Does arranged marriage last longer than love marriage
There are many arguements now around this issue. Some people think that all marriages shoud be based on love, but actually many statistics show that almost all marriages that are arranged last much longer than love marriage and are more stable. So which of these two marriages last longer from your point of view?
arranged marriage
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love marriage
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yes you are right but not at all. Besides all the statistics and facts that arranged marriage seems to be more successful and as you said "love will grow by time passage" majority of people will not choose this kind of marriage cause it is kind of artificial marriage without love, it is only beneficial in terms of financial stability that is all. Which one you will choose, I think love marriage. Side: arranged marriage
In cultures with arranged marriages, you are not encouraged to have the freedom to pick your spouse nor the freedom to depart from them. While they may have their reasons and values, it lacks freedom. Most people can remember back to college or high school (or your equivalent) where they had to work with partners. Imagine two scenarios: The professor declares group project! Scenario A: He allows you to choose your partners and has methods already in place in case people wish to find other group partners to work with. Scenario B: He assigns people for you to work with and implies that you cannot change partners unless the circumstances are so damn extreme and violate the law. Between these two scenarios, it's only natural that Scenario B will statistically have less group break-ups and will most likely last (thus dubbed successful). The same with arranged marriages versus modern marriages. Side: arranged marriage
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dear, i want to add something here.my English is not very good.so pardon me if i write somethig wrong grammtically. gone are the days when you could not choose your partner in arrange marriage. now a days you can go out with him/her. you can understand him/her. if the both partners like each other then they take a decision . the families of both sides also support them to undetstand each other. and i think its very good .you can say this is the advance arrange marriage . Side: arranged marriage
dear, i want to add something here.my English is not very good.so pardon me if i write somethig wrong grammtically. Okay. gone are the days when you could not choose your partner in arrange marriage. That can be debated, semantically. now a days you can go out with him/her. you can understand him/her. if the both partners like each other then they take a decision . the families of both sides also support them to undetstand each other. and i think its very good .you can say this is the advance arrange marriage. Except I'd argue that you still are not initially choosing the partner, you choose to accept the arrangement or not. It's a matchmaker game you cannot escape. There are also cultures where they legally do not allow forced (arranged) marriages, but socially they are still enforced. Call them coerced marriages, where technically you can deny it, but because of many social expectations, which often includes shaming your family, you cannot decline the arrangement. And then of course, there are cultures that legally and socially allow forced or coerced arranged marriages. Side: love marriage
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In arranged marriages, a wife or a husband is basically thrust upon you and you are left with no alternative but to carry on with your relationship for as long as you can ,you become more conscious of each others' likenesses,,secret signs and the thing flourishes;In love affairs,you are very much forced to keep your hubby all the time around you and inability to do so would spoil the entire thing-There's no guarantee in love marriages as in the case of arranged ones. Side: arranged marriage
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Love marriages are typically based on personal choice and romantic feelings between the individuals. The emphasis is on love and emotional compatibility. Side: arranged marriage
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um totally disagree with salta and riahlize .. 1-in love marriage you already know someone and their tastes preferences but in arranged you don't. 2- conflicts happens in every marriage whether it's love or arranged.. 3- and the scenario theory can't work in marriages because marriages are done with intentions to last forever and no one can live with someone forever by force because people want to live life not only spend.. Side: love marriage
I absolutely agree with you at all. It is better to know you partner before you marriage, cause you are aware about you partners character, likes and dislikes. Therefore you will know how to amazae her or him. Also i agree with you quotation like " no one is forced to live life not only spend" Side: love marriage
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