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In loveless, wealthy marriage In a poor but very loving marr
Debate Score:49
Arguments:33
Total Votes:64
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Would you rather.......

In loveless, wealthy marriage

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In a poor but very loving marr

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3 points

Let say I were to get married and my wife does not love me. I don't love her either. But we are still bonded my this wealthy marriage... it's perfect! We are then free to look elsewhere for love because we don't have to worry about breaking each others hearts.

The best part of that is I'm rich and in love... just not with my wife.

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1 point

I can buy love on the side with the money! I am not for marriage anyway

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3 points

Oh well my oh my , I had no idea you were a single Hottie :)~

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3 points

Yes I am a very single hottie, but I like it that way...: )

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BlondieGirl(34) Disputed
1 point

Money doesnt buy love!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Sunset(2024) Disputed
0 points

Thats nice, have you been in a loveless marriage with lots of money? or have you had a lot of money that stood in the way?

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1 point

I don't plan on getting married so what the hell, I might as well enjoy the wealth!

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0 points

It would be even better if the wealth were indication of individual personal success on both parties' parts. Who needs love when you're wealthy and successful?

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2 points

i would so much rather be strongly in love and poor then weathy and not loving. love is what brings happiness not money. most the time money makes it worse.

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casper3912(1581) Disputed
0 points

A good percentage of divorces are due to money issues. If money doesn't bring happiness, then why does the lack of money bring unhappiness?

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BlondieGirl(34) Disputed
0 points

if that happens then maybe they never loved each other in the first place duh!

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BlondieGirl(34) Disputed
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well if that happens then obviously they just werent truly it love duh!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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2 points

Most people would say they'd rather have money. Honestly, I'd like to have money but I'd rather be in love and poor than rich and in a relationship I couldn't stand.

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2 points

Due to the fact I am married , I am poor ,, do I need to explain that nay more ?????

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1 point

Yes please I would like to hear more about it and speak slow LOL

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I'd rather be poor and in love. Money can only buy you material objects, not anything else. Love isn't a material object.

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cuntyguy2(203) Disputed
1 point

You can't get married fool.

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blayke13(362) Disputed
1 point

No one cares what you have to say. Just stop.

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1 point

Dude, you don't have to get married to be in love. And actually, same sex marriage is legal in California and Canada, so yeah. Haha.

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venom2tater(320) Disputed
1 point

You don't have to be married to be in love. Who are you to call me a fool? You have no importance in this argument. I was talking about love not marriage. Just because I'm lesbian doesn't mean I can't get married anyways. Look at Ellen Degeneris and Portia de Rossi! They're married!

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1 point

I'm not gonna get cliche about this but love is important in marriage.

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1 point

well i would like this!!!!as long as i have my husband im fine thats all i need!money CAN'T buy you everything!:D

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casper3912(1581) Disputed
2 points

If money can not buy you happiness, then why does the lack of money so often "buy" you unhappiness?

I know for a fact I tend to be quite happy after spending some dough, and when it comes to buying love; well there is a reason why valentines and diamonds cost so much: enough money can buy you nearly anything, if not everything.

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blayke13(362) Disputed
1 point

Because we try to buy things to fill our unhappiness. Does that make sense? Idk...If we can't have what we want, we buy what we (definatley) don't need and to to substitute it for...love i guess.

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1 point

It would be nice to be rich, but money can't always buy you happiness. I think being with someone who cares about you, and you care back is a good feeling that money can't buy.

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casper3912(1581) Disputed
1 point

You could be married, enjoy the wealth of that marriage but otherwise not have relationship with your husband/wife.

You could recieve your love from else where, and the money from your marriage may be pivital in allowing you to meet or be attractive to the love of your life. For example, "the one" may be a well educated man who travels in affluent circles, without your husband's money you would not of meet him and if you did his prejudice may of isolated you from him or made you unattractive. There are other situations where money may be pivital in finding the one, and there is nothing in the debate which constraints you to a closed marriage rather then a open one. Money can indeed "buy" love, in that it can be essential in forming the relationships and experiences which lead to it.

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1 point

Is it wrong to say that I want love and money. No one enjoys stressing over bills or car payments or credit cards. When you have problems like that they cause you to become stress, or perhaps you allow them to stress you out. Either way, having finiancial security can aid a couple by removing the "financial woes" out of the picture and allowing the couple to just concentrate on their marriage (or life together if not married) and everything that falls in line with it.

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1 point

i would much rather be very poor with someone who loves me than be rich and be with someone who just wants me for my money

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No amount of money in the world can buy the love of a good woman.

If you want it, you must earn it.

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0 points

I'd rather just be happy, to wake up every morning and feel like my life was worthwhile. Even though looking at a giant pile of money might be even more fun. I'm already poor so all i need is a loving relationship and i'm set.

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