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Same Sex Incest is Okay Oh Hell No
Debate Score:37
Arguments:55
Total Votes:38
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 Same Sex Incest is Okay (17)
 
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"Should Same Sex Family Members be Allowed to Marry?"

To: Same Sex Marriage Supporters

Would you allow for a brother to marry his brother?
A sister to marry her sister?  
A father to marry his son?
A mother to marry her daughter? 

If you would deny marriage to ANY of them....
on what grounds would you deny them?

Same Sex Incest is Okay

Side Score: 18
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Oh Hell No

Side Score: 19
1 point

I don't think there is anything wrong with incest as long as there is no reproduction, but child-parent incest is more wrong as the parent is in a position of control and influence, same reason as student-teacher relationships are banned.

Side: Same Sex Incest is Okay
Chuz-Life(497) Clarified
1 point

Should same sex siblings be permitted to marry one another?

How about a Father and his adult son?

A Mother and her adult daughter?

Side: Same Sex Incest is Okay
Elvira(3446) Clarified
1 point

I have nothing against same sex siblings marrying.

I don't think cases of parent-child incest would be common, but there is a possibility of this being an abuse case. (Think Craster and Gilly from the Game of Thrones books)

I don't really agree on parent-child incest because of the abuse factor, but exceptions could be made if both parties consent without any evidence of conditioning or pressuring.

Side: Same Sex Incest is Okay
1 point

What the hell... why shouldn't they be as miserable as the rest of us.

Side: Same Sex Incest is Okay

If it's all consensual all around I don't see a reason, as a person who won't be affected by it, why I should care.

Side: Same Sex Incest is Okay
1 point

Sure but I would not allow mother/daughter or father/son marriage, only brother on brother and sister on sister, and they still have to be over 18.

Side: Same Sex Incest is Okay

Incest is relative ;)

Side: Same Sex Incest is Okay

To be honest, I never saw any good reason to go against incest

Common arguments are as follows:

1. Because inbreeding results into defective children

- The chances of producing defective children occurs to everyone. By this logic, are you saying that people with raised chances of defective birth should be condemned?

2. Because Westermarck Effect says that close family members should not

- Same argument was raised towards homosexuals to the point that they condemned it as a mental disorder. Same argument will be raised here

3. Because it is disgusting

- I dont think its a valid reason

Conclusion:

I can understand that Incest is a taboo subject and some people can feel disturbed by the thought of it. However, it is outrageous to claim that incest should be illegal and banned in most nations. Your thoughts?

Side: Same Sex Incest is Okay
Chuz-Life(497) Clarified
1 point

I value your opinions a lot, Centifolia. You know I do. So, I would like your opinion on one aspect that you didnt touch on in your comments.

Under Article 1, Section 8 of our Constitution, our lawmakers (congress) has the Constitutional authority and the responsibility to makes laws to protect our rights and also to promote the GENERAL welfare. That gives Congress the authority to define laws on a very wide range of issues.

In short, the way I read the article is this; Congress (representatives of the people) has the right to define the parameters for what it will and will not recognize as marriage - so long as they abide by the Constitution in doing so. The onus is then on anyone outside of their definitions to challenge them and to prove that they are too restrictive.

Side: Same Sex Incest is Okay
Centifolia(1319) Clarified
1 point

Now my question is: "Is it moral to follow a law when it cannot be questioned"

Side: Same Sex Incest is Okay

Good question. While I'm in favor of gay marriage, I do wonder where the line should be drawn. Maybe the answer is to get rid of marriage altogether.

Side: Oh Hell No
2 points

Support.

The point of "Where the line should be drawn" is exactly the reason why I created this debate.

Side: Oh Hell No
Troy8(2433) Disputed
1 point

Marriage is not going to be eradicated anytime soon. That being said, I would not be opposed to it. Where do you want the line to be drawn though?

Side: Same Sex Incest is Okay

Allow gay marriage but not incest. However, I can't say why other than I think the former is normal and the latter is not.

Side: Same Sex Incest is Okay

I don't think they should marry because I think you should spare them from the drama, that will probably happen if they were to get a divorce.

