if you fancie someone, what do you do? :o
well, i made this with cakemallow25!
i would like to see other peoples opinions on this but i know what i would do and you can read that down below, but i think that there are more people that i know who wouldnt have the courage to ask them out and so would i, but you can read what i would say down below! but i know what cakemallow25 would do and think if people are really confident in it, they can boost her confidence when it comes to things like this!!! LET ME KNOW!
ask them out!
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admire from a far!
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well, if you fancie someone and you are sure that he/she is not interested in anyone specific or is not dating, then ask them out. allot of people think it might be weird for a girl to ask a guy out but that is normal...also, what if that person admires you as well? but then again..you should think about the fireback you might get... what if that person does not like you in that kind of way? and what if he/she turns you down? many other things as well... Side: ask them out!
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Try over a period of time to get here to go places with your, dress nicely, act appropriately, and remember to throw a bit of humor in. If she is interested, after a couple of times, she'll make it clear to you. Body language and especially in her eyes, mate. If it's a guy...well pretty easy to tell really :P Side: ask them out!
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well, i know definatly what i would do, i REALLY dont have the confidence and courage to ask someone out because i always think that they will say no, and that would be really embarrassing if i was going to know them for a while :( but i know the saying "u never know unless you try" but if it doesnt work i will never forogive myself for doing it! but i dont really admire them from a far or anything like that i mean i am normally good friends with them and talk to them like as a normal conversation, and like we are really good friends, but i mean that woud all change if i ever asked the person out, and we probably would never be best friends, or never as close even, but i mean i might even find out that, i was better friends with him than i we would be as a couple and i know that if you are really good friends with the person and you go out, i dont really think that you would be as close to the person, i mean when you break up, u definatly wont be as close and you would think was it worth it? all of the friendship gone because it didnt work out the other way and i wouldnt want to waste that! i mean, i even think that we would be better as friends anyway and i dont think that he would go out with me if i asked, but some of my friends seem to think that he would i mean i dont think that he has given of any signals that show he does like me, i mean he has sometimes but well i dont know really but i know for a fact i wouldnt ask them out, especially not face to face and if i did get someone to ask him out, and he said no, i would just make sure that she says she was joking so it wouldnt be obveiuse and i would be able to stay friends and be able to get over him! even if the person i did fancy asked me out, i would still be scared to say yes because i wouldnt want to embarris myself infront of him and the worst thing is is that if he dumps me but i think i would say yes even though i would be scared and shy inside but OH WELL! :( Side: admire from a far!
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that is true, you cannot risk your friendship if you are not sure, wait a little longer, and if he shows signs or whatever they call those things maybe you will get a glance that he likes you (if he does) so all you can do really is wait. if he likes you he will come eventually right? Side: ask them out!
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It is so much better to admire from a distance because... 1. If you ask him out and he says no; embarrassing! 2. If you admire from a distance you can do all sorts: Imagine, daydream, dream and even base characters from stoies on him without him knowing - not that I've done that... (shy face!) 3. If you ask him out and the actual being-his-girlfriend part isn't that good, it's gonna be a disappointment if you've done all that daydreaming! I know I've told you all this before, dollymix44, but as we made this together I might as wll put an argument down! Side: admire from a far!
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well, if you do the second choice you put, maybe someone would notice you drooling because of your daydreams, that would be majorly embarrassing, and it also is really creepy...i mean..come on, you need to get some courage and ask him out! you can't simply admire forever right? even if you do admire from a distance, you will end up liking him more and then when another girl asks him out and he agrees, you will be crushed wont you? so why wait and wait for another girl to take him away only cause you are afraid of the consequences! Side: ask them out!
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I don't drool when I daydream and rarely daydream when he's there. When he's there, I concentrate on how CUTE he looks...! Also, I don't have much courage or experience with the boyfriend thing. I've liked someone who had a girlfriend, before, and I didn't care. And then there's the problem with asking him out - one of my best friends, who has more experience with the boyfriend thing but doesn't like him as much or for as long, likes him too. She said it's fine if I ask him out but I know she'll be really upset and jealous. Side: ask them out!
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