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Debate Score:28
Arguments:26
Total Votes:29
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Does the friendship between women and men exist?

yes

Side Score: 19
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no

Side Score: 9
2 points

My closest friend is a female, whilst I am a male. Ergo, there can exist friendship between males and females.

Side: yes
1 point

ofc yes, there are a lot of women who have friends-men, their friendship can be better than friendship between women only. In my point of view men are best friens, because they give us true advices, they support us in difficult situations, and always can make us smile

Side: yes
1 point

Yes i agree , that sometimes they can start to fell in love with each other, but not always, i also think that being friend with each other make them to get used to each other, and both sides don't think about each other like a potential love partner

Side: yes
1 point

... Of course they can exist. There are many different forms of friendship. The friendship you may have between your best "girlfriend" and your best "guy friend" will always differ, but it will differ between each person too! As well as the friendship you have with your older friends, and your younger ones. The big difference here is lust, its stupid to think that lust is never going to come up between a man and a woman who have created a strong friendship, but it's all up to the two involved whether they let it ruin the relationship. This doesn't necessarily mean they can't pursue this lust and not be friends (I'm telling you from experience, my best friend (a male), have slept together numerous times, and it hasn't changed our relationship whatsoever. I still set him up with girls, and him vise versa.) although, it also takes a certain type of person to handle a sexually active friendship. This is commonly a lot harder for women as we're more emotionally involved. But it's never become an issue for me. So, my answer, is yes, they truly can exist, with the right two people.

Side: yes

Well see I'm kinda on both sides because everyone knows some girls have guy best friends but it's kinda like girls don't wanna be friends with guys because everyone always thinks they are dating even if they are just friends

Side: yes

This is like saying a gay man can't have male friends, because he'll have an uncontrollable urge to fuck them all in their sleep.

Of course it exists.

Side: yes
1 point

Of course there is friendship between men and women. I have a lot of friends at my school or a friends with the opposite gender. I have some friends that are female and I am a male.

Side: yes

Why wouldn't they? I have two close guy friends. Plus with someone of the opposite gender, you can ask questions that no girl/boy could ever answer... :D

Side: yes

Well, if it's between adults, then certainly. I believe that males and females can be friends, even if they're single, as long as both parties have multiple guy and girl friends. Guys and girls hang out as friends in groups at my school all the time, and I like having both guy and girl friends around.

Side: yes

Men and women have platonic relationships and they are very happy to be in that situation.

Side: yes
1 point

In my point of view, the friendship between men and women can not exist, because its main problem is that they can easily fall in love with each other. There are many situations, when such friendships end, because one of partners start to be jealous of him/her.

Side: no
Vermink(1944) Disputed
1 point

So because there's a risk of falling in love they can't be friends i've been friends with a boy for 11 years and nothing in the sense of love exist's it would just be weird.

Side: yes
1 point

No, becoz they have opposite gender they cant be real frndz at all at the end they fell in love which would be natural women and man both attract each others so that is useless to say yes it exists than we are doing nothing just making fool our self ..........

Side: no
RaushanNur(16) Disputed
1 point

i confidently said "yes", because i have my own experience, i have boy as a friend, i love him, but only as a friend, sometimes as a brother, i always ready to help him with everything, i think that he also can do it for me, he gaves me adveces which not everybody gave, sometimes they can hurt me, but i know that he wishes me only good things, and something that can make me better

Side: yes
1 point

There is also another disadvantage in friendship between men and women. As we know, men are not so emotional, as most women are. So they often can not understand our feelings about our personal problems connected with love and boyfriends. They do not see a big problem, when for women it's a disaster. Women need to have some piaces of advice, but all men can say to our problems is: "Do not pay to much attention. Everything will be good". And that's all.

Side: no
RaushanNur(16) Disputed
1 point

sometimes it can be better, to stop women's nature, because girls are mostly in your position, it doesn't metter true it or false, boys are different, in comparison with girls they mostly have their own point of view

Side: yes
G3n3sis1(69) Disputed
1 point

What about if the man is gay? lol then they would show no interest in you and cuite possibly understand your situation. Now Im not saying I dont believe it's impossible for men and women to be friends because most of my friends are female. I haven't the slightest interest in most of them. Your point of view only applies "if" there is an attraction between the two individuals. Not all men are attracted to all females. if there was we would be like rabbits and the intelligent life on this planet would be depleted due to lack of space lol

Side: yes
1 point

I don't mean that men should stop women's nature. But they can really listen to our problems and give some helpful advice, because I consider them very clever humanbeings. They can analyse the whole problem, and give relevant points of view, but insted of that, they often ignore and even do not try to understand us. That's why I think that such friendship can not exist.

Side: no
RaushanNur(16) Disputed
1 point

so it depends on person, if someone can give you something that you expect from him, it doesnt mean that friendship between men and women doesn't exist at all

Side: yes
1 point

But it's the main point in friendship. Friends should listen to each other, give some advice anf help in difficult problems. Only girls can stand another girls' whining, because they have gone through the same situations themselves. If one can not understand you, can you call him a real friend?

Side: no
RaushanNur(16) Disputed
2 points

again repeating the same, IT DEPENDS ON PERSON, not all men don't listen to you and etc. i think that you are trying to generalize them all, they are all different, we all different, we have different brains, and also poins of view on different thituation, can you be confident that girls are always ready to listen to you, to help you, and, as you said, be really friend for you?

Side: yes
Vermink(1944) Disputed
1 point

I am a girl and I can't stand it when a girl from school I may not even like comes up to me and whines you could call me a tomboy but a massive magority of my friends are boys there easier to get along with than girls in my sense because they just reject me because I'm different but I just live on.

Side: yes
1 point

when a man is friends with a girl it is because we believe there is a chance to get with them, its nature. A man does not have friends that are girls unless they have some sort of relationship interest in them. after the man has been shot down is when any sort of actual friendship can start to form, because the man knows they are not an option.

Side: no
1 point

I can't exact say Yes or Not. But according my experience I have a lot friends male as I though then. After some time all these men told me that they wanted to be with me only fiends. That is why I do not know is it possible to have a real friendship with your friends (male).

Side: no
1 point

I don't believe in friendship between women and men, because their friendships differ. The concept of friendship is interpreted in a completely different way by men and women. The female kind of friendship largely implies a relationship based on trust. It is an open secret that women are inclined to pouring their hearts out to each other, they enjoy giving advice whereas friendship between men is based on deeds.

And man can go with his male friend any where, stay away in one room,etc, but if that happened between man and woman, i think the so -called friendship will convert to another thing. Friendship often ends in LOVE.

Side: no
1 point

I think NO ! there is no friendship between man and woman ! After long time spend together they start to feel something, and then it will grow to love or maybe only to sex between them. I strongly believe, that there is no friendship between man and woman.

Side: no