Well if you're having sex with new partners every weekend, that's obviously just for the lust. Is that right? I don't think it is. Lust is a horrible thing, and can lead people to do horrible acts, and make bad decisions. Also, there's the chance that you can impregnate multiple people. I'm not saying that these children aren't equally as important as any other child on the planet, but is it really fair for them to be born into the world when there's not the real love between two people? Accidental pregnancy's can lead to skewed lives for children, as the parents might not have the basic relationship beforehand to sustain them. I'm not saying it's the biggest deal ever, but if you think of sex as nothing, then before you know it, we'll be breeding like rabbits.

Is the process in which we obtain the most pleasure and we procreate not a big deal? For most it wouldn't be since it is as simple as sticking it in and going at it. But if you think about it, sex is the whole reason we exist. Our father and mother created us through fertilization of the female egg. For animals, they do it for the continuation of their species. For humans and a very small number of animals, we do it for continuation and pleasure. Sex can be found everywhere from major religions to corny commercials for Trojan/Maxum condoms. Everywhere you look you will always see something that pertains to sex. So to say that it isn't a big deal is a mistake. If teenagers went out and had sex without protection, it could potentionally ruin their dreams/goals.

It is if you make it serious. For me, I see it as serious because it shows that you trust that person to share their body with you; it's one of the most open ways you can be with someone. So, in my opinion, yes, it's serious. But again, that's my opinion on what sex means to me.

Sex is a huge deal and anyone who says otherwise is lying, diluting themselves, or just simply doesn't know nearly enough about it.

See the dirty little secret about "the dirty little secret" is that it isn't so dirty, it boost moods, relieves stress and helps keeps frustration down. People who have sex on a regular bases tend to have healthier weights and better cardio vascular function as well as better emotional status

It wouldnt be right to label individuals with multiple partners as "bad" or "sinful" individuals- to do so would depict a degree of intolerance. Sex, itself, however, is a big deal and is something that should be viewed as such even by those considered promiscuous. Sex is both a physical and psychological connection between two individuals. For some, sex is important and a "big deal" because love and spirituality is behind the act. Others view sex as a moral action, something that should be done only between people that love and care about each other. For those that don't hold the same beliefs, sex should be considered a big deal insofar as its consequences. Frequent sex with multiple partners exposes the individual to a wider range of sexually transmitted diseases and other pathogens. Further, even those who practice "safe sex" (condom use, taking "the pill", etc) are at risk of pregnancy. Those who don't believe sex to be much of a big deal often behave accordingly. Multiple partners increases the chances that you will be taken advantage of, that you will take advantage of others, or that you may give or receive unwanted diseases. Whatever the motivation, all individuals should value sex as a very "big deal".