You can't blame your self for your fathers doing, I don't know your family condition's maybe he was doing it because it was the only way he knew. I couldn't say too much but kids failing on their parents? I can see this in a way, from what I know of my father and his kids, they are very unruling and don't listen much. I think they really need a wake up call I wish I had a dad to be there for me. They had both their parents their entire life that took care of them and I had only my mother that I had to take care of my entire life. I've always thought children like that needed more discipline but maybe they just need more love. Maybe they feel they aren't really loved by their parents for some reason. Which coming from me seems surprising when it feels like I got love from neither of my parents. Everyone only has one life though they can't possibly see things like I do through my life.

What makes you say that? You can say any number to me but you've given me no proof to back that up.

We are the only race of intelligent life that we know about. We aren't perfect, we have a lot of faults but we make it by and we make amazing things. Our minds are our greatest asset otherwise we'd be just animals. Our minds progressed and with it technology too. We can be greedy and capitalist sometimes, others we don't get along and fight ourselves but we are still here and remain the most intelligent species.

We have to many being in jail and prison as it is and it's costing a lot, these people have murder others. They knew what they did and it's time to pay the price instead of them wasting money so they can live until they die.

Oh sure why not just take all the nutrients out of my diet. I'd rather stick to the natural stuff. In America we take out to many nutrients for cheaper by-products just to make more money.

This is rather unclear but under any circumstance I would say no. If the mother was in prison for one reason or another she should be fulfilling her duty for her crime. If the child was in prison the same goes for them. If you really believe the child should be with their mother in prison, with other inmates, that an issue. Children should not be exposed to that, the child should live with a relative or go into foster care.

I think breast feeding is alright just can't there be a better place than in public? It can be very distracting to other people and families. I understand that sometimes the baby needs food now and maybe some mothers are just completely against using a bottle under any circumstance. in that case I would think you could find some private place to do that at least.

I'm not even going to go into what the constitution says. We all have lives we want to keep, weather it's ours or someone else's. Having a gun as a weapon is what keeps us safe. Yes there are people who have them who do bad. Even if you make guns illegal do you think no civilian will get one? Some drugs are illegal yet people still use them. Making guns illegal to the public won't change anything. Actually it will make things worse because the people with good intentions with them won't be able to have them when they need them.

I can understand that but even so with me I just have difficulty ever seeing them. It's simply because the relationship ended, to me that makes it a mistake that's now a part of my life.

I can understand that but think about if you were with someone for 5 years and all of sudden they break your heart. that's a pretty big ouch, I'd say being friends after a relationship only works for some people.

That scares me a little, I don't think your wrong about that I would just think most people would know. Well more like I would hope most would know, I couldn't say at the number.

That honestly doesn't sound ridiculous to me at all, I know people are different. I consider the base things cheating, like sex or making out. anything else would be something I'd raise my eyebrow too.

Me, it's right down to nothing at all, i'm just not the kind of person who can even stand seeing them. I never want to see them or talk to them again, I really just can't take it. It's not even that I hate them I just can't take being around them, ever. For example my last ex still wanted to talk to me and see me, I said yes but for a different reason. She said we could be back together again but now that I look at it I doubt that'll happen. it drives me so insane as it does because she still texts me and shes still on my Facebook. I want to talk to her and call things off but I won't see her for a while. It drives me crazy seeing her in my news-feed all the time, all the photo's and the statuses. I've thought about deleting her, blocking her, or deleting my own account. I would love that however she knows my family personally so I know my family would flare up with the first two options. As for the other I'd have very little contact with my family without Facebook, I know that's weird. I just hope she'll understand when I talk to her, I just need to drop her from my world otherwise I'll still be how i'am now.

I use to believe a lot more in true love but not anymore. I believe true love exists but its very rare. you can say you have true love but to me that's something to a higher power than love. Love to me is really just two people who get along together and work well together.

I'm a catholic myself and I can say most probably are blind to this stuff. if I see hard evidence I believe it no matter what, I'm a catholic but even I can't believe everything the bible says, I believe what I can see for sure. other religions are ok to me sure I don't know what they are all about but its there religion it doesn't matter to me that they don't have mine I just let them be.

me personally I would not even consider it, if there was anything going on I would just end the relationship. There's no point in trying if they don't love you and if they say they do that's there problem because I'd want nothing to do with them anymore. That's just me I take that as saying I don't care about you anymore and well I wished you would of told me but obviously they weren't the person I thought they were.

I know that, that's why I never quite understood that. people seem to get irritated towards that yet that is what usually happens in the end.

Well uh that's great I guess, now go on before I pluck out your eyes hahaha!

no but something I noticed is sometimes people think your trying to change them and they ask you that question. They don't want to change at least not because of other people, now I've never tried to change anyone. but that's what this feels like, just because of a way a lot of people think I should change myself, because of other people I have to change me and then it's like I'm not me.

I know the direct meaning of it but to me there's a worse kind, the one that doesn't get paid.

Yeah I don't believe I should just give it up so easily. but I know not many women do think like that. it's just I've found myself re-thinking a lot of things that I always wanted to standby and upheld, things that made me, me. Those things have been changing because it just doesn't fit in this world.

Yeah, by the way "I can see how fun dating can be but commitment interests me so much more

Commitment is really hard to accomplish, I don't mean in just a sexual way, I mean in an emotional way. Yes it's possible, but you can't expect you to just understand it the first time you attempt it, can you?" I meant in an emotional way too. I use to think to wait for a relationship like that but no one waits now a days so it seems so pointless to me. My whole reason for wanting to wait was because the only one who truly deserves my virginity is my future wife but if she doesn't think the same I don't see why I should.

Sorry I got busy with being a new college kid but any who the lessons im talking about is love the same mistakes are made countless times and light is never shown to the people who wish they had done things different.

haha boring for some yes. I can see how fun dating can be but commitment interests me so much more. of course you never know how things will go early on. yes but the lessons are always a constant repeat from generation to generation they change only in circumstance.