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Does age matter in relationships?

Nowadays, we meet a lot of couples when woman is elder than man, or man is elder than woman. Personally I think that it depends on the person. He knows whom to choose whom to love and whom to marry. If he likes, no one can change his mind. We are equal, and we have the right to choose for ourself.

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Side Score: 19

If the people in the relationship aren't minors.. then of course age doesn't matter.

If they are minors then age is just a number, and jail is just a room ;)

Side: Agree

while it is not the determining factor of a relationship, it does have a big effect on the relationship.

Side: Agree
2 points

but when you are together age is noticeable. You may have different interests and views on life. Someone living in the 90s and knows the policy and restructuring, and another partner was just born in the 90s.

Side: Agree
aitkassimova(34) Disputed
1 point

why do you think so? How do you choose your partner? You choose your shared interests. All the rest of the time you wake up together. Always have something to say and do. Without common interests it does. I'm thinking, this argument does not refer specifically to age in relotionships.

Side: Disagree
1 point

But what do people say about it? For example, when you are walking with your husband, who is the same age as your farther.

Side: Agree
aitkassimova(34) Disputed
1 point

Why I should listen to what people say? It is my own life, and I do not want to listen their opinion if they are against me. My parents will be shocked, but then they will understand me, because it's my chose, my life, my love.

Side: Disagree
1 point

imagine the situation when you are with your elder husband and your friends. It will be funny situation, because they have different interests and there will be the tense situation

Side: Agree
Adlet101(31) Clarified
1 point

Yes it might be funny situation, but any way if you love you boyrfiend/girlfriend it does not matter for you, what people will say about it.

Side: Agree
Adlet101(31) Disputed
1 point

Yes it might be funny situation, but any way if you love you boyrfiend/girlfriend it does not matter for you, what people will say about it.

Side: Disagree
aitkassimova(34) Disputed
1 point

my friends always support me, and they will try to find interests or topics for talking. Also, my husband will try. in extreme cases, they simply understand that they can not communicate. And if I really made ​​the right decision in choosing my partner, then he will allow me to continue to communicate with my friends, even if he can not talk to them.

Side: Disagree
1 point

I think that age is really important in relationships. For example, 25 years old young girl and 55 years old man is dating. Just imagine it, it is not right. What would think about it people? I'm sure that her parents would be against it. Of course, you can say that age doesn't matter in love. However, in most cases these young girls don't love that older man. They tend to favor them because of their financial status. In addition, I think that such relationships are not socially acceptable.

Side: Agree
aitkassimova(34) Disputed
1 point

It is just our association. A young girl is married to an old man. But this is not always the case. We can not understand how the girl fell in love with the old man, until we ourselves do not experience it. we should not judge them.

Side: Disagree
kokbayeva(17) Disputed
1 point

What would we do with association or stereotypes? I'm confident that it is impossible to try to solve this problem. People will always judge such couples. Moreover, I can understand them. Also I think that these young girls fell in love with the old men because of their maturity.

Side: Agree
1 point

Of course it depends on purpose of being with the person who are the same age as your father, but what can find young, beautiful, clever girl in the the person who is elder her to 20 years? your own benefits?

There is also different interests, when woman is 20 years and her husband is 40. She just begin think about life, when he has have already big life experience. some time later they will understand that they are not interested in each other

Side: Agree
aitkassimova(34) Disputed
1 point

Yes, some time later they can understand that are not interested in each other, and may not be like that. This passion can stay with them all their lives. If he has a great experience in life, he's able to help her and protect her, to be with her.. Do not you think so? And sometimes there may be situation when a 20 years old girl learned about the life and have more experience than than 40 years old man.

Side: Disagree
1 point

I think that age in relationship is important, because your friend (if he/she older than you) has more live expiriense than you, and vice versa. You will have more topics for conversation and it will get you more personal expiriense.

Side: Agree
1 point

I agree that age is important in relationships, because it is necessary to understand each other. Different ages have different way of thinking. For example, a woman, who is 25 and a man, who is 40-50 years old. She has more possibilities, which he may not have anymore like building a career. Both have different purposes and methods how to achieve it. I think, it could be result of dispute in relations.

When they are almost in the same age, relations seem to be easier, because they could have the same influence by changing in the world. It also could be helpful to solve problems.

