Biologically, the Sexiest women for some reason, will 99 percent of the time not like you
Most of us humans are average or below with average or below average success/job/money. That's just how it is.
And biologically, women will want to mate with the guys that have best genes. usually that means good looking guys or smart/genius or super successful.
That means most Decently beautiful or even average girls will reject you 99 percent of the time. In fact i've been doing research and found that nly 1 out of 20 have a mate/boyfriend/gf. Even if they're are gregarious outgoing type of people. They just end up having a bunch of friends but not a mate.
So yeah, in order for average/below average guys to get a GF they would have to try tons and tons of times. That's not gonna happen. Not realistic because most average and below average guys are not confident , dont have self esteem and become depressed and give up.
I myself am in my 30s and have never had a GF. Women are not interested in me, so how in the world.
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Dear dobelSoboel3, You pose a very interesting and thought provoking debate... I would like to share my humble opinion with you. Please understand this is from MY personal situation. #1 Girls like guys with confidence...when they are mature enough not to like the guys who are dangerous. So, don't go after the young or immature girls as "Danger Boy" will always win! #2 Girls like guys who are really friggin good at something...often, they don't even care...just be excellent at something that doesn't equate with super nerd and they will like you. #3 Women like guys with great bodies, but not as much as guys like women with great bodies. So, you can't be a fat slob, but being a big teddy bear is AOK. #4 If you are good in bed you can win over a better looking guy...problem here is getting them in bed...oh, and being good in bed. #5 This one is really important...Women will almost always mate downward or below where they could score a guy, because they want a stable home. Women know if you are just as hot as they are, you are just as likely to move on when you find another hot girl...but the woman who mates down has a much better chance of keeping her family together. Please, please, please spend time studying this one. Seriously it is true. So, while I rarely give advice, here goes...Go to the gym and lose a little weight...get a little more buff and tighten up those muscles. Figure out what you are good at and get better. Go to the bar and ask the hot women out...you have nothing to lose. And I meant the hot women, not the Super hot women. Learn how to be good in bed. Half of that is making sure she is taken care of first. the other half is making sure she knows "she" is the reason you enjoyed it so much! And, go get a copy of the Tao of Steve. Watch it and understand it. This kind of stuff really goes on! Here is a quick addition...some women need their space (they still need to know you are around, but they need to be independent...so please let them)...other women need to feel secure so let them. Remember, this is up to you! Good luck, Andy Side: Go get 'em tiger
Andy hit the nail on the head ^_^ And I'm going to go through it with a woman's view point now ;) Though most woman don't actually THINK about these things, it does effect what happens.
Confidence is a huge thing simply because it'll catch a girl's attention. Number two is so true, woman love a guy who know a lot about a topic and are good at it. For example, my boyfriend is way into guns, and all though the stuff he talks about them bores me to hell, I LOVE how passionate he is about them, and how he is always willing to learn more. If he's getting a new gun he researches it thoroughly before purchase. And knows the gun inside and out. He's also like this about cars, food, and cameras. Number three is kind of true and kind of not. I'll be honest, I hate seriously muscle guys. But I can't stand people who are over-weight and have let themselves go. Some middle ground is probably best. Number four... Well it's not something important for me personally. I mean, sure, it's a bonus, but I don't know. For ME it's not a big deal. Of course I've only been in bed with one person so my view on this one may be void. lol Number five True true true true. Lol, we want stability. And know who to get it from. And to add on this, a great way to get a woman is let her know for sure that you've got a plan for the future. Girls can not stand men who are just kind going through life hoping they'll get rich or whatever. Let her know you have a stable plan and talk to her about it. So yep, there you go ^_^ Side: Go get 'em tiger
This is great advice, and from my experience completely true. I've seen enough and have personal experience with younger women who date jerk, after jerk, after jerk, simply because she likes confident guys. Younger girls have difficulty distinguishing confidence from cockiness. More mature women are more apt to go for the nice guy. Although every women is different and there are exceptions to every rule this seems to be the overall trend. Side: Go get 'em tiger
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If ye seek peace Avoid women. _______________________________________ If ye seek relationships I can speak with accuracy only of the English middle classes, having no connection with, nor any desire to be connected with, anybody else. As seems to me to be the case, the better sort of woman, hailing from the classes middle and upper, is attracted to sophisticated men. Educated men, of extensive physical and mental faculties, noble in thought and diction, heir to great confidence of spirit, to great energy and vivacity of wit. In body, one need hardly be "the glass of fashion and the mould of form", but be to of excessive dimensions, to flow and tremble as a standing marsh, is indicative of laziness, of sloth and slovenliness. These things are to cultured women most terribly repulsive. Rather show yourself to be active, to be determined and to enjoy a proclivity to cleanliness. Parler la langue français est toujours un avantage. Il les fonde comme beurre. Above all else they are delighted and fascinated by things intricate. A man rough and unsubtle without yet possessed within of elegance, poise and genuine depth of emotion provokes their admiration. A man schooled in the arts yet susceptible of mirth and levity provokes their adulation. And a man whose countenance is set as marble in nobility of profile yet behind whose eyes a passion great and unrelenting doth smoulder provokes their absolute, helpless adoration. _______________________________________ If ye seek mere relations And not to leave out the other moiety of the sex: The lower, vulgarly lascivious class of female is delivered into weepingly intense transports of concupiscent longing by the display of physical power, or material wealth as manifested in clothes, automobiles and other miscellany. A curious practice of shaving off some portion of one's eyebrow is also deemed to be efficacious. As an afterthought, you may wish to lope about with you hands habitually fondling your genitalia, your trousers about your ankles with underwear (optimally bright and colourful) on full display, some cap of low quality draped across short, military style hair, and finally a wide, leering grin displayed at all times. This is the fastest course to fornication in my country, short of visiting one of the bawdyhouses (to Western fans, establishments where Billiards is available). You may wish to drug them with aqueous compounds containing C2H5OH. Side: Go get 'em tiger
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