For most people, the first time they start to think about sex is when they are teenagers. In the teen ages, sex seems like a huge deal, especially if you are a teenage virgin. A lot of teenagers lose their virginity out of insecurity, peer pressure and/or hormonal changes, and so on and so forth. However, if they manage to wait until they have really fallen in love, are ready and feel like they are in a safe place, sex is beautiful. I speak out of my own experience. I do believe sex is private and personal; not to be shared with anyone.

Before I had lost my virginity, sex seemed like such a big deal but after the act it really wasn't. I was in love, had been together with the boyfriend for a while, he was in love with me and I felt safe. Despite the nerves, it was an experience I would not have liked to have had any other time or place.

I believe if you have sex with people you genuinely care about it is amazing and really not that much of a big deal.