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 Why do you people tell other they barely know about their sexual abuse? (21)

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Why do you people tell other they barely know about their sexual abuse?

It always surprises me when people on forums such as this tell people about how they've been raped or sexually abused. To me it seems like one of the most personal thing and not something you would want to casually chat about. So...why do they do it and what do they expect to achieve? Do they do it for attention? Sympathy? Pity?  

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Maybe they've all been brainwashed by nike to "just do it"

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I feel pretty ashamed. I really shouldn't have laughed so much

feelingtruth(2776) Clarified
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lol I don't even know how what I said made sense now that I have read over it xD

Do you mean when they tell exactly how they were raped? when, where and details?

I've mentioned on here that I've been molested, but I haven't really gotten into details or anything.

I don't think people who do get into details want attention or pity or anything.

Sometimes it's just nice to come out with stuff, without having any goal or hoping for any achievement, as you call it.

If they don't have anybody to talk to about their feelings, and get the anger out and stuff, forums like this where they're totally anonymous are perfect for that.

Until you've experienced rape yourself, you can't truly put yourself into that situation. That is why some people think people are begging for attention and pity.. but truly they just want to let the anger, disappointment and fear out.

Imagine going around with these thoughts in your head all day.. you go crazy if you don't get to talk to anyone about them.

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Thank you for that.

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I want to be free from shame, and educate people. That is why I am open about my past. If I help one person, it is all worth it.

They expect to achieve many things and most expect to feel liberation from it. Sometimes sympathy can help sometimes. They may just want to feel freed from the past instead of just them feeling cursed with such a tragic memory. Maybe they want to feel pity. It is really hard to tell.

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I want to be free from shame, and educate people. That is why I am open about my past. If I help one person, it is all worth it.

That is good. Continue doing what you are doing. It is all good.

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There is nothing wrong with explaining that you are a survivor of abuse. I know you made this about me and I was just explaining why I am against rape. I did not go into graphic detail, and you have some nerve playing the victim when you defended rapists. I was not even wishing Hell on them like you said. I was just saying that I have the right to make a stand against rape. I refuse to live in silence, and if that offends your delicate sensibilities, too fucking bad. Feel free to ban me lovey, because I am tired of this, copy that?

Atrag(5666) Disputed
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How did I defend the rapist? How? Can you give just one quote or did this all happen in your head?

I can understand now why some people want to talk about it. But you're different. You're completely flew off your rocker with me just because I won't give you a load of sympathy about you being abused? Its not even my business. I'm allowed to say that it's not worse than murder. Now I'm being followed by you around the forum throwing insults. I see that you have problems but we shouldn't have to suffer your insults which usually stem from you just not being able to comprehend what someone says.

I'd so love to give you a good hard slap in the face.

Sitara(11080) Disputed
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If you tried to slap me, you would hit the floor buddy. Maybe I am wrong about you defending rapists, but you are an ass. Fuck you for downvoting my comment about being molested and raped. You are being ignored until I say otherwise. I am praying for you.

Sitara(11080) Disputed
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I am not following you either. Stop lying. .