If you marry a family member, you have no chance of cutting your relationship. The former spouse will show up at birthday parties, christmas and other events.

I am not totally against family members marrying actually, I just don't think it is a very smart thing to do.

Also, you can't allow gay family members marry and not straight family members, That's unfair.

Side: Oh Hell No

People who say that it is not fair for straight family members to marry..., usually have a hot sibling ;)

Side: Oh Hell No
Chuz-Life(497) Clarified
1 point

I know several people who are estranged from their families. Why do you say there is no chance of cutting a relationship with a family member?

And again, (like Mayo said) my question is more about where we should draw the line 'legally' as to what we will and will not allow as a government recognized 'marriage.'

Side: Same Sex Incest is Okay
shoutoutloud(4303) Clarified
1 point

Of course there is chance to cut your relationship with your family spouse, but you will have to cut the relationship with the rest of your family too, not so smart :/

Side: Same Sex Incest is Okay
shoutoutloud(4303) Clarified
1 point

And again, (like Mayo said) my question is more about where we should draw the line 'legally' as to what we will and will not allow as a government recognized 'marriage.'

I think you should draw the line with bestiality and necrophilia. Marriage is about love, and love has to go both ways sexually and emotionally. With those two it goes only one way, and that is from human to animal, and human to corpse, not the other way around.

I don't really have an opinion on whether incest should be legal. I think the arguments for it are valid, but I think it's a little creepy, but just because I think it's creepy shouldn't stop them from doing it.

I think we can have this discussion when the topic is like .. important. As for now there are few people who really want to marry their relative. There are thousands of homosexuals waiting for their right to marry, so I think we should be focused on giving them the rights first, since there are more of them. After that we can take up the discussion whether incest couples should marry too.

Side: Same Sex Incest is Okay
1 point

Listen, I support gay marriage but I don't support incest. I do thank you for bringing up on of the 'untouched' subjects involving this mass stigma people seem to have on both subjects. There are so many technicalities, this subject could go on forever. I'll have to stick with my own, established, moral compass here.

Side: Oh Hell No
Chuz-Life(497) Clarified
1 point

Playing devil's advocate here... but if two brothers loved each other unconditionally and wanted the tax benefits and such that all other married coupls have... why would you (or anyone else) deny a marriage to them? It's not like they can make deformed babies or anything like that with their physical relationship. Hell, they may even remain celebate.

Side: Same Sex Incest is Okay
Keith1988(34) Clarified
1 point

Fact is, I wouldn't stop it - I'd just personally not want anything to do with it. I'm not gay or anything and I'm not subject to personal affections towards siblings. The fact remains, though I do not support incest - there is no possible way I could say no to something I don't and will never understand. If there was somewhere in the middle I could stand, I would.

Side: Same Sex Incest is Okay
Centifolia(1319) Clarified
1 point

Disapprovals has its reasons. I would like to hear yours, please share it

Side: Same Sex Incest is Okay
Chuz-Life(497) Clarified
1 point

I didn't express any disapproval. However, I will admit that I lean in that direction and my reasoning is in line with what I said on the other side (Article 1, Section 8 - & GENERAL welfare).

Side: Same Sex Incest is Okay
1 point

Are you insane? Same sex marriage by its self is already testing the temper of The Lord. Throw in incest and now your just trying to piss him off.

Side: Oh Hell No
TheAshman(2299) Disputed
1 point

Is that testing the temper of the peaceful all loving Christian God? Surely if he did something to punish the world for allowing such a dire catastrophe as same sex marriage like I dunno flooding the planet and killing everyone surely that would make him a violent deity not unlike the violent spiritual leader of Islam who you keep complaining about and according to you a religion based on the acts of a violent deity make that religion a dangerous religion of violence and its followers dangerous violent people.

Side: Same Sex Incest is Okay
warrior(1854) Disputed
1 point

When God sends forth punishment on to the world of nam he dose so as a parent disciplining their child who has done wrong. Children who break the rules are disciplined man kind is God's child.

Side: Oh Hell No
1 point

no. that would be.. well no offence to anybody but that'd be disgusting. i don't mind gay marriages, but gay marriages between family members would just be something wrong

Side: Oh Hell No