Okay, let North Korea bomb us we have to deal with Gay marriage,
They are not currently, let's deal with gay marriage.
, let everyone lose there home, we have to focus on Gay marriage,
You are still living in a house, so am I, let's deal with gay marriage.
how in any way is this important [at this time]
Because [at this time] we are under no serious threats, we are apparently safe enough to outlaw gay marriage why are we not safe enough to discuss why?
I'm sensing some hostility here. And for that, my apologies, but you came to this debate, you posted the outrageous claim, I don't think you have much reason to be upset.
The problem with this new argument you are bringing up, the "Let's not talk about this" one, is that it's still an issue. If it wasn't an issue gays would be allowed to marry or they wouldn't care, but since they do care, and are not allowed to get married, then it is still very much an issue.