Anyway girls make first choice of a partner. With whom they will have relationships, with whom won't.

About first step: why not? Man can be weak in this situations, so let us be weak in making first steps :)

I will not say "better", but for me American Football is more is interesting. At the begining i thought that AF is stupid game, where players just hustle with each other, but then i realize that there is a deep strategy in this "hustles".

Even if we take an example of the love stories between an older gentleman and an attractive young woman. Do you think when the gentleman afford to the woman expensive clothes, cars and holidays in Bali they can create love feelings between them? Maybe some intimate, but not love. You buy a picture of love, not this feelings. I Think It's the same with happiness, we can buy things wich create illusion of happiness, but not exactly this feeling :)