Is this question for women having sex on the first date or for men having sex on the first date???

Well now...what a choice...LOL...ofcourse NO...and I do not care if he/she has been your best friend for 10 years...NO

For men or women...NO

The first part of any relationship is always the best...it

should last as long as possible. Make that "I want you feeling" go on as long as possible. Enjoy that new or old renewed relationship grow and get stronger.

You don't build a house with out a foundation...if you do, it will fold in the end, when a good storm comes by.

Southern smiles and world peace,

Sharon

~The Baby Boomer Queen~

Just because it's the first date, that doesn't mean there are no foundations to go on.

Usually it takes a lot of time, but there are certain instances where a couple is able to click almost immediately- it just depends on the the person, the date, and the circumstances.

Not if you want a second date, or a relationship out of the deal. You may get more botty calls, but it most likely will not go anywhere.

Personally, no. Unless maybe you had been friends for a long time before then.

No. Sex should wait at least until engagement, marriage is even better. First date? Hell no.

I would say don't do it unless you're mature enough to put up with the consequences of a lust at first sight encounter. If one does have sex on the first date there are expectations from one side or the other...unless you discussed a "booty call" before the clothes hit the floor. My thought is to get to know each other a bit first. You don't have to be on hold forever but why not be sure that the person is genuinely interested in YOU before giving it all up in a nanosecond? In today's sexual climate I think it would also be wise to find out who your parter is and where they've been! You're only as sexually healthy as your last partner...at best. If you feel the need and are that sexually starved or attracted beyond belief then, at the very least, use protection. I would still err on the side of caution though!