Studies show that bad sex is a major issue in a marriage. I think it is important to connect with your partner both emotionally and sexually, and before you commit to marriage it is important that you know you do both.

You have to think rationally - you are committing to stay with this partner for the rest of your LIFE - it is your life we're talking about, don't you wanna make the best of it?

Of course you can get a divorce if everything goes really bad, but I don't think you should enter a marriage with an attitude, that you're just gonna get a divorce if it doesn't work.

Should I? Sure.... and plenty of it.

I feel it's better to figure out what's going on with your partner down there before becoming wed.

the reason premarital sex was forbidden in the first place is to avoid unplanned pregnancies and abortions and it was also a way to protect women. but now women are becoming more and more strong and independent. today marriage is a choice for women not an obligation. So why shouldn't we have premarital sex?

Why not?

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Yeah, not everyone wants to get married.

I don't see a reason why not to... why allreligions have a need to control my sex life???

The way I see it, teenagers are told to not do three things: Drugs, Alcohol, and Sex. However, only two out of the three are actually bad for you. On the other hand, sex is healthy and good for you. As long as protection is used and both participants are okay with it, then it's fine.

Of course. No point in marrying them if they're not a good fuck...

No one wants to marry a bad lay .

I think that if somebody wants to have sex before marriage, than they have every right to make that choice. These days it is even acceptable in society. So I do not see why it should not be allowed, I think it should. Although I fully respect those who decide to wait until marriage as well. It is just up to every individuals own beliefs and opinion.

You don't have to, but it's ok if you do. Sex is a way of exploring and developing your relationships. As long as you don't hook up with every random person you meet and it's consensual I think it's acceptable.

Why the hell not?

What about ...should we be allowed to run before marriage?

Yes, yes, oh my God yes! ;)

Yes, people who have premarital sex are usually more popular. Popular people have good people skills and are attractive. This gives them opportunities to join fraternities and sororities. This leads to networking opportunities at major corporations.