Finally, I think that people`s attituвe towardcoupless which have large age difference changes in the bad side. What do think when you see a young woman (man) , who lives with elder partner? Personally, I do not believe that it is really love. People could think about such kind ofcoupless negatively. It could create conflicts with other people.

In conclusion I want to say that the age difference between man and woman carries some bad consequences.

Side: Agree
1 point

Age definitely matters. Personally, I think that people should be married to each other within 8 years or less. There are many factors that play into the age difference such as appropriateness, retirement, pensions, etc. Its definitely not okay for a 40 year old to marry a 24 year old. Trophy wife's are definitely frowned upon.

Side: Agree
2 points

Personally, I disagree that age matters in relationships. I have a boyfriend and he is elder than me on 6 years. We understand each other every time. And I do not notice the difference in age. The problem of age in a relationship was had come up by people who was jealous that someone has a young wife or husband. If a man loves, why he should change his mind for the rest of the mentality of the people? In the words of the great Russian poet, Pushkin: Love for all ages.

Side: Disagree
1 point

Love for all ages does not mean love between all ages. I get that will naturally be an age difference between most couples. But since our brains have not fully developed until around the age of 25, wider gaps at young ages should not be encouraged. Sure, there will be exceptions to the rule as there always is, but as a general rule of thumb i would say stick close to your own age.

Side: Agree
2 points

no as long as you and your partner love each other in the same way age does not matter and if you respect each other in the same way you love your parents age does not matter in relationships

Side: Disagree

Now there is a law that allows minors to have a relationship and get married with parental permission. Previously, maybe it was a problem, now it is not anymore.

Side: Disagree
1 point

I think that age does not matter if you love somebody and it depends on person, if he take care of what other people will say about his love, he will be unhappy. smth like that)

Side: Disagree

KoksMilana, why do you think so? How do you choose your partner? You choose your shared interests. All the rest of the time you wake up together. Always have something to say and do. Without common interests it does. I'm thinking, this argument does not refer specifically to age in relotionships.

Side: Disagree

Why I should listen to what people say? It is my own life, and I do not want to listen their opinion if they are against me. My parents will be shocked, but then they will understand me, because it's my chose, my life, my love.

Side: Disagree

my friends always support me, and they will try to find interests or topics for talking. Also, my husband will try. in extreme cases, they simply understand that they can not communicate. And if I really made ​​the right decision in choosing my partner, then he will allow me to continue to communicate with my friends, even if he can not talk to them.

Side: Disagree
1 point

Don't you think that if 40 years old man pays attention to the young girl, he doesn't find clever and girl with the big life experience, he has his own benefit? they have absolutely different life positions, views, interests, it is two different gap generation.... Moreover wise girl finds man to have helpmate in the future, and she understand that if she get married she will stay alone after 20 years

Side: Disagree
Ponchick(18) Disputed
1 point

I think that difference between interlocutors is useful for each of sides. As you said early, they have different view, live position, and also it will support their conversation and give more reason for supporting his/her own position. And it will be like disputeю

Side: Agree
20111752(13) Disputed
1 point

I understand the interest among such people, emotions, not for long time, but the marriage is essentially a routine job. Imagine that you have to long time together carry some heavy plate, and you are of different heights. For one it is inconvenient, for another more. it is too much easier when you have approximately the same height. I figuratively, but there will always be a psychological disables.

Side: Disagree

It depends on what type of relationship but ussually no.

Side: Disagree
1 point

Age in relationships is a topic that often stirs discussions. In my experience, it's not about the number but the compatibility, understanding, and shared values. I've found that mutual respect and emotional connection matter more than age difference. For those seeking insights on relationship dynamics, reading dating tips or guides on topics like how to seduce a woman might offer valuable perspectives. Learning about communication, empathy, and emotional intelligence is crucial, regardless of age.

Side: Disagree
0 points

In general age is not an issue, a happy 40 year old, hand in hand with their 60 year old partner is a common occurence. But change the age bracket to 20 and 40 and it's a different ball game. Personally i think thats just about the lowest you can go and it's still a bit suspect, but diving into the teen pool under 18, well...yo goin ta hell naaw!

Side: Disagree