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Debate Score:77
Arguments:69
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Do homosexuals contradict themselves by wanting to get married?

We all know that God created marriage and when two people get married God is in the middle. So why is it that gays that don't really care for God, the bible, and etc why would gays want to be apart of this holy union?

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Side Score: 30
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Side Score: 47

Gay men contradict themselves when they decide to get married because they have to decide who is going to be the woman in the marriage..., which contradicts the concept of gay men. ;)

Side: Yes

You seem to be under the common misconception that marriage is a religious term. It isn't. If you do a quick search on the history of marriage you'll find that it predates recorded history. There are records of marriage as old as 2350 BC, long before your religion even existed, and it has taken many forms throughout history including polygamy, polygyny, polyandry, endogamy, exogamy, common law marriage, monogamy, arranged marriage, and same sex marriage. It wasn't until 325 AD that Christian churches became involved in marriage. Before that it was thought of as a primarily private matter with no religious ceremony being required. Even today marriage is not strictly tied to religion. No religious ceremony is required to get married.

Side: No
Safiya(152) Disputed
3 points

Hi, marriage started with Adam and Eve the first humans on earth. Adam said this is now bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh she shall be called woman because she was taken out of man. therefore man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife and they shall become one flesh. Also I never said that it came from religion I only said God created marriage.

Side: Yes
2 points

You're assuming that everyone believes the stories of the Bible. There is so much evidence showing that the Bible is not a reliable source of information, that we can't take anything is says at face value. There is an overwhelming amount of evidence showing that we evolved, and that the story of Adam and Eve never actually happened. Even many Christian religions have come to accept this given the overwhelming amount of evidence supporting evolution. I think we would be going to far off topic if we start debating evolution, but if you want to I can create a new debate about it.

Side: No

As a fellow Christian I'd like to know what verse states God created the institution of marriage. Also, by saying it comes from God you are saying that marriage comes from religion.

Side: Yes

I do agree that marriage existed before say, Christianity. But religion was the precursor of, and existed before, government. Shamans ran the tribe through superticious mumbo jumbo. And the concept of marriage existed then in order to maintain the tribe united. You can't have in fighting among the men over the women.

Even in ancient tribes that exist today (in Africa, and the Amazon jungle), which are more like single family communes that interact with other family communes, they too have a concept of marriage and no government. Government is only needed to maintain large societies.

Side: No
joecavalry(40163) Clarified
1 point

If you take the position that the leader of a tribe is the government, then we get into a "chicken and the egg" problem. I would then argue that the leaders were the shamans' bitch. ;)

The leaders were bound by their superstition and thus to the shaman, which represents an early form of religion. The shaman was the real power behind the throne. The leader consulted with the shaman before making a big decision.

As far as the wedding ceremony, the shaman performed those. And that is what ties marriage to religion. ;)

Side: Yes

Marriage is more than a religous institution. The fact the atheists get married proves that.

Side: No
Safiya(152) Disputed
1 point

Once again I never said that marriage came from Christianity I only said God created marriage

Side: Yes
2 points

Unless you can undeniable prove that, such a conjecture holds no bearing in the law and should not impede people in their right to the pursuit of happiness.

Side: No
2 points

We all know that God created marriage

Incorrect. Humans created marriage.

and when two people get married God is in the middle.

Uninvited threesome? Creepy bastard. Stick to ghost-raping virgins will you?

So why is it that gays that don't really care for God, the bible, and etc

Well some gay people do care for god, for some reason. With your description I honestly have no clue why anyone gay or straight would care for any of it.

why would gays want to be apart of this holy union?

From your description who would not want to be apart (meaning away from) this "holy" union... unfortunately you mean a part, as in be involved or part of this "holy" union. Anyway.

1. If there were a god he'd not be so mean and so petty as to care which two puny mortal humans wanted to spend their life together. The god you describe doesn't exist, and if that god did exist he'd be a horrible being not the least bit worthy of worship.

2. It's perfectly possible for one to believe in a god who doesn't care whether someone is gay.

3. Marriage in no way inherently has anything at all to do with any theology. It can simply be a custom or ceremony or commitment.

Please tell me you're a small child who is being home schooled by parents who are in a cult and you ran across an abandoned computer in the woods that was plugged into a burning god-bush, and you started randomly pressing buttons, and like a 1,000 monkeys eventually writing Shakespeare, you ended up on this debate spewing moronic gibberish.

That's an excuse. Otherwise this is quite embarrassing.

Side: No
LittleMisfit(1745) Clarified
2 points

Please tell me you're a small child who hasn't yet learned how to discuss things like an adult, without resorting to insults and name calling. That's an excuse. Otherwise this is quite embarrassing.

Side: Yes
iamdavidh(4856) Clarified
1 point

Ah,

You must believe that blatant ignorance and childish notions which are the root of discrimination,

Should be treated civilly as if it were a valid point of view.

That's fine.

I do not though.

Likewise if a person with a tinfoil hat runs up to me and starts screaming there are flying rabbits eating his pet ewoks, I will laugh and not attempt to discover where these flying rabbits may be and save his pet ewoks.

But by all means, go try to save his pet ewoks.

Side: Yes
Safiya(152) Disputed
1 point

God did create marriage because it all started when he created Eve from Adam and God has to be the third member of a marriage or it will crumble. Also, God does exist because he created the world and he created humans and how is he not worthy of worship? What has God done to deserve any less.

