Just because women have equal rights doesn't mean they will have instant economic and social equality that is a long slow evolving process you can spark with your own self-improvement. 476 days ago | Tagged As: Equal Rights
Actually, there are more women entrepreneurs than men! And a good part of the reason for this is that women who have the skills don't feel they fit in in big business, or don't find the support/flexibility that they deserve there. The problem with this is that big business is losing out on 50% of the talent pool by not being a welcoming environment to women. 466 days ago | Tagged As: Actually
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Women are not equal to men; their representation in government, economic institutions, and social institutions (as leaders) are not prominent given their numerical parity with their opposite gender. Women are underpaid, overworked, and are rarely in positions of power and authority. This, though changing, still leaves them at a disadvantage to men. The reason for this; though, is not any biological differences (by all accounts women are actually stronger and healthier than men). The difference is accounted for in the women's perceptions of themselves, what they feel their place is, their unwillingness to engage in economic, social, or even violent conflict. This stems from social indoctrination, familial indoctrination, and their own inability to break free from these influences and knock down the structures that oppress them. If women are going to become equal to men they are first going to have to become as ruthless, cutthroat, strong, courageous, and aggressive as men. Women are going to have to show themselves to be the strong creatures that they are; women are going to have to take their rightful place as masters of their own destiny, by any means necessary. Women can't be victims anymore; they must train themselves to fight, they must teach their daughters to fight (not just with Karate classes but showing them to stand up for themselves in a number of ways). Every woman should know how to defend herself; legally, physically, economically, socially; they must make men know they cannot be taken advantage of. Every culture, every nation, every class, every religion, every ethnicity, each gender; sexuality; the only way they achieved equality, dominion, freedom, and security is through their ability to defend themselves and maintain their status as free and independent beings. If women are to break free of their chains they must do so in kind. 484 days ago
Although you make some valid points, I think that the matter also lies in the acceptance by men. There are women representation in government, economic institutions, and women that are leaders in many social institutions. While there is a big difference when it comes to numbers, they are still present and just not given the credit...yet. The underpayment of women lie in sexist managers that still think like the men centuries ago thought. The overworked women work as hard as they do because they feel the need to prove themselves, feel that if they work their asses off as hard as they do then they'll get what they want. And i'm guessing that the positions of power and authority that you are referring to are positions mostly known to the general public, because I happen to know women that ran ship yards and software companies, as well as women who hold high positions in the U.S Navy (the perks of being a navy brat is apparently meeting all the people my dad works under.) And just out of curiosity, where did you find the perception of women bit, like was it from a recent survey or something? Because i have not met a single woman that thought she was ever under a man, nor have i met a woman that didn't know that their place in society wasn't to listen and follow "the man". With that, there are also scores successful business women living in today's society, many women actually willing to fight in the armed forces (or with their gangs...who knows with today's society?) and women have been known to be quite the social butterflies. There really is no oppression of women nowadays. Women have been showing themselves to be the "strong creatures that they are", it's just that women are more modest with their achievements and don't give a damn if their great achievement ends up on the six o clock news. People in general are masters of their destinies, not other people. the way you live your life is how you choose and just because some women are passive does not mean that all of them are, nor does it mean that men aren't passive either. Women haven't been victims of subservience in a long time, and it's been awhile since women have allowed themselves to be taken advantage of. There is hardly any women in this generation that didn't have enough nerve to defend who they are and what they believe in. The only reason that it seems like women act the way you described is because since basically the beginning of time men had the upper hand, and women had started rising up above that relatively recently. Thanks for your opinion though ! I was really curious to see how people would react to this topic. [: 484 days ago
You are right that there are women in places of power and authority, but they do not have nearly as many of those positions as their numbers in the general population. For example; the U.S. congress: Women hold 17% of the seats in congress. They are 51% of the population. That's an extreme discrepancy; especially given the fact that congress is one of the highest seats of power in the United States. They hold 23% of state elected positions, again an extreme discrepancy. Women used to hold two seats on the Supreme Court, there is now one. One out of nine, or 11%. http://www.cawp.rutgers.edu/fast_facts/information_by_level_of_office/ Congress_CurrentFacts.php http://www.cawp.rutgers.edu/fast_facts/information_by_level_of_office/ Statewide-CurrentFacts.php As for economic power; these are the number of women CEOs: 8 women are the head of a Fortune 500 company, and in all of the Fortune 500s women make up 14% of the boards of directors. http://www.socialfunds.com/news/article.cgi/1292.html In society, even the female-dominated career of teaching, men do better than women: Women, though they have achieved administrative control, still earn 100 dollars less than men, median. http://www.dpeaflcio.org/programs/factsheets/ fs_2007_school_administrators.htm In medicine, women are still behind men: 33% of doctors will be women, by 2010. By what time will you make up half? 2020? 