Who's Right?
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Let me tell you a story. There are two best freinds that are awesome together. All the same interests, same crazy personality, same everything pretty much. One day, the one friend (me) stays over at the other's house, another is over too. The two spending the night keep the other one up all night (by accident). The next morning, she's super mad and we apologize. You know, the typical "Sorry for keeping you up. We were having fun."
So anyway, after we both leave, she forgives that other friend but is still uber mad at me for some reason. I have to beg for her forgivness and finally, we're okay (though she still was a little cold towards me.) I then get a tentative invitation to her party.
At said party, a few of my other friends and I agree that it would be fun to walk down to the cemetary near her house. It was my understanding that the necessary people were informed that we were leaving. Apperantly, I was wrong.
When we get back, she's pissed...really pissed. She kicks me out of the party and I'm the only one she's mad at. After once again begging for forgiveness, she agrees to let me stay. She seemed fine with me being there and everything. Then when I leave, she refused to hug me and gave me a cold stare as I walked away.
Now she and I are no longer freinds. I'm willing to repair the relationship and get on with our lives but she insists on holding a grudge so I'd rather not bother.
The worst part about this is that we have the same friends. They are probably going to get together and do something for Halloween and she says that it's her thing and I can't come. Just because some of them are meeting at her house doesn't make it her thing, does it? Someone even came up to me today and told me not to come because it was "her thing." I simply laughed and walked away.
So, after reading this, who do you believe is at fault here? I don't really care about being right, I just don't think I did anything wrong and she's being a baby about the whole thing. Opinions?
You're Right
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She's Right
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Shes not right at all, she must be smoking crack?? Idk how old you are, but i just would not find that acceptable, if she feels the need to have one of her friends as her "bitch" (no offense to you) Then she should be not treated like a bitch, but dealt with like a bitch: i.e. dont put up with her shit, she has no control over what you do and if she doesnt like it tell her to stop crying about it, grow up, and deal with a little thing called life Shes totally wrong in her ways Side: You're Right
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of couse your right!!!!! also, she don't have to be THAT cold. I mean you begged to her for forgiveness. she's really wrong about you. oh! also, I have 3 other opinions: 1: BREAK UP with her. FOREVER!(well, I think this is so harsh, so try the next one.....) 2: beg to her again...(if you are a male you might NOT do this. if you are a male, try the next one....) 3: don't EVER invitate her to YOUR party!!!!!(I mean, EVER, EVER, EVER!!!) P.S: the 3 opinions may not work well................ Side: You're Right
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Thanks for seeing it my way. I'm a chick by the way XD I think I'll just give up on trying. It's not worth my time to try and fix this because this hasn't been the first time she's hated me. Before we were friends, we hated each other. I'm not gonna beg her again. She doesn't deserve it. It probably wouldn't work anyway...you should hear what her standard of an apology is. Side: You're Right
She's right, but it matters little. You can't get along with everyone, so it's important to forgive and forget. Remember the good times, but if she can't handle that you are your own person and can't always answer to her, then perhaps it's best that she isn't your friend. I wouldn't be her enemy, but not her friend either. Just coexist. Side: You're Right
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Wait...who's right? You've posted on my side but you say she as in my friend? I'm confused. And that's what I've done. I call it "one-sided enemies." She hates me but on my end she's simply another person. I don't hate. I never could. After all we've been through together, even if she beat the living hell out of me I still couldn't bring myself to hate her. Side: You're Right
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