Tied Positions: No; the semantics are vital. vs. Yes; marriage is just a word.
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No; the semantics are vital.
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Yes; marriage is just a word.
There is a lot of controversy in the US over the problem of gay marriage.On one hand, the government is (supposedly) required to treat all its citizens equally, regardless of sexual orientation et al. Furthermore, the government is required not to respect, establish, or prevent the practice of religion.At the same time, though, the majority of US Citizens are at least somewhat religious, and the majority of religions are decidedly anti-gay. This large, very vocal crowd generally wants to define marriage as being between a man and a woman.Currently, in the US, a marriage requires two things:
1) A state-issued marriage license
2) A ceremony conducted by someone recognized as able to conduct said ceremony (most often a preacher, priest, or pastor, but not always).Civil partnerships are offered to gay couples as an alternative to marriage that allows most of the same legal protections.
I propose that, in order to sidestep the issue, the US (and constituent states) governments cease recognizing the term 'marriage' altogether. Rather than issue a marriage license to a heterosexual couple, they would instead be issued a civil union/civil partnership license. In this model, all of the same rights et al entailed in a marriage or civil union/partnership would be present in the new civil union.This is not a ban on marriage; it is essentially the government doing what it has always done, while leaving marriage in the domain of the religious. A couple who wanted to have a Catholic Wedding, for example, could get married in the church by a priest- but in order to enjoy any legal benefits of the union, they would still need to file for a civil union license (in the same way they currently file for a marriage license).
If a gay couple then wanted to be married, they would have no issue applying for a civil union license from the government, but if the term 'marriage' or the idea of being 'married in the eyes of God' matter to them, they would need to seek a church that condones and allows gay marriage ceremonies.This saves the government and politicians from the gay marriage question, to focus on other issues. Individuals may choose not to recognize the marriages of those whos beliefs differ from theres (since when do religions consider anything about other religions legitimate anyway?) But would be required to respect the rights of the civil union. This provides the same system for both gay couples and straight couples, with equal rights and protections under law. It also provides the same system for both gay and straight couples on the religious end; that is- no providence and completely separate from the government, and up to the church/organization in question. The only issue I can see is non-religious individuals who are focused on the semantics of the term marriage; but without the government recognizing marriage anyway, I could see a secular organization forming to conduct non-religious marriage ceremonies.