2050? http://www.texmed.org/Template.aspx?id=4197 The following research indicates that women lag in math scores due to negative stereotypes: http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m2294/is_2002_August/ ai_95514611 Of course, the military is still thoroughly male. They make up 15% of the armed forces. Also, I think you misinterpreted my remarks; I didn't mean that every single woman wasn't exerting her strength to the fullest, just that on average women do not. Exceptions are always going to be around, of course. Women have made excellent strides, mostly because they have been taking what is rightfully theirs. However, they are still not powerful enough to become equal; and until 50% of them are in the military, the economic control rooms, the high government offices, they will remain second class citizens. I mean, what other population would you not call second class which doesn't have even close to its numbers represented in government? What's funny is that in Apartheid South Africa, the oppressed African Americans had more representation in their parliament than women do in ours: Their legislature held: 178 white, 85 black, and 45 indian legislators. Giving the blacks 28% (compared to women receiving 17% of our congressional seats). Not only that, but blacks made up 33% of their population while women make up 50% of ours! Tell me that isn't bizarre! 484 days ago
Let me ask you this, Tonicole....do you think that men and women are in some sort of competition with each other? Whether you think so or not, why do you think that? According to what I got from your article, it seems to me that you feel like women are in some sort of competition for superiority with men. Why are they competing with each other? In a previous response about this very same topic, I stated that men and women are neither better or worse than each other. Men have their roles to fill in their perspectives societies, and women have their roles. If men and women focused on their particular role in their particular society, and excelled in that role, then they could say how much of a man or woman that they are (no matter what others may same about them). Being a man or a woman is not something that we compete for; it's what we are. Do your part, and I'll do mine! Much Respect! 472 days ago
Women are not exactly treated the same in todays soicety. Though i must admit, it is alot better then the earlier days though. there are still some jobs that women get a less pay rate as men. this also happens in car shops, i.e. mechanics give women a dearer price to fix their car as they believe that women are stupid in the knowledge of cars etc. therefore making no, women are not treated equally. the same goes for men. you dont see men hairdressers very often or men cosmetic people do you. goes both ways here... 481 days ago | Tagged As: Equality Won't happen
Men and woman aren't equal and never will be. That doesn't mean they shouldn't have equal rights under the law. At the moment they have an equal opportunity (to be politicians/lawyers/doctors/house wives) and they, if motivated, can and wlll do anything a man does. The question must therefore be, if they have (basically) the same potential as men in the work place, why then are the discrepencies still so large in terms of percentage? I think it comes down to too factors. First, many women are culturally predisposed to different occupations (nurse, secretary, so on) and will train for those jobs with less anxiety as if they were (say) wanting to become a lumberjack. Another factor is biology. Humans have evolved such that men did the hunting and women the child rearing and "gathering". This has effected men in a number of ways, from sense of humor, to upper strength, to male voice depth, pain tollerance, mental directness, and more. Similarily, it has made (most) women smaller, less cardio-efficient (hemoglobins), more meticulous and creative (including the apparent ability to think more abstractly about spatial language), and much more sensitive. These are all very actual traits that manifest in a macro scale and divide men and women. It is not possible that these traits haven't predisposed men and women to certain careers (or lack thereof) that makes "gender engenderment" much less offences. So, with these two factors in mind, the descrepencies in the workplace are much less important with the knowledge that a 50/50 male/female doctor ratio is probably unnatural (at least) and a false equality. We should anticipate the differences in stead of trying artificially deflate them. 483 days ago
Actually, men do not have a higher pain tolerance, but less ability to feel pain. So pain is not "taken like a man" but that men are literally less sensitive to it! The same injury would thus cause less pain to a male than it would be perceived to cause in a female. From the article, "4. Women feel more pain. Any man who has watched a woman having a baby without using drugs would swear that women can tolerate anything. But the truth is, guys, it hurts more than you can imagine. Women have more nerve receptors than men. As an example, women have 34 nerve fibers per square centimeter of facial skin, while men average just 17. And in a 2005 study, women were found to report more pain throughout their lifetimes and, compared to men, they feel pain in more areas of their body and for longer durations." I'm not sure I agree with men having a higher tolerance for pain than women. Try pushing a small grape through your urinary track. Also, I would add that women have breasts to protect them from shopping bags and large hips to bump and balance the washer and drier when the clothes are all to one side. But surely, I jest ;) 481 days ago
