If there were THREE things about yourself you would like to change, what would they be?
We all have things about ourselves we wish would go away or don't like in ourselves and others. Sometimes we have to recognize it in someone else before we see it in ourselves. Change is very difficult for all of us but we all have traits we need to adjust...not only for our sake but for others as well. If there were THREE things you'd like to change about yourself, what would they be and in what order from most important to this can wait a bit longer? There are no right answers here and the only pre-requisite is honesty.
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1. I also need to work on my patience a little bit. I find myself really anxious waiting for college letters. i know they'll come, but I can't stand waiting for them. And you should see me when I wait in line for something. Haha, it's bad. 2. I need to stop my procrastination too. Along with this, I feel I am too lazy at times. I would like to change this 180 degrees, but I'm too lazy to do so and I always feel I can "start tomorrow" :P 3. Lastly, I think I have a slight problem of overextension. I don't have a problem with this now, but at times I feel like I am working all day and don't get any time to myself. I think this actually fuels my laziness at other times, so a nice balance there would help I suppose. Side: Patience Laziness and Overextension
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I'll kick this one off so that people may feel more comfortable writing down their demonic character flaws,LOL!! 1. I wish I had more patience than I do with people in general. If you hit me wrong I can bite your head off in 10 seconds flat and you won't know what hit you. I'm much better than I used to be but I'm still a work in progress in that department. 2. I need some work in the forgiveness department as well. When I am hurt, I find it terribly difficult to forgive the slight. I can erase you if the hurt is severe enough. 3. I hate stupidity in any way, shape and form. I am still learning how to deny the temptation to call the person a dumb fuck or worse. I can't stand the trait in other people. Like myself, they probably have some need to be seen as very intelligent and cannot fathom how one can be that dumb. There's more but I said Three, so I'll leave it right there! Side: Patience Forgiveness and more
I too hate stupidity, but unlike color of skin, sexual orientation, or an ugly mole on one's forehead, people can help being stupid I think it's healthy and beneficial to hate stupidity, just try not to hate the person. Of course, I tend to hate the person too, but do as I say, not as I do :) Side: Patience Forgiveness and more
I also love to take things in a stride so I really want to ditch out my procrastination mode. I was also overconfident sometimes and people hates me for that. Maybe I also have to deal with my awesomeness, too. Its tough to maintain sometime. Side: Patience Forgiveness and more
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I applaud you for you honesty Rafael. We often forget that self praise is meaningless and it's best that others notice your fine points and compliment you on them, otherwise it comes off as arrogant and too aloof. Overconfidence can also be seen to be just a bit much in some people's eyes. I've not seen that in you yet and I hope I don't...but I'll be the first to tell you if you are. So far, so good though Raf, and I do appreciate your remarks very much. Side: Patience Forgiveness and more
1. My eye sight =] 2. I would like to have total empathy. 3. And more important than number 1 I would love to be able to commit to somebody, I always go out with a girl for about a month or longer and then I just have had enough with her. I find her unbearable to be around and then shortly after I end it I think ... hmm maybe I was a little to rash. Side: Patience Forgiveness and more
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