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Debate Score:25
Arguments:24
Total Votes:25
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Is age matter in relationships?

Is it good if girl more oldre than her boyfriend?

yes

Side Score: 13
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no

Side Score: 12
1 point

yes!!! age is one important aspect in relationship, as it influences in people's understending. It is not barrier in relation, but it is important part.

Each age is characterized by its own characteristics. Fro example, the understanding of many things, an understanding about life in general.

I like guys who more adult that me, because most of them are more mature than my same age

But it's not all true. Always there are any exceptions.

Side: yes
Alish18(29) Disputed
1 point

you prefer an older guy just because his views of life are far different from your fellows?

what about love? isn't that an important side of relationships?)

when you are in love, you and your partener are mentally growing, both of your points are changing and you starting to have new priorities.

Isn't it good when a couple are grwoing together?

Side: No
debatableone(2) Disputed
1 point

I think, it is better when older partner will lead your relationships, especially male gender.

Older partner is wiser, he have more experience, he know how to avoid some critical circumstances.

Side: yes

Sometimes it is, sometimes it isn't.

1 year apart? Unnoticeable.

5 years apart? Not a big deal.

10 years apart? It can be overlooked.

20 years apart? Getting a little strange.

30 years apart? Ridiculous.

40 years apart? Unacceptable.

Side: yes
1 point

Tagged "yes" as in "yes" age is a factor in relationships, it being a part of who an individual is. Not necessarily negative or positive though.

That said, depends on the age of each.

There might not be a huge difference between say a 35 year old and 45 year old.

The difference between an 18 year old and 28 year old is significant.

But I'm against anyone having a serious relationship before age 25 or so personally. People are just too emotional and self-absorbed, for the most part, before than to make anything resembling a good lifetime decision.

At some point the brain's fully developed, and every situation is different so who is anyone to say what age difference is too much?

Side: yes
1 point

It depens who older and who younger, for example men should be older than women. It would be difficult to find " a common language" when the same age. Personally i don`t understand how can u dating with boy who younger than u?

Side: yes
AREKKUSU(275) Disputed
1 point

I'm 15 and I'm dating a 17 year old, is there something wrong with that?

I've never dated a girl that's younger then me. I'm rather muture and intelligent for my age. I can't putup with the idiotics of other people that are the same (or younger) age as me. Please, explain in detail hw there is anything wrong wit a boy dating a older girl.

Side: No
1 point

yes they are. duuuuuuhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! old creepers be creepihn

Side: yes
1 point

For me yes, age is important in a relationship...for me the best age difference is 2 years, but still i can't communicate with someone who is older than me, because their way of thinking is different, and it is like a problem for me...but it is also depends on personality...

what about who should be older, I think boys, because for me it is unacceptable (I'm telling exactly about myself) and somehow strange when girl is older than boy...

Side: yes
1 point

Nowadays, it is a usual thing to see lots of couples. And some of them,as believed especially by elders, are too young for that stuff. So there is become a question: Is age really matter in relationships?

Well, in my personal opinion - no.

Let me explain why.

First of all, to be with someone it is a personal decision of each person. Everybody decides by themselves are their age is appropriate to have a relationship or not. Having relationship does not mean having intimate relationship because it is another theme to discuss.

Second of all, we all live in the modern world where everything is possible. And just try to remember yourself at teenage age, when I guess more than half of us used to have a relationships. It was not extraordinary.

Thirdly, the problem is that adults say something like: "It is not love. Because both of you are too young" but how do they know is it really love or not? There are a lot of situations where people who started relationships in young age and married then. So, everything depends on people, on their seriousness in their relationships.

That is why, I think, age does not matter at all in relationships.

Side: yes
1 point

people at different ages have different opinions oа life, they have different views on things and have different values ​​because of this misunderstanding will arise and disagreements will arise too

Side: yes
1 point

I think that age matters in realtionships because the age gap can cause problems;

for example, what if your spouce is older than your siblings or in the same age as your parents, how would you feel like in family reunions or any holiday meetings?

