What should you do...?
So, speaking in a "hypothetical" situation, if you like a guy a lot, but you know that he's pretty much "obsessed" with another girl, what should you do?
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Be their best friend and help them with whatever they need. That whole 'friend zone' thing is a farce. I'm married to my old best friend from high school, because we are able to have fun together, don't have silly expectations to meet, and enjoy having something more with our friendship. 1
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If he's obsessed, that implies the lack of a relationship with the girl he's focused on. What I'd do is use that as ammunition. I'd find out more information about the girl he's focused on. If she's a bitch, or if she has ANY undesirable personality traits, I'd become the guy's friend, and over time, subtly hint at the girl's bad side, hopefully making his focus turn from her to his new friend: you. Though personally, I'm going to say now, love and courtship as a competition as you describe is a disaster waiting to happen. I suggest as a primary strategy, my former one being second to this one, that you just get over him and not get involved. You should wait for someone willing to love you for you without much trouble instead of chasing someone you're obsessed over like the guy is doing with the girl he's obsessed over. |