Okay so my best friend from one of my other schools is having this issue and eveytime I get to talk to her she tells me and asks me what to do and honestly I have no clue. Help me help her?
My friend is dating this guy that she's like for awhile now and well she's having kinda mixed feelings on it. She really likes him, but then again she doesn't really want to be in a relationship at all. She doesn't want to hurt him by breaking up with him, but then again she doesn't want a relationship with someone she never really gets to see.
She keeps asking me what to do and I don't know because she really does like him and I do think that they could be a really good couple and so does she, but i don't want her to break up with him....right now. That's just my opinion. I wanna know what everyone thinks and why they think that so I can maybe help my best friend out a little better.
She wants the relationship, she just wants to see him more.
She probably sees little point in the relationship under current circumstances or finds such a situation as unsatisfying.
I guess the relationship is long distance, those can be made to work.
Communication is always the key in such matters and she should go for what she wants.
From the little info given it sounds like her desires for physical touch and better communication or actual time spent together is in conflict with her attachment to him. Skype, email, phones, mail, etc can all be used quite effectively once people understand their importance to each other, and thus to themselves.