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Janim it is worrying that you have made this experince,but you can not compare your relationship with this and say cohabitation is a bad thing.I think it was good for you knowing it before your marriage,divorce after marriage will hurt you more.
Dear Zhazira it is nice to debate with you and see your point of view about cohabitation.By the way do you see the link of the studies about cohabitation,there are a lot of people who make in real this experince.Time managing depend on people and it is not a huge problem for a relationship.
Cohabitation means not being 24 hours together or no freetime,it is not jail.Every relationship make their organizing about daily tasks,spending time together and freetime for yourself.If you look on a whole week everbody is working and spend most their weekend together.Cohabited people also think about their future,even more than married people,because they don't want to make mistakes in their marriage.They go with knowing everything in the wright order to a marriage.
Look to this study of Wendy D.Manning Director of the Center for Family and Demographic Research.
http://paa2006.princeton.edu/papers/
New studies show that cohabitation before marriage has a good effect on your marriage later.
Yes the difference is making your sign for marriage :) İs it not wonderful that you will not find out everything about your partner? Suprises after cohabitation also exist,that's why you should be for cohabitation.I don't understand your next argument about getting bored,if you are after marriage also in suprise,why should it be than boring? Before not knowing each other and marrying will lead you to divorce.Think about a cake,you know all the ingredients about it and later you put on a marvelous souce.:)
People change,but not enormous.One foot in grave means for me you have only one life,because of that you must make your decision for marrying very good.Think you are married,have a child and get divorced,but if you live before in cohabitation you will know should you get a child from this person or not.
In your words for not paying the milk later is cohabitation.People must know each other,your strong and weaknesses,have you similar expectations from life,how do you manage finance together,is your partner selfish,are you making your decisions together.
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