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So you didn't honor your "love" the first time and married someone else because what, You were afraid to be alone?

Now you found her and don't want to honor your marriage.

Grass is always greener on the other side. Stop running around like a mad man, always seeking for what isn't yours and never was. Not having gratitude for the things you do have. And what happens to all the Kids involved in all this?

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I am experiencing this right now.

I married a man, we were in love. Life happened, we lost sight of things. He has supported me but not as much as I have helped his life flourish. He was an alcoholic when we were dating, there was a friend who was a girl and she would always flirt with him. I asked him to pick and he picked me. We eventually married and she disappeared.

Well over the five years, I helped my husband recover, supported his education and his career. Taught him how to be an upstanding man. And now she is back and he knows how to dress well, smells great, doesn't drink, and so on... He is leaving me for the "Love of his Life"

I don't understand where she was when he was down and out. I also agree with the other comment that he has no integrity or loyalty. I don't hate her, too bad this is what she deserves. Since he keeps telling me "I deserve better" well I guess no other women he will be with deserves that because they get him.

I supported His dreams and he supported mine. No women is going to trust or be supportive of a man that wants to trek through the jungles of Costa Rica or backpack across Peru or spend 6 months hiking the AT. I did, I would. So basically he will sellout. Fall into the role of Ordinary man with an Ordinary girlfriend and Ordinary life. His loss.

Even though I have accepted my fate that I can't keep him. I Have always put his best interest in front of mine and I set aside my dignity to try to talk sense into him so he can live his best life -- but he is a fool to see the truth. Shame on him. Also his arguments is all my friends say "follow your heart". Yes I married an alcoholic, but I married a honorable man with kindness and integrity. The next women he is with gets a Sober, dishonorable man -- her loss.

P.S. While he was an alcoholic, his mother who loved me told me to leave him so I don't have to suffer. But I stood my ground and said "Divorce isn't an option and I will walk the line." I will be honest, I didn't love him when he was drunk--it's hard. But I did see the good man he was. In a marriage, love happens in waves--it comes and it goes.

So My debate is I honored the bond of marriage and my vows. But it's okay to be weakened by the desires of the world (be it a women, or riches or fame) and to walk away because you have to fulfill you heart's desire (7-deadly sins). Man will always be tempted with greed, wrath, lust. I sound like a bible-thumper, but really I am not religious or Christian.

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