Men who propose but make no move towards a wedding are using the ring to mark territory
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Marriage in general is out of selfishness and pride. The idea that this person is for you and for you only. They must sacrifice for the sake of "we're in love". Love doesn't eliminate sexual desire for others. It merely says "you can't act on those desires". It's useless. Side: Yep
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That's an ass hole thing to do. Why doesn't he just pee on her? I guess the girl could just say...., "You know...., my wedding ring is going to be brand spanking new and I want this engagement ring to be in pristine condition so that I can wear them together, so..., I'm just going to store it away until that day" ;) Side: Yep
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Weddings are useless. Marriage should be useless - if not for the legal importance associated with marriage. Men propose with no intentions of actual marriage because they believe in love but not marriage. Sex. Not love. Lust, sex, and the desire to own the object of his desire. Side: No
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Wow.....what shallow men we have on this site. Any man that would do what you are implying....is not worth being with. Boy there are a lot of weddings going on......really means boy are men stupid. Marriage is a wonderful institution. You must also have been hurt very badly...that or been marriage 4 or 5 times. To say only women want marriage.....LOL Side: No
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Yeah, I ran out of space in the line, sorry. I mean, he's just making sure everyone knows this girl is taken and that no one else can have her, but he isn't going to make the legal commitment of marriage. Marking his territory with an engagement ring, shows that she's taken. Side: No
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Sometimes, weddings are expensive. Sometimes, we're so in the moment we forget about the long-term. Sometimes, the only thing we need to love you is you, not a ritual. Sometimes, we're jealous and scared to loose you. Sometimes, we have commitment issues we want to power through one event at a time. Sometimes, we want to mark you as ours and us as yours. I think the real question is whether or not it's truly wrong to do any of these things. My answer is no. If we engage you, it's for a good reason. It's when we don't engage you but still stay with you for a long time that you should be worried and suspicious of foul-play. And even then, it doesn't necessarily mean we're using you. Side: No
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