OR, what if your partner would be older than you and always dominate you? He(or she) will think that there is no need to listen to your advices or opinions just because you are young than him?No doubt, it would offend you.

Other opinions, is that these kind of relationships never last long, because different interests or different viewson life. THere is less guarantees that you would stay together for long than if you would be in relationships with someone who is in the same age group as you.

Finally, age matters in relationships,and don't forget about it when choosing your spouce!

Side: yes
1 point

Nowadays, it is a usual thing to see lots of couples. And some of them,as believed especially by elders, are too young for that stuff. So there is become a question: Is age really matter in relationships?

Well, in my personal opinion - no.

Let me explain why.

First of all, to be with someone it is a personal decision of each person. Everybody decides by themselves are their age is appropriate to have a relationship or not. Having relationship does not mean having intimate relationship because it is another theme to discuss.

Second of all, we all live in the modern world where everything is possible. And just try to remember yourself at teenage age, when I guess more than half of us used to have a relationships. It was not extraordinary.

Thirdly, the problem is that adults say something like: "It is not love. Because both of you are too young" but how do they know is it really love or not? There are a lot of situations where people who started relationships in young age and married then. So, everything depends on people, on their seriousness in their relationships.

That is why, I think, age does not matter at all in relationships.

Side: yes
2 points

i would have to say no age doesnt matter. i get the point that people trying to say age does matter but when you really get down to earth about it. age doesnt matter if the feelings are real then who is to get in the way of love. put yourself in other persons situation.

Side: no
1 point

It can be, but i won't agree with that)

every people have a chance to love, so the age shouldn't be a problem)

Side: No
debatableone(2) Disputed
1 point

imagine that your girlfriend is older than you for 10 years. She have a great job with good salary and you both in "love". Everytime she pays for dinner, cinema, and other entertainments, she might even buy clothes for you

How you will react in this situation? As a men, wouldn't that bother you?

Side: yes
Alish18(29) Disputed
1 point

well, this is hard to believe=) i don't think that situation like this will ever happen)

but if you're asking, i will try to answer

so i'm 20 years old, i'm a student, so i don't have any job. My parents use to give me money, i still relying on them. at this case i will try to explain to my 30 years old gf that i can't afford some things that she does, and she mustn't pay for me.

well something like this)

Side: No
1 point

I agree with you. I also think that it is very important aspect. It connected with social status, money, job, friends, parents. When you will face with different difficult situation, love can disappear. Very strong love exists only on TV(( unfortunately, but it is true

Side: yes
1 point

Sure it matters if it's against the law for example child molesters. Otherwise if your old enough to decide you love someone then YOU LOVE SOMEONE.

Side: No
1 point

Nowadays, it is a usual thing to see lots of couples. And some of them,as believed especially by elders, are too young for that stuff. So there is become a question: Is age really matter in relationships?

Well, in my personal opinion - no.

Let me explain why.

First of all, to be with someone it is a personal decision of each person. Everybody decides by themselves are their age is appropriate to have a relationship or not. Having relationship does not mean having intimate relationship because it is another theme to discuss.

Second of all, we all live in the modern world where everything is possible. And just try to remember yourself at teenage age, when I guess more than half of us used to have a relationships. It was not extraordinary.

Thirdly, the problem is that adults say something like: "It is not love. Because both of you are too young" but how do they know is it really love or not? There are a lot of situations where people who started relationships in young age and married then. So, everything depends on people, on their seriousness in their relationships.

That is why, I think, age does not matter at all in relationships.

Side: No
1 point

Well, it depends what the ages are. If one person's like, 18 and the other about 15, then yes... that's wrong. But, age is just a numer... as long as you're not 12 and dating some 20 year old.

Side: No
1 point

Not at all, growing up with parent's like mine my dad was 14 years younger than my mother and I'm the result of their union. sure things can seem strange or things can be hard in relationships like these but if you really love the person why does it matter?

Side: no