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Go daddy go, beat your kid Real men don't beat kids
Debate Score:52
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On spanking and physically disciplining a child and feminism

I myself had a rather abusive dad (well he's still my dad I didn't get adopted or anything) as a child. I know how it feels to flinch at the very sight of a guy who wants nothing more than to see you cry. He only stopped because at 14-15 I began fighting back hard. By 16 he'd realized I actually could put up a good fight even though I was skinny as f*** so he totally gave it up. 

The only things he achieved through this were making me feel hostile and threatened much like a pet dog that one kicks rather than scolding verbally and treating well at other times. Being too harsh is, so to say, like being too for to either wing of economics perhaps.

Too far left and you're too kind on the lazy, too far right and you're too harsh. It's all about balance and since I'm a proud non-feminist I hereby will say; I would never hit a woman unless it was 100% her or me/someone I cared about and the same goes for a child. I would never hit a child or a woman unless serious things were at threat if I didn't. My child misbehaving is not a reason for me to use my masculine adult strength against them. I can understand a frustrated mother perhaps lashing out at her child now and again, women have less control over their emotions etc than men and that is simply why men's role must be to protect the women and children of whatever society they come from.

I don't care if women can be stronger than men, it is psychology too; men who lash out truly do so out of malice it is not out of genuine frustration. If your child is actually that malicious that they intentionally drive you insane rather than just misbehave perhaps that child is not for you to raise and giving it to foster care or adoption is your way out. Don't beat your child as a man, it's just pathetic and makes you look really shit when that kid grows and you age and bam, "right back at you dad". The kid will either grow to abuse their own children or they will grow to hate you, it is never neither.

Go daddy go, beat your kid

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Hellno(17753) Banned
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Cool story bro.

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Now you can tell the story of how you got banned. :D

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if your child robs a bank i know that when he comes home he is going to expect a beat down and some jail time

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instig8or(3308) Disputed
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Who will beat him/her down?

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If you had left spanking out of your title, your post would have merit. Beating is totally different from spanking. If people truly love their children, a spanking does wonders to help them grow up securely with respect for authority, respect for employers, respect for parents, respect for everyone! It also helps schools run more smoothly when teachers are not trying to control children with no respect from discipline.

I'm sorry for your childhood beatings. No child deserves that but the sad fact is it does happen. I'm glad you are determined to stop the cycle.

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hurting your children will make them grow up, thinking that hurting is the answer. anyone who spanks or beats up their kid(s) is a LOSER.

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FromWithin(8241) Disputed Banned
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You are the loser to sentence so many children to lousy lives because of lack of discipline which gives them the knowledge of right and wrong and the understanding to relate with others, respecting their employers, teachers, parents, etc.

It is those who refuse to spank who many times harm their cildren's future. Discipline is good for children and spanking works wonderfully. Beating is TOTALLY DIFFERENT for those of us with half a brain, who can think for themselves and do not let political correct Liberals tell you how to raise your kids.

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dabatergirl(14) Disputed Banned
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You were probably spanked as a kid, that's why you agree with it now. I am so sorry, I never realized how terrible your childhood was (with all that spanking) That's probably why you can't come up with a decent argument.

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Spanking is child abuse. Parents should be arrested for spanking their kids.

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outlaw60(15368) Disputed Banned
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So if a parent swats the butt of their child they should be arrested ? LMMFAO

And your loved Obie is letting drug offenders out of jail ! Twisted thinking by you Leftist !

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Sitar(3680) Disputed
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Parents do not have the right to hiut their kids. Kids have the right to feel safe. Children are not property. I love how conservatives defend child abuse.

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Cartman(18192) Disputed Banned
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It is actually a really good idea to let people leave jail when they have been in jail long enough for the crime they committed.

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Sitar(3680) Disputed
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Strawman. I do not support everything that Obama does. Where were you when Bush took our liberties away?

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FromWithin(8241) Disputed Banned
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Total fool you are. I'm sure you vote for pro abortion politicians and say nothing whie they support killing unborn babies. Talk about abuse!

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Cartman(18192) Disputed Banned
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Can't stay on topic for either of your accounts can you?

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Atrag(5666) Disputed
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Advocating abusing children by taking their parents away is NOT ACCEPTABLE. You will not silence me. You WILL NOT advocate child abuse.

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Sitar(3680) Disputed
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I am a committed prolifer, and who I vote for is none of your business. Single issue voters are what is wrong with this county. Show me prolife liberal, and I will vote for him or her.

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Atrag(5666) Disputed
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You want children to have their parents snatched away from them. Well done on missing what children actually want. Absolutely amazing there.

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