Side: Yes
Thebluemoo(66) Disputed
1 point

God did create marriage because it all started when he created Eve from Adam

First of all, start your argument off with proper grammar ("did create"). Second, what does this have to do with marriage? Even if he did exist and he did create Eve from Adam's rib, then how does that have anything to do with marriage? You're not proving anything, you're only stating what you believe happened. By the way, how do you know a man up in the sky created a woman from a man's rib, is there any way you can prove to me that this happened without using the Bible as a source?

God has to be the third member of a marriage or it will crumble.

This statement is not true at all. Plenty of non-religious, athiest, agnostic and others not worshiping a deity have had successful and long-lasting marriages. There is no third member of a marriage unless you're a polygamist, either. Explain to me how your God, over any other God, is a part of everyone's marriage and how if you don't invite him between you and your wife that your marriage will crumble.

Also, God does exist because he created the world and he created humans

You are not proving anything, you are not providing any logical explanation for this. God exists because he created the world and humans? Does the Stay-Puft Marshmallowman exist because he was in Ghostbusters? No, we know he doesn't exist because he's a fictional character in a story and doesn't exist outside of fiction. Does God exist because he created humans and the world? He technically didn't create humans as we naturally evolved from our predecessors to be the way we are, and not just in a split second by some God. We also know through science that the world wasn't created in seven days by a God either. So, how does your God exist? Please explain using proper facts and evidence or else your claim is dismissed as false.

how is he not worthy of worship? What has God done to deserve any less

God hasn't done anything to anyone at all. People spend countless hours praying to nothing, only to have nothing happen at all. What has he done, you cannot attempt to prove that he's done anything without the use of the Bible as evidence, which it is not.

In short, your brief "rebuttal" was a weak attempt to prove you're right and a strong attempt to prove you're mildly insane.

Side: No
Doherty95(299) Disputed
1 point

1) God did create marriage because it all started when he created Eve from Adam and God has to be the third member of a marriage or it will crumble.

The argument loses credibility as soon as you mention Adam and Eve because as we know the genesis account of creation is false. So if you meant Adam and Eve from the bible (which I'm sure you did) they never existed. Also God has to be the third member of the marriage, first thing is there is no good reason to believe there is a god and the second even if there was one what makes you think that without him marriage would crumble?

2) God does exist because he created the world and he created humans

This is an assertion and not backed up by evidence. Evolution tells us how humans arose and this is backed up by plenty of evidence.

3) how is he not worthy of worship? What has God done to deserve any less.

Well although I would say the God of the bible does not exist, if he did he would definitely not be worthy of our worship for the following reasons:

i) The God of the bible called for the genocide of the amalekites, Canaanites too name a couple. He also killed children because he was angry with the Pharaoh ( He hardened the heart of the Pharaoh so he would not let the Israelites go).

ii) Your God in the Old Testament justifies slavery, the killing of homosexuals and the murder of people for imaginary crimes such as witchcraft.

iii) Your God sends people to hell to be tortured for an eternity for a finite crime ( This disgusting idea came in the new testament).

iv) Your God created us, knowing we would sin and then couldn't think of a better way to forgive our sins then to send his son down to be tortured and brutally killed. If God is the one who forgives sins he could of just forgiven them rather then do that disgusting thing.

That is 4 reasons why if your God is real, he is not deserving of any worship.

Side: No
2 points

What about atheists, agnostics, etc. who get married? There was marriage in the pagan societies of Ancient Greece and Rome and even before that. Even if religion is a spiritual bond for some, humans introduced the institution. Most people don't get married because of some religious vitirol-- they get married because they love each other and want to show this love by entering into a union. That's all homosexuals want to do. Besides, aren't there religious gay people?

Side: No

Marriage existed long before anyone invented your make believe God. Marriage does not involve God. Marriage is a legal union not a religious one.

Side: No
1 point

Troll debate?

Side: No
1 point

Look like it.

Side: No
1 point

No. Marriage is about love, not biological sex .

Side: No
1 point

Are there really people in the world who believe this is a valid argument?

Side: No

the bible says to kill homosexuals "If a man lies with a male as with a women, both of them shall be put to death for their abominable deed; they have forfeited their lives." (Leviticus 20:13 NAB)

you now have two options:

1: believe that it is a good thing to start a genocide on gay people

2: accept that if you don't agree with killing gay people when God tells you to, then why do you agree with making gay marriage illegal, unless it is your own personal view which you incorporated into believing that gay people shouldn't be murdered.

if you believe that you are supposed to ignore the old testament then you are denying what you believe Jesus said http://www.evilbible.com/do_not_ignore_ot.htm

Side: No
Sitara(11080) Disputed
1 point

That is about temple prostitution. Duh .

Side: Yes
1 point

The reason why gay marriage is illegal is because are population would decrease

Side: No
bemagic15(531) Clarified
1 point

Then gay marriage should be forced in China and India

Side: Yes
Thebluemoo(66) Disputed
1 point

No, I've actually never heard that one before. Homosexuals are a definite minority on the planet, and if they were allowed the same decency and respect as us, the population wouldn't change at all. Even so, we're overpopulated as it is, it wouldn't even be a bad thing.

Side: No
1 point

um since marriage has been around longer then Christianity your whole statement is shot down and pretty dumb. pushing YOUR beliefs on others is pretty pathetic and the fact that you judge others is against the teachings of the religion you say you follow . What would Jesus say?

Side: No
Safiya(152) Disputed
1 point

I think you need to go back and read it again I said God created marriage clearly I did not say marriage came from Christianity. I dont know why everybody is saying that. I'm not judging anyone the idea came in my head and I was curious to see people's responses.

Side: Yes

Gay Marriage is an option and there are many Gay people who do not want to be married and are happy without marriage, however, Gay Marriage should not be banned.

Side: No