Aren't long engagements totally pointless?
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I think people who get engaged who KNOW they can't get married for awhile is just ridiculous. It's a waste of money at the time to get the ring, and it kind of gets their hopes up for nothing. Specifically younger people who get engaged is stupid. They just do it so they can call each other finance and fiancée, instead of boyfriend and girlfriend. Side: yes
Specifically younger people who get engaged is stupid. They just do it so they can call each other finance and fiancée, instead of boyfriend and girlfriend. Wow, steryotyping much, again. I got engaged young for reasons that had nothing to do with name-calling lol. I loved him, he loved me, I was pregnant so why the hell not get married? That was our reason, and it worked out perfect. Side: No
I was pregnant so why the hell not get married? I think for the reason you just mentioned. Rushing into marriage because of a pregnancy is kind of silly but all too common today, and for what? To avoid a ridiculous stigma? Fortunately for you it worked out, but in many cases it doesn't. I think this may be one of the reasons why divorce rates are so high. Excuse me If this seems judgmental, I don't blame pregnant brides, but our culture which seems to prefer this than mothers who get married after giving birth even if they were in a stable loving relationship the whole time. I might actually start another topic about this. Side: Yes
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