Saying that you are "So Sick Of America's Culture Of Military Worship" is not the same as posing a question.
Telling you to mind your own affairs is not Tu Quoque. I know Logic doesn't come to you very easily, so here is a daily life kind of example. If your neighbor says they don't like you kitchen, and you tell them to mind their own business, it is not a logical fallacy. Pointing out that they have an ugly kitchen as a rebuttal against your own ugly kitchen is a logical fallacy.
In our case, I wasn't presenting a rebuttal. I'm not concerned with America's attitude toward it's military. Since I do not find it problematic, it wouldn't make sense to point toward the same attitudes in your own culture, which would be Tu Quoque. Our case was simply you bitching about stuff in someone else's country and someone who lives their politely telling you to mind your own.
End of lesson.