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Debate Score:57
Arguments:20
Total Votes:59
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Does true love exist?

All guys are players. They use a girl and throw her away like used tissue. Now I am not against the idea of love. Yes, there was love 50 years ago. But its the 21st century. Men just need objects to satisfy their needs.

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6 points

Yes because it's the basis of marriage...................................................................................

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5 points

Yes because some men love from there heart then they get married......................

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2 points

true love do exist.It is just that with time we people then to take it for granted. Love is a feeling and if it is not handle with care,the love become hollow. Usually girls complain that boys are not sincere,or as they get what they want they go away.But if we learn how to share our feelings and if we teach them how to control their feeling,then true love will be more visible.

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luckin(175) Clarified
2 points

I would agree to an extent. Love is definitely something you can feel, but in terms of marriage, its more of a choice. This is mainly because feelings fade with time even if they may come back. You do things for one another out of love

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2 points

Yes, true love exists, though very few actually attain it.

True love is the complete love and acceptance between two people, so strong they each would be willing to sacrifice themselves for the other. Absolutely that exists. I've found it with my wife. But granted, lots of people don't share my luck.

I'll tell you what true love is NOT though. It is not the stereotype that there is only one person to match another person. Not true. People fall in love, may even achieve true love, and then suffer through the death of a spouse, and in some cases years later are able to find true love again in someone else. It's simply not true that we each have just one match. Heck, there are billions of people in this world and you could be with any single one of them so long as you both agree and love and are willing to sacrifice for the other person.

And I'll also tell you, although love can be sparked by "love at first site", it's only a fool who immediately slaps a true love label on that sort of relationship. True love has to survive some testing first. Love is in what you do, not just what you say and feel.

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luckin(175) Disputed
2 points

It sounds like you're saying love is more of a choice if anything. Am I correct in thinking that? I also wanted to address the first paragraph as well. You had said that True love is the complete love and acceptance between two people, so strong they each would be willing to sacrifice themselves for the other. My understanding is that this is how love is supposed to be. Self-sacrificing. Not just restricted to true love. That may have been what you meant but thats just how I got it

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Grenache(6053) Clarified
4 points

Love is pretty much always a choice, just the same as the end of love is a choice.

Regarding "true" love vs "self sacrificing" I think you're drilling down to deep into terminology.

Ultimately both people have to want it and both have to pull together to achieve it.

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2 points

Probably. But what exactly IS true love?

Side: For
0 points

Being single is like every now and again but temporary experience, but don't want to keep overdoing it makes you feel so sick because I want to be ordinary and I just can't resist a family or some ice-cream if given the chance.

I will call a little when I indulge a couple of rare ones. They can make you feel the tall and shorts.

Side: For
7 points

All mens just take what they need from the girl then they leave it away

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4 points

nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

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4 points

noooooooo i dont thing soo........................................

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4 points

idk....................................................................................................................................................

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no................................................................................................no

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3 points

No it isn't because bullshit and a non-sense thing to be in love.

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3 points

Depends upon how you define it, of course, but generally I would say no. The common idea of "true love" is too heavily idealized to be realistic; that is, I think, the very point.

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2 points

nooooooooooo i don't like love ,.....................................................

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2 points

No it isn't because bullshit and a non-sense thing to be in love.

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2 points

no < because all the people dont know the true love ,, and Love means interest

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