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yes, it better to love & lost no need to love if u will lose
Debate Score:30
Arguments:28
Total Votes:31
Ended:11/27/11
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'It Is Better To Have Loved And Lost Than Never To Have Loved At All.

Many people believe that human in his life needs to fall in love even if that love does not last long. However, other ones say it is better to not love at all than to love and lost.

yes, it better to love & lost

Side Score: 14
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no need to love if u will lose

Side Score: 16
Winning Side!
2 points

I personally think that love is the best thing that can ever happen to the person. Person who claims that love is not important, is the kind of person who has never experienced this feeling before. Love is important in our lives, it makes us a better people. If we had more peace and love in this planet, then there would be less wars. Love changes people, and the ones who claim that they don't believe in it, they are just afraid to confess that they can love. I've seen people love each other, which is really beautiful and I would give everything to experience the same feeling myself.

Side: yes, it better to love & lost
1 point

Brain scans have shown that falling-in-love is like doing cocaine. I recommend doing coke instead of falling-in-love.

Love can put you on 10, but cocaine puts you on 11.

Another benefit is that coke does not require an illogical and emotionally unstable human being for happiness. Love depends on other people.

It is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.

It is better to have done cocaine than to never have done it at all.

Life is full of experiences. Love is just a natural high that mimics cocaine. Nothing more and nothing less.

Side: yes, it better to love & lost
AREKKUSU(275) Disputed
1 point

So are you saying it's a good thing to mess up the health on one's brain?

Side: no need to love if u will lose
1 point

Falling in love is the magical thing a human being can ever experience. It is hard to describe those feelings of happiness when you realize that there are no such things as "I am" or "you are" anymore, there is only "WE". When you are in love, the person you love becomes your everything...you began to live, to breath for that person...

I wish everyone could experience this GREAT feeling of love and being loved. Even thought your relationship did not work and you lost your love, I personally think that the tears and pain of loosing someone you love are worth of those happy moments you had together.

Side: yes, it better to love & lost
1 point

I believe that it's better to love and lost than never love. Nothing is permanent in this world, and anything can happen. If you fall in love, It's great. And later if happens that u lose your love that doesn't change anything. You still get to experience that feeling of love. However, If you never fall in love you miss out that great feeling.

Side: yes, it better to love & lost
1 point

I agree that any experience in your life is very important. Even the loss you have experienced teaches you an unvaluable lesson of not commiting the same mistake again. And in order to find the right partner we should concentrate on personality traits we desire that person to have, but instead, we should be able to clearly identify things we dont like to see in that person. In other words, we shouldn't say we want a hot and smart and caring guy but instead we need to know that we do not want a rude, unloyal and ignorant guy. This helps to better to better understand relationship issues and find the right person for you. nd in order to be able to do so, I would like to emphasize, that we need to have experience! :)

P.S. And in case if you have realized there is something major that doesn't satisfy you in your parner, please dont waste your time hoping to change that person. Guys usually dont change. And if you dont like the way ur treated, dont hesitate to break that relationship. It clearly mean that he is not the right person for you :)

Side: yes, it better to love & lost
1 point

I want to say something about your PS slot there. If the guy truely loves the girl then he'd change anything and/or everthing about himself to stay with her. Or at least I would.

Side: yes, it better to love & lost
AREKKUSU(275) Disputed
1 point

"Nothing is permanent in this world, and anything can happen."

This is not a fact. There is no Proof supporting this. There isn't any Proof against it either though.

"And later if happens that u lose your love that doesn't change anything."

IT CHANGES EVERYTHING! If you're truly in love then the loss of your love would be devastating. It could ever drive yourself to suicide. If it's TRUE and REAL love then it could take years to get over it. That is allot of time wasted sulking over something like that.

Side: no need to love if u will lose
bannayeva(29) Disputed
1 point

Well, actually you get to experience that feeling even if you lose it after. The lived happy moments will still remain. It is better than not loving at all

Side: yes, it better to love & lost
1 point

Of course it is better to have loved than lost, because regardless of how long you have the love, it is still one of life's most valuable experiences. Granted the pain from this can be excruciating, but you need to treat it as an experience nonetheless. A few moments in love can be worth a year in pain, but sometimes that is the deal. Depriving oneself of "potentially" poisonous water will only leave you to die from dehydration. Love, in all of its pure and evil forms, is life.

Side: yes, it better to love & lost

I say it's better to just love, and that's it.

I don't consider true love to have the ability to be broken, even by death.

You can love someone and loose someone, but true love comes from an unbreakable bond between two people.

I'd choose that any day over the other two choices.

Side: It's Better To Just Love
1 point

I agree that Love is the greatest feeling in the world. Real love can change your mind, your life . And it is better to love someone with all your heart and soul and lost that never to have loved. Because how can you predict...what Will be tomorrow, next week or year. We have to love and live now with people who are very important for us. It is a real happiness. Moreover this happiness exist. Happiness of loving someone.

Real Love is worth it to lose it.

Side: yes, it better to love & lost

Everyone should experience love. Plus we love so many people and end up with one which means we lose the rest. So if you never love you wont find the right person. Plus being a 'loner' can really effect your personality.

Side: no need to love if u will lose
1 point

I completely agree with you, It's better to love and lost, than never love at all. Only that way we can find out what is good for us.

Side: yes, it better to love & lost
2 points

It is better to never have loved at all because if you're another and it doesn't Work out and you have to break up then it is very painful but if you never loved then there is nothing to lose. You are spared a lot of pain as well.

Side: no need to love if u will lose
1 point

When someone is truly in love, once they lose that love it can truly be devastating. Things like this have made countless suicides. I do agree that love is one of the greatest things someone can have if not the greatest thing, but the fact that you would lose that love can really be painful. It almost makes me cry just thinking about it.

Side: no need to love if u will lose
1 point

love is the feeling that cannot control by human physical or moral activities. Everything that we have done is love. But what will happen if we will lose it? Nothing, because people cannot understand each other if we even take the divorces what do you think will happened? In that case we should only think about that like last days. That's only history. In my point of view we should be more clever and make strong plan that cannot be destroyed even by earthquakes.

Side: yes, it better to love & lost

It really depends on what you lose. If you lose your house and part of your salary goes towards alimony, then..., no, it's not better ;)

Side: no need to love if u will lose
1 point

you don't really call it true love when the person you love doesn't love you back so its better not to love than get broken in the end;;;;;

Side: no need to love if u will lose
bannayeva(29) Disputed
1 point

It is good to love someone even if you lost that person at the end, because you still experience that feeling of love. Moreover, here we are not talking about not being loved back. We are talking about being in love , when both of people love each other and at the end for some reason can not be together.

Side: yes, it better to love & lost