i am not really agreeing with your arguments at all for women... sorry to say. i strongly disagree with this one especially. your comments suggest that maybe u dont have the due respect for women. if men werent so lazy then women wouldnt need the apparent large hips to "bump and balance the washer and drier when the clothes are all to one side". men should just go and uneven it or just go suck on ur dick. sorry joe, jsut disagree on this 481 days ago | Tagged As: Equality Won't happen
I say that men and women are not equal because it is not about equality in the first place. What we, as humans, do not realize is that men have their roles, and women have their roles in society. Is one persons' role greater than the others? I would wager to say no. Men tend not to be nurturing beings. Nonetheless, does that make them the lesser of the two sexes? Women tend to be the weaker (physically) of the two sexes. Yet again, are they any less of a people than men are? I think that men and women's roles should be saved for a different debate. Then the argument must be made as to what standard is used to measure equality. I say all of this to say that men and women are not equal, because their roles are different, not because one sex is better or worse than the other. Much respect! 473 days ago
A recent Supreme Court ruling shows that women in the United States are treated unfairly on the basis of pay. If a woman wishes to file Title XII on the basis of not being paid the same as a man in the same position, she must do so within 180 days of the beginning of her employment with that particular employer. In other words, you only have six months and then you can't do a thing about it. Apparently, you have to investigate your company for unfair wage practices the moment you start working for them. The Republicans overwhelmingly did nothing about it, McCain going so far as to say that it would create 'unnecessary' lawsuits. So, Mr. McCain, wanting equal pay is 'unnecessary'? '...a Title VII complaint must be filed within 180 days of the specific action that sets discriminatory pay, regardless of its ongoing and continuing discriminatory impact on the employee.' - from www.now.org 481 days ago | Tagged As: Equal Rights
Not equal mentally and biologically... i know this. main reason why they do different shit in modern society. if you look at the animal kingdom, most animals set up certain roles for the male and female, and we've been like that for probably thousands of years. i have no problem with women being treated the same as men... i really couldn't give a shit. but it's not like it's a big deal if more men hold power than women... that's actually natural (nature wise). now, if you're one of those people who believe "God made us equal" well, then you have a point that really can't be rebuttled (since others don't believe in moral authority). 481 days ago | Tagged As: Nature vs Morality
the male gender is built up of being leaders (majority, always exceptions to the rule). that's how they made it to the top. they used their strength and their minds to have people follow them. if women had the ability to rule, they would be ruling most of the world, but they don't. this is natural selection. men take over because evolution has led them to it. 473 days ago
It's all a function of geography. In North America, and for the most part in South America, Europe and Oceania and a few scattered places in Africa, Asia and the Middle East, women are equal. They are not equal everywhere, so woman are not treated equally yet. Please note that equality does not mean sameness. Looking at wage statistics doesn't make sense when we're biologically different. It's quite possible to be different, but be morally equivalent, and that is the case. Different chromosomes mean different tendencies. For example, there was a lot of concern about the lack of women in technical fields in the 70's. When all the data came back in, girls were not "deficient" in mathematics, it turned out they all just went into medicine, or non-technical fields as a choice. 372 days ago | Tagged As: Not
Average IQ scores for both genders are equal, though men's high scores are higher, and their lower scores are lower. I think the fact that men compete for mates is conducive to the development of greater rates of mutation in males. This would mean more agile and efficient evolution for humanity-- and despite the popular soundbyte that it has halted in humans, it is still happening. 476 days ago
This Debate is getting too emotional,a debate should be a two sided chain of rational thoughts that lead to a conclusion(or not) I personally think that women have the same capacity as men but because of how society has evolved(generally of course) trough out the world women do not currently have the same power.It is getting better however and will only be better in the future unless off course society returns to its primitive roots. 473 days ago
I think the title of this argument is misleading. Women are not treated the same as men, nor should they be. What it ought to say is "Are women and men treated equally?" Two people can be treated equally without being treated the same and it's often better that way. As an example, men don't need maternity leave from work, so they don't get it. Women do need it, but if they were treated the same as men they wouldn't get it. With that being said, I understand that this argument is about equality even if it isn't in the title. Women are most certainly not treated equally. The best reports say that women earn seventy-nine cents to every dollar a man makes. The Bush administration continues to make it difficult for women to get access to birth control and abortion. And if you're a woman in the armed services, your chances are one in three that you will be sexually harassed or raped by your male colleagues. I don't know how anyone can acknowledge these facts and think that women are treated equally in our society. I also don't know how a white man can feel comfortable lamenting the lack of an organization to protect the rights of white men, (other than white supremacists, of course).
