Should parents let teens make their own decisions after 18?
Of course, we are always children of our parents. However, sometimes they think that we haven't been grown yet and that we can't accept our own decision. They often make us to do what they want. What do you think? Is it right or not?
Yes, they should
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No, they shouldn't
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Certainly, our parents always worry for us and wish us only the best. At the same time they should trust us because we should learn to be responsible for our actions and problems. That's why they should give us a chance to accept our own decisions, to feel how it is to be adult, to understand how to decide problems without anybody's help. In this way we also must make them understand that we deserve their trust. Side: Yes, they should
That is right. Parents have to let teens make decisions by themselves. Besides, if you are 18 years old or elder, the legislation of country gives you ability to do what you want. It means that you totally independent individual. However, there are so many cases when parents are too strict to their grown-up children and try to control all their actions, circle of friends and the worst thing is that parents interference with private life. As the result such teens have many psychological and sociological problems. Some of them are not able to start own family because such people under control. That is why parents have to let teenagers to make decisions in order to provide independence for them and help to become adults. Side: Yes, they should
Well, a the job of a parent is to help guide their children through life. Age doesn't matter. But, parents need to let go and hope that children make good decisions on their own. Hopefully this starts befor eage 18 and carries on thoughout their life. Bottom line is that I believe the maturity level of the child is what determines the need for parental involvement. Side: Yes, they should
According to Denise Witmer, representative of Human Psychology Association, parents should let teens make their own decision for their own sake. Since when teens get a chance to be responsible for something they start to understand that it is not so easy. They also begin to feel importance of making own decision. By this experience, they would be able to claim about their future decisions in right way. Moreover, It also may influence that they would more appreciate decisions of their parents. Side: Yes, they should
It does not matter what they "let" them do. Once they are 18 teens can make their own decisions. In some cases parents pay tuitions and give their children spending money when in college have a bit of leverage in their childs decisions, but over all it is not up to them. Side: Yes, they should
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Of course adults should have their freedom - but that freedom is always limited somewhat, no matter what you do. It's limited by the law, by your job, money, landlord, bills... we live in a very limited world. If an 18 year old is still living with their parents, then their house and their rules still need to be respected. For example, parents shouldn't be able to say who their adult child can and can't hang out with - but they can definitely say who is and isn't allowed in their house... and if they're still paying for their child's food, car, cellphone, internet and whatever other bills, they have a right to dictate how those are used too. If an 18 year old wants freedom, they need to step up and take on some of those responsibilities. Side: No, they shouldn't
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I just wanted to point out that it's not so black and white. Turning 18 is not a magical day when everyone suddenly becomes mature adults. As children grow, parents need to hold back gradually more and more, even if it means they make some mistakes. Hopefully, by the time society deems a someone ready for adult responsibilities, they really will be ready. Even then, parents are vital sources of encouragement and advice. Parents will always have a role in their children's decisions, and their active involvement in the child's life beyond childhood is priceless. Side: No, they shouldn't
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