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Love is a feeling Love is a choice
Debate Score:16
Arguments:15
Total Votes:16
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Love is...

Love is a feeling - The emotion that allows people to "feel" they can love someone else or that allows them to "fall in love" with someone else.

Love is a choice - Love is the "opportunity" to lay down one's selfishness for the well-being of someone else and is a choice we can make every day.

 

 

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Love is a feeling

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Love is a choice

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Both. Love is a state of deep caring, that can be chosen, felt, or just exist but not be consciously felt.

Side: Love is a choice

Great topic!

I think love is a feeling. There is no choice that you could ever make that is as influencial or important as love really is. Physical love, however, is a choice.

Side: Love is a feeling

Love is a feeling, because you cannot choose who your heart desires. Love is unconditional and without reason.

Side: Love is a feeling
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as far as i feel it is a choice as well as a feeling.it is a sort of caring,flying in the air without any burden etc. we mostly use the word love as a choice, but the ultimate aim is to feel it...i love this ,that we say,but we tend to feel it...once this love is inside you, you are totally changed. when a person feels the love in him,he will just lose all his tensions,angry everything. such a effect the love have on us......but only when we feel it.

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Side: choosing to feel
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Love is definetly a feeling. It's like being happy or sad. You would know you love a person, like you would know being happy. It's cuz you FEEL it. Then again, no one's ever "loved" me since the 4th grade...not that i know about ;) lol <3

Side: Love is a feeling
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love is feel in which always hurts me and makes me cry

to be honest I hate such feel in and try to avoid it as it possible!

to be alone is better!

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Zarinkayaa(59) Disputed
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I don't think that to be alone is better. I would be rather always cry then to be alone, I really agree with you that it hurts , but still believe that Love is amazing feeling ....

Side: Love is a choice
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Love is a feeling because it's very emotional affection , you became addicted when you are in love with a person who you love so much. On the other hand love is a pain.Love - is something that always hurts you. This love was so special, beautiful and truthful. I truly believed in this love and still believe. Feeling just for one, love just for him, and heart belongs to one guy who really deserve It. it’s so difficult to live a life when the dearest person is so far, million miles away, distance, countries, cities, towns, villages. Do you know how it is suffer every night and all the time of him? Do you know how it is painful and horrible to feel loneliness when you’re not? But this feeling is always pursues you, wants to catch you, confuse, torment, try you all the time, you want to hide from it but” Ohh nooo, You’re still lonely “ even if you have a love of your life but the reason of all troubles is distance because that person whom you love on another planet, so far . Distance is a pain. Love is pain. To love and to be loved is the best thing is our life.....!

Side: Love is a feeling
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Love is life.......its that beautiful feeling which is best of all...and no one can compete that feeling...

Side: Love is a feeling

Love is a choice. But you guys are too young to know this. You'll need to get married first.

Side: Love is a choice
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Love is the result of a series of choices, not just a single choice.

The choice to do kind things for someone, and to accept the kind things someone else does for you.

The choice to compromise for someone else's sake, and to appreciate when someone else compromises for your sake.

Love is making the choice to trust someone, and trusting in their choices as well....

Love isn't just a feeling, it's something you have to earn the fright to feel by making the right choices.

Side: Love is a choice

"It's more than a fee-eeling...."

Though I said earlier that love is a feeling, I also believe that it takes more than just feeling strongly about someone. You have to make the choice to live with them, the choice to trust them with your stuff, and the choice to promise to love them forever. It's a big deal.

Side: Love is a choice
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There were some very interesting and enlightening points of view on this subject.

I have come to believe that love is a choice, or as was said already, a series of choices. I DO believe that emotions stem from the choices that we make to love others, but ultimately, love is a choice.

Let's use a marriage as an example. There are many couples that get married because of they feel they are in love, but this is merely infatuation because they feel that excitement and newness in that relationship. When that newness dies off, so does the infatuation. You have to have a connection deeper than one's immediate feelings and the commitment to love someone by making the choice to sacrifice for the other person.

By laying selfishness aside and loving without the promise of return, you are going beyond infatuation and immediate emotions.

I believe that is what a love, a true love, comes down to.

Side: Love is a choice
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Love is a choice ,

So i chose to show you all these.

http://shechive.com/2009/11/30/love-is/

Its also a feeling.

Side: Love is a choice