Supporting Evidence:
Misogyny in the Military
(www.alternet.org)
473 days ago | Tagged As: Equal Rights
Nothing is ever equal anywhere. It balances out though. Example, here in Vegas the average female high school drop-out can make more than me, a highly educated drop out (joke, I graduated college.) They just need a boob job and know how to smile. I'd love to make 100k a year working 3 days a week in a club, not gonna happen for me. I'm not very pretty and have no idea where to begin with the make-up and girdles. I know I know, that's sexist. Whatever. I think it's sexist I can't get hired for cocktails. What do you think of that? You know what they'll say, "we only hire girls for that position." Now walk onto a construction site ladies. Bet they won't say, "we only hire guys for that position." No, 'cause you'll cry and no one wants to see that. I'm not saying it's easy for a girl to become CEO. It's not easy for me either though. My point is it's not equal, but it balances out. 471 days ago | Tagged As: balance
Men and Women are not equal in the simple fact that men are physically stronger than women there is one reason and there is a list where women beat men and men beat women. There are more men in the government, more male doctors, more male police officers. Women can reproduce =\ 244 days ago | Tagged As: Not
Nope. http://www.ibiblio.org/hazine/WAC.html http://www.care.org/newsroom/ As long as women are sometimes blamed for being raped, as long as abortions are not always safe and legal, as long as there is a soul-crushing amount of pressure on women to be flawlessly beautiful, as long as women are beaten and traded as property in other countries, as long as women are disproportionately represented in movies, books, and television shows, as long as women are denied promotions and positions they deserve, and as long as little girls are brought up to believe their body is the most important thing about them. "Women should not be allowed on juries where the accused is a stud." -Rush Limbaugh "I think [women] should be armed but should not vote...women have no capacity to understand how money is earned. They have a lot of ideas on how to spend it...it's always more money on education, more money on child care, more money on day care." -Ann Coulter "Sexual harassment on the job is not a problem for virtuous women." -Phyllis Schafly 65 days ago | Tagged As: Not
Equality between genders will never happen. Although I am a strong believer in equality, I believe that whilst we still have emotions, women will never be fully equal. Females have children and want to stay with their children and this is a mutual agreement in most relationships. This however leads to the "lack of employment" at the upper end of the scale. You will usually find women who have put their personal lives aside to do this and they will always be at the top of the food chain. Females possess many aspiring qualities which men do not have, but the ability not to take maternity leave really does put them on an uneven ground. Add this onto the extra sick leave taken for their children, and you have an employee headed fo the tip. The simple fact is that you cannot be working 4 days a week for a company and expect to get anywhere. You will also find that men are acred of hurting womens feeling and are scared of relaxing and telling the occasional (in jest of course) joke which the woman may find offensive. This adds tension in the workplace, of which many of the younger staff will drop out because of this. The feminist movement is a waste of time in the long run, until women have little fotesus which they can store their baby in and have no emotional connection to such child, men wil always reign supreme in the workplace. 481 days ago | Tagged As: Equality Won't happen
Well, this is one example of how sexism still exists! As you say "men are acred of hurting womens feeling and are scared of relaxing and telling the occasional (in jest of course) joke which the woman may find offensive." Why is it if a man makes a sexist joke us women are supposed to laugh it off, but if there is a racist joke some one gets fired? 480 days ago
this is my point exactly... women are not treated equally because if they were then you would know that women are not ment for "pounding" at all and men are not entitled to "pound" women ever. what gives a man the right to "pound" someone which is not rightfully theres to pound in any way... 481 days ago | Tagged As: Equality Won't happen
Well there is the obvious reason of reproduction. A Key and a Key lock are both necessarily to perform the function of locking a door. They essentially are two halves of the same whole; just the same as Men and Women are. We need each other to survive. Traditionally Men offered Protection, Food and Shelter and the woman provided her womb for child bearing, prepared meals and had sex to pleasure the men. I don't believe anyone should be forced to have a role predestined for them. But when in such a contract and similar ones exist today it is not cruel for the man to have sex. And it definitely isn't cruel if two people consent and want to have sex. If a man is forcing a woman to have sex than it is wrong. 476 days ago
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