SHOULD TEENAGERS HAVE GIRLFRIENDS ?
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Most teenagers are interested in dating . Parents think thats girlfriends control the lust of teengares , so they should have girlfriends . On the other hand , parents think thats girlfriends effect on the teengares life and make it worse .
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What do you think ???
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If anything, girls should not have boyfriends because teenage boys are full of lust and only interested in sex. Teenage girls on the other hand are more interested in families and socializing with friends. Girls are also wrongfully blamed for the lust of men. Men who can’t control their own selfish desires. If a woman is good to the eye, it is not her fault. It is nobody’s fault. But if you don’t like to lust, then learn how to control your own desires. Lust is also nobody’s fault. If you don’t like it, then that is you. But it is not wrong. We have chemicals in our body that create lust. Testosterone is a hormone that controls sexual feeling. Men have more testosterone then women so they lust more. The reason lust is not bad is because it makes us want to reproduce and make families. It is a natural thing to be attracted to women, not evil. So in the end, because lust is not bad and because relationships help teach teenagers about love and the other sex, teenage girls and boys should have boyfriends and girlfriends. Side: FOR
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yes when you ask a guy if they have a girlfriend they assume you want to know if their single or not because you want to date them or if they are good boyfriend material and if they can keep a girlfriend, usually when I'm asked i say yes and they next questions is ALWAYS how long have you been with her. so to me its asking either are you single if not how serious is the relationship by asking how long you been together obviously dating for 2 weeks isn't going to be as serious as been together for 5 years. so me being a typical male assumes when i answer 5 years with my girl i assume I'm good bf material but not so much because I'm not married yet lol Side: FOR
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the entire purpose of a relationship in high school is not (as it would be when you're older) to get married or have a hughe commitment. it is to learn about the important principles of a serious relationship so you're good at it when you are old enough to get really serious and to have a little fun. Side: FOR
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I think teenagers should wait until they are later on in their life. I've never dated anybody and I'm just waiting for the right person because I see the effects of having one and what it can do to someone when they break up. I don't want to feel heartbroken at an early age. I have a neighbor who she had a boyfriend for a year and she basically loved him and they broke up. I also have another next door neighbor who he dated many girls and it didn't really last long. I've known tons of people who their relationship didn't last, Teenage love doesn't really last that long. They rush a lot of things in their relationships and they say words that they don't even mean. I believe you shouldn't say you "love them" until you know you're going to be with them the rest of your life. It will only last for a few months until they are tired of each other or something doesn't work out. Like my mom usually says a lot of people change girlfriends like they do their socks! lol The purpose of dating is to try to find the right person to get married to. Lots of teenagers fool around dating and thinking it's just a game. Plus I rather date when I'm a lot older because a lot of the girls are really weird in high school and aren't really my type. Most of the girls are really crazy and wild. The only reason why I don't date is because my parents don't want me to and plus even if I did date a girl, there is really that comes to my mind on things to do because a lot of the things involve money because in order to please a girl you have to get her things and make her feel special. Side: AGAINST
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