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 It's near impossible to Find a Girlfriend if you're in your 30s and are not a Fluent? (7)

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It's near impossible to Find a Girlfriend if you're in your 30s and are not a Fluent?

Women near my age( 30s) in America are usually career oriented and mature and want guy with a good job, great communication skills and confident. I'm not fluent in any language because i have brain injury and everywhere i've been women follow the playboy/talker type of guys, they ignore the quiet guys.

Unless you're a party type or outgoing dude and a good talker, your chances of finding a girlfriend are slim cause 99 percent of women will not be attrcted to your personality and the fact that you don't sound like an adult.

 

 

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3 points

Try online dating. Cast a wider net.

2 points

Yeah, definitely. Match.com or eHarmony.com

And it also sounds like you're not confident in yourself. If you want to put your main focus on finding a suitable lady in their 30s, you need to show that you have confidence in yourself, otherwise you won't find many because many are waiting to be found. Believe in yourself every day, and you will definitely find someone soon.

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1 point

You should simply be happy that you are not with of those judgmental women who really care for what is not important. Maybe you should just wait for the right person who likes you for who you are and not for the kind of person you should be...

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2 points

Bad advice is bad. If he is in his 30s and still not with a woman then he has been following this advice and its apparently not working for him. Most women now a days are judgmental and want someone with the perfect personality and if they can get it looks to boot. They will still settle for the ugly guy if he has a great personality but its a lot harder to get her. Now a days you have to have at least one of these two things to get a woman.

1.) Great personality

2.) An amazing body

If you don't have at least one of those things you are in for a life of loneliness and regret.

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92nida(1411) Disputed
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Bad advice is bad.

But, if a good advice is just not worth the shot. You'd rather have a bad advice worth while for you.

Most women now a days are judgmental and want someone with the perfect personality and if they can get it looks to boot

I'm sorry. But, you have probably had bad experiences yourself and haven't been very lucky with people. But, quite honestly as you say 'most', it is not really that often.

Women who are rather success oriented or materialistic usually go for options that are so judgmental. You always have women who are simpler in choice and who do not demand things like that.

There are always all kinds of people. Always...

Side: Confidence