Is it wrong to believe the world is a whore?
well bit of a story but all my life I've believed in waiting till marriage, the only one who desveres my virginity was my virgin wife or so I thought. To me sex is something so intimate is should only be done with one person although I believed people would make mistakes as long as you are with the second person you had sex with and try and make things work I could understand. otherwise people that weren't like that were not good people by my eyes they were just too much into sex and to me if thats all they care about I don't want anything to do with them. yet I know sex is a natural thing yes, even though I don't like that it is. When I started to find out how people were really like it blew my mind. I couldn't understand how anyone could do those things it made no sense to me. I started to think badly of almost anyone it was during this time I thought about being A sexual the whole world seemed so nasty to me and I thought I'd never want to be a part of it. to me having sex with other people meant your giving a part of your self to them. And I wanted all of my wife not my wife mixed with charlie, david, and jones. back then people who had sex all the time I didn't even want to believe they were real people. I tried changing my views and I thought I did but as time goes on I find that I still hold true to the old ways I use to think I just don't let it affect me around other people. the only thing that kept me from going to be A sexual was that I wanted a family that was the only thing.
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OK, I hear you. Now think about this..., You know how when we think about fish we're like, "OMG, they live, swim, eat and crap in the same water?!?!?" But humans do basically the same thing. We live, breathe and fart in the same air. Also, humans are, not only FULL of bacteria, we can't survive without them. We need germs. And the more germs we are exposed to, the better our immune system. It's as if God (assuming there's one, if not, no big.) was trying to tell us, "There you are, on planet Earth. Try to stay clean and pure. Go ahead. Accept the challenge if you dare." And the late JC is the only one who may have been successful. The rest of us just fail miserably. And as far as we know, the late JC may have done Mary Magdalene and for all we know she was a whore! So who knows? Maybe he too couldn't resist a nice rack and a tight ass. And maybe he was closer to his other disciples, if you know what I mean. But even if he was celibate, how did the children of Adam and Eve populate the world without committing incest or bestiality? My point here is that you may be holding onto an ideal that may be impossible to reach. I mean, I myself stopped counting after reaching the "12 women bedded" mark. On the other hand, I wasn't trying to resist temptation. I gave myself willingly. I also think that the priests made a mistake transcribing a word..., I don't think it said "celibate" I think it said "celebrate," but that's just me ;) Also, think about it, you're a getting a woman with experience. She should be able to do to you things that will rock your world. If you marry a virgin it would be like the blind leading the blind ;) 1
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I agree with a lot of what you said, however bacteria and germs I use to think were dirty been then I relaised something we all have them they keep as alive and healthy. but if god did do that see which of us could try to do that the successful ones became saints right? saints are humans who are pure inside and out that elevated beyond humans. maybe JC did those things I can't say if he did or didn't. I get that Adam and eve's children would have to go to incest to populate the world but bestiality? how would having sex with animals populate anything? and the whole experience thing think about were did that experience come from? at one time the whole world was a virgin if you believe in adam and eve. and since then people can gain experience and have better sex by having sex? so why not just have sex with your virgin wife and experience and do things you both like and make it better? 1
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If you are truly 18 and marrying a woman who is 9 months pregnant, it is almost certain to end in divorce. You better sit down with her and discuss the purpose of getting married. Keep it simple and pick only one reason and make that your number one reason. For example, if the reason is to raise a family and you both think that a child needs a stable, 2-parent household, then if, and when, either of you stray, it shouldn't matter. You didn't marry in order to own sole access to your spouse's naughty bits. A stable, 2-parent household tromps access to your spouse's naughty bits. Stay focused on what's important..., on the original purpose. But to be brutally honest. Given your nature that sex should be defined as narrow as you have defined it, that notion is only going to get stronger, not weaker. And it's only going to come between the two of you and grow to the point where your penis will no longer be long enough to reach her. When that happens..., remember..., it's for the children ;) 1
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I agree with that fully but do keep in mind I ask questions that have nothing to do with my life. this debate article I made (not the 9 month pregnant and wedding debate) is really about me. But I could never marry a woman simply to keep a household with two parents she should of thought of that more with the father of her child honestly. I see women get too attached to almost any guy they should find someone really worth their time but that doesn't happen and they get caught in the relationship and not